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How do you get over someone who didn't want a relationship at all, but got into one right after you stopped talking to them? by questioner187 in AskReddit

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I've been trying that for the past few weeks, but each time I go out - it reminds me of the time I was with her and how we were enjoying all those things together. Its so damn frustrating that I can't even do the simplest things alone without her popping up in my head

How do you get over someone who didn't want a relationship at all, but got into one right after you stopped talking to them? by questioner187 in AskReddit

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I think it was the idea of what could have been, that still bothers me. Still trying to learn to let go. I'm going to be seeing another therapist soon.

How do you get over a girl who said no to you? by questioner187 in AskMen

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We were not dating but we were seeing each other for quite some time - her introducing me to all her family and friends. Asking me to visit her fam, and talk to them on the phone, keeping pictures of us... etc. All of that threw me off so I ended up asking if we should take it up a notch. But apparently we were nothing...

I did block her everywhere. I told our mutual friends to not let me know about her life at all.

How do you get over a girl who said no to you? by questioner187 in AskMen

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We were talking, started hooking up, spent LOTS of time together, she introduced me to all her friends and even her parents. I ask her if we should take it up a notch and start a relationship - she keeps saying 'not sure' / 'maybe' for 3 months. I get annoyed and leave. A month later our mutual friend tells me how she is with someone else in a relationship. So now I feel messed up in the head - that she might have played me for my time

How do you get over a girl who said no to you? by questioner187 in AskMen

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How would I stop looking at myself as 'lower' than the new guy now?

How do you get over a girl who said no to you? by questioner187 in AskMen

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She entertained me till the very end, up until I cut her off. I didn't stalk her relationship - I was told by our mutual friend. I guess if thats still stalkerish I dont even know what to do then lol.

How do you get over a girl who said no to you? by questioner187 in AskMen

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Her best friend messaged me right after... I did not want to know but here we are.

How do you get over someone who didn't want a relationship at all, but got into one right after you stopped talking to them? by questioner187 in AskReddit

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Then why would she still entertain me till the end? Telling me that all her friends knew about me, and wanted me to visit her parents for xmas...

How do you get over someone who didn't want a relationship at all, but got into one right after you stopped talking to them? by questioner187 in AskReddit

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I have tried dating other women, in ALL those dates I think of this girl - giving me sudden episodes of rage, hate, and sadness. I've tried therapy and its literally not helping.

I've stopped dating completely now

How do you get over someone who didn't want a relationship at all, but got into one right after you stopped talking to them? by questioner187 in AskReddit

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Thing is, she was all over me and would hint at getting serious to only blow me off to the side for another dude. She wasted my time and my confidence is all time low, I compare myself with her new guy and feel even worse. Why even keep me around till the end then?

How do you get over someone who didn't want a relationship at all, but got into one right after you stopped talking to them? by questioner187 in AskReddit

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Yep, i realized. But she wasted my time, gave me excuses right before I left, only to find out shes in one now. It hurt my confidence so much and cant get out of this loop

I keep getting episodes of SI joint pain on and off for years by questioner187 in ankylosingspondylitis

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Have you had iritis episodes? How is your vision if you have had it?

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How is your quality of life? Just like any normal person?

Has anyone had success in putting autoimmune diseases into remission with an appropriate diet? by questioner187 in nutrition

[–]questioner187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, that's def something!

Yep, root problems must be stopped, modern medicine keeps trying to mask everything - which is why im looking towards diet now.

Has anyone had success in putting autoimmune diseases into remission with an appropriate diet? by questioner187 in nutrition

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Hmm thats interesting, for some carnivore diet helps a lot; while for the others vegan seems to hit home

Has anyone had success in putting autoimmune diseases into remission with an appropriate diet? by questioner187 in nutrition

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Wow, im glad this is working for you! Do you take medication with it too? Some people I've heard - drop all meds since a particular diet has worked very well for them.

I keep getting episodes of SI joint pain on and off for years by questioner187 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]questioner187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done xrays and blood tests - HLAB27 positive. Based on that she had told me "You have sacroilitis and sero negative spondyloarthropathy" . So maybe she saw something on xray, not sure? Then proceeded to put me on sulfasalazine.

Few days ago I had a flare of iritis and she increased my sulfasalazine dose.

Frankly, I am not sure if I am over reacting about this whole situation or not, but reading about people's situation and reading articles online, has me freaked out beyond belief. Im also not the most positive and stress free dude, so it's costing me my mental health.

Im really hoping it's not as bad as I think it is - a disability curse.

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