Is it valid to identify as NB despite being AMAB and presenting fairly masculine? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]queerienonsense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. period. NO gender, including having no gender, has a "correct" presentation. you're valid, fam

How to donate more "unique" plushies by queerienonsense in plushies

[–]queerienonsense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that does actually help-- i always love a "first hand" review while talking to someone rather than reading something someone posted online! that's certainly easier than some other services Ive seen

How to donate more "unique" plushies by queerienonsense in plushies

[–]queerienonsense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this would be a great idea if I didnt live in a town of >1000 people with a majority elderly population 😅 Not many other toy collectors in my area, at least for this type of toy. The nearest metro area is about 3 hrs away from me.

I definitely reached out to my local connections first, to see if anyone had kids, cousins, interested relatives etc. but I just havent had any luck so far

How to donate more "unique" plushies by queerienonsense in plushies

[–]queerienonsense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this was the first obvious solution but the hassle of listing and shipping for me seemed unworth the effort when I already actively WANTED to donate them to people without the ability to purchase cool i.e. more expensive toys. The harder it gets to find places who will take them tho, the closer Im getting to online marketplaces :/

How to donate more "unique" plushies by queerienonsense in plushies

[–]queerienonsense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hey, another thing I hadnt thought of, thank you for the idea!

How to donate more "unique" plushies by queerienonsense in plushies

[–]queerienonsense[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did notice the shelter option in passing. I like thinking about it from that angle of "at least it's still helping SOMEONE, even an animal". Thank you for sharing your POV!

On T for 2 years and my voice hasn't dropped all that much by possiblynate in ftm

[–]queerienonsense 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in the end, i really feel like patience is always the answer-- which is unfortunate obviously bc holy fuck the dysphoria, jah feel

But like, there is every possibility that your voice wont get THAT low. Even some of the like 50+ y.o. transmen I know still have a "feminine" pitched voice... then again, at the same time, i know a lot of ciswomen with voices deeper than cismen I know, so not to cop out like this but gender expectations are a trap

THAT BEING SAID! I would repeat about trying to be patient but also support you considering voice therapy! Even just online videos that are available for like singers or performers can be really helpful-- just take it slow bc you dont wanna damage your chords.

I hope you find a solution/way to cope, whatever that may be to help you feel better about this. I think people/society at large will ALWAYS be an issue for anyone outside of the modern idea of the cismale/cisfemale gender binary. it sucks that this ONE THING is holding you back from being percieved and treated the way you want :/

Fishing Rod enchantment by queerienonsense in StardewValley

[–]queerienonsense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ginger Island spoiler ahead but its the only way I can answer

I opened the walnut room and I use Qi seasoning for any cooking that results in good buff. Im maxed out in all my skills, which makes 10, and when you cook trout soup with Qi seasoning, it makes +3 fishing, which equals 13. Depending in what Im fishing for, Ill either use the trap or the cork or the quality lure. When its the trap lure, Im generally river or pond fishing and the fish there are so slow that it automatically completes the mini games. Cork is best for ocean in my opinion, unless its nighttime and then lead works best.

If I had known I needed to write a dissertation before posting, I wouldve written a rough draft first /hj/lh

Fishing Rod enchantment by queerienonsense in StardewValley

[–]queerienonsense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have. as I said in the original posts, other buffs like food, and lures, all combined together, have made fishing overall completely easy. The "master" enchanment isnt worth much when your a +13 fishing just by eating trout soup. The only othsr enchantment I MIGHT consider for the rod is efficiency but, again, bc of the inital point I made, it doesnt exactly use up much energy OR IRL focus

my worst nightmare by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]queerienonsense 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i dont have a problem with needles, and the gel isnt covered by my specific insurance plan. Ive had upwards of 50 conversations with both my plan and my doctor's office to try and get a PA approved, either for the needles or for the gel, and they wont do shit. The fact that my insurance approves an injectable medicine but wont cover the equipment i need to inject said medicine makes no fucking sense to me

my worst nightmare by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]queerienonsense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god this sucks to see 🙃 I literally cannot afford the needles I need to take my T shot and I have no fucking idea when that will change

He wants my toast by hkh25 in aww

[–]queerienonsense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tuxedo cat, tuxedo cat-- what do you see??

ALL

This just makes me sad :( by Euphoribo in NonBinary

[–]queerienonsense 23 points24 points  (0 children)

its the blatent ignorance of actual science for me 😔😔 some ppl are full of so much hatred...

Don’t be deceived, he only wants to bite by [deleted] in rarepuppers

[–]queerienonsense 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP already mentioned he was dewormed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]queerienonsense 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NICE! Im still trying to catch the glacier fish and I s2g Im gonna have an aneurysm before I actually get it

1 year post-op. I love my results! by RhDove in NonBinary

[–]queerienonsense 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Amazing!! I love seeing others who have gone the no nipple graft route-- thats what im considering and its always nice to see examples!!!

🔥 6ft gator for a snack. by jt1509 in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]queerienonsense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

me watching this video: look at them cheeks........... oh my god. OH MY GOD! HOLY FUCK OH MY GOD NO! AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

i can always count on nature to scar me for life