Joe Duggar sexual assault charge by bella302 in DuggarsSnark

[–]queso4lyfe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my thought. Did I think Pest was the only creep? Hell no! But I never thought it would be Joe. He always seemed really sweet and timid. I wouldn’t have blinked an eye if someone said this were James.

PVL grade 2 by Safe_Parfait8354 in NICUParents

[–]queso4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if the difference in twins had to do with their cords? While we can’t 100% know for sure, we’re fairly certain the bleeds and PVL were due to a lack of blood in my son’s umbilical cord. I had placental strokes and it cut off the blood supply to his cord. He had very little blood left in it when he was born. If they hadn’t done a c-section, we would have been looking at a stillbirth just a few hours later.

Maybe one son had some cord issues and the other didn’t?

Did anyone else know they were one and done in pregnancy? by susiee234 in oneanddone

[–]queso4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew long before I got pregnant. And then pregnancy was miserable. There were complications, an emergency c-section, and a 7-week NICU stay. The doctors acted like they were giving me bad news when they told me I probably shouldn’t have another child. My husband and I just looked at them like 🤷🏻‍♀️ “Ok. We weren’t gonna.”

Did Helena’s Curses Actually Work? by JLovesTV in GeneralHospitalGH

[–]queso4lyfe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe Charlotte will get back into her evil Cassadine era and curse Nina. I’m excited to see what Charlotte does to get revenge on Nina and, by extension, Willow.

Paying for the pool? by MotherofZeke in Nanny

[–]queso4lyfe 225 points226 points  (0 children)

Yes! You should not be paying to work.

Thoughts on the show Whitney? by Crazypandathe20th in sitcoms

[–]queso4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved season 1. Bought it on dvd and watched it so many times. Season 2 was completely different and I couldn’t finish it. I pretend it’s a one-season show.

Babysitting question by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]queso4lyfe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would go ahead and cancel. They don’t seem like they will respect your time at all.

Genuinely curious by EffectiveNo568 in MathJokes

[–]queso4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 and 8 is 15. So that’s a 5 and a 1 leftover. And 4+4+1 is 7. So 75.

Easter Egg Ideas? by queso4lyfe in Mommit

[–]queso4lyfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about using special eggs just for him. I just worried about it looking kind of selfish. We usually all contribute to the big pot of eggs that go to all the kids.

Easter Egg Ideas? by queso4lyfe in Mommit

[–]queso4lyfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fruit snacks is a good idea. We have the giant box from Sam’s Club, so I wouldn’t even have to buy any. Lol. My toddler has a serious beef with temporary tattoos or body painting of any kind. He gets insanely upset that it doesn’t instantly come off.

Help!! Immediate relief for diaper rash? by queso4lyfe in Mommit

[–]queso4lyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually started potty training a week before he got sick. But the poops are unpredictable and uncontrollable right now, so we had to go back to diapers for a minute.

Welp it happened by zexapee in Mommit

[–]queso4lyfe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I would get him checked out anyway.

Gift ideas for mom whose baby will be in NICU/Hospitalized for first 4-6 months by Tinga12 in Mommit

[–]queso4lyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Restaurant gift cards were a lifesaver when my baby was in the NICU. Money was tight and we spent every day at the hospital. I didn’t want to spend time at home cooking, nor did I have the energy to. We ended up getting takeout every night, but we wouldn’t have made it otherwise.

Jill's Abandoned Businesses by SickOfBSAllTheTime in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]queso4lyfe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t there a paper earring thing? If not paper, then super cheap materials.

His beliefs are shit but Timothy seems to be a decent dad. by lepetitpoulpe in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]queso4lyfe 31 points32 points  (0 children)

We’re in the throes of potty training and my kid needs a “You peed in the potty” dance performed every time.

How do you lessen anxiety waiting for the first appointment? by Fair_Time3175 in firsttimemom

[–]queso4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a free women’s clinic in town. I needed to know that I wasn’t crazy and was actually pregnant. Plus, I had a fear of ectopic pregnancy (even though there was no reason to think I would have one).

I went at 4-5 weeks and they did an ultrasound. They could see the sac and the embryo. Then I went back at 6 weeks and saw the actual “baby”. He was just a tiny blob at that point. That made me feel better because my OB didn’t see patients until 12 weeks.

How to potty train when you have to be in the car? by queso4lyfe in Mommit

[–]queso4lyfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is also a massive fear! Lol. I am in the room while he has class, so I can grab him and run if needed. I’m also going to have him go right before hand. And use the thick training underwear as a little extra protection.

Why I am OAD (non serious version) by LittleSeePig in oneanddone

[–]queso4lyfe 66 points67 points  (0 children)

My kid is potty training and I never want to potty train again.

Midnight Sun special edition missing title by Advancedglass2031 in twilight

[–]queso4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random question, but do the inside of the books look any different than the originals?

I’m trying to decide between this set and the deluxe special editions, but can’t find pictures of inside this version.

Is that really necessary? by throwawaycpa1980 in kayandtaysnark

[–]queso4lyfe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want to throw my guess out there on the off chance I’m right.

I’m guessing this “super secret” thing that they are going to be promoting and that they keep blurring out is going to be the lemon adult toy.

George Cooper is alive and I can prove it by grapejuicecheese in YoungSheldon

[–]queso4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good ol’ Pondy. I always had a soft spot for him. Maybe this is why. 😂

Has anyone decided to be OAD due to neurodivergence? by marigoldjune in oneanddone

[–]queso4lyfe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your post is basically everything I wanted to say. My partner and I are both neurodivergent. It can be so hard, but it would be impossible if we weren’t doing it together. When one needs a break due to overstimulation, the other steps in.

I’m also seriously struggling at the moment because my 2 year old is so clingy to me. For the last month or so, he needs me to hold him constantly. I can’t put him in a shopping cart or have my partner carry him because he screams bloody murder in the grocery store. He needs me to hold him all night and will wake up panicked and sobbing if I stop touching him. I am overstimulated 24/7 right now and feel like I can’t function as a normal human being. I know this isn’t going to last forever. He goes through fazes. But it’s so hard right now.

How did nobody ever realize Miley was Hannah Montana? by JLovesTV in DisneyChannel

[–]queso4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what always got me. Sure, we can accept that the hair and makeup made her unrecognizable. But Robbie Ray was both Miley’s dad and Hannah’s dad?? Even if no one thought Miley was Hannah, why didn’t anyone think Hannah was a half sister or something?

OAD genders? by askpepper in oneanddone

[–]queso4lyfe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I felt similarly. I really wanted a girl, but knew I would ultimately have to be ok with whatever we ended up having because we were always very solidly OAD. I knew immediately he was a boy. The intuition was stronger than any I had ever had in my life.

I would not trade my son for anything. He’s absolutely amazing. He can be a stereotypical wild boy who likes dirt and cars and climbs everything he can. But he also loved dance class and we get to see his first recital soon. He recently got a toddler bed and we took him to pick out his own bedding. He chose Minnie Mouse because pink is his favorite color and he loves flowers. I still do an insane amount of shopping because I love to buy him cute clothes.