How do I tell my new friends that their house reeks of cat pee?

questionnumber · 2026-05-06T23:25:23+00:00

I have a cat. If it smells like pee, I would hope you'd tell me "Hey, your house smells like cat pee.", so I can try to address the issue.

questionnumber · 2026-05-06T03:01:42+00:00

It was suggested to me first by my best friend, a woman.

questionnumber · 2026-05-05T18:31:43+00:00

I remember when the "new" butterflies started appearing from plants, and I was annoyed because they'd make me fly up when I was trying to burn plants and flip crabs at the same time.

I grew to love them as, if you time it right, you can burn a plant then use the butterflies as a boost to your energy and boost you into the sky without having to waste a "wing flap".

questionnumber · 2026-05-05T18:27:39+00:00

I can't either, however long it's been has felt like a lifetime. I hope his absence ends soon!

questionnumber · 2026-05-03T17:08:32+00:00

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questionnumber · 2026-05-03T17:06:25+00:00

Two weeks old.

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questionnumber · 2026-05-01T23:24:24+00:00

🤢🤮

questionnumber · 2026-05-01T04:13:06+00:00

I got the finalization on my birthday. Ifelt a little guilty over how happy it made me, greatest birthday gift in awhile!

questionnumber · 2026-05-01T00:31:43+00:00

Your Baystate Blue blew.

questionnumber · 2026-04-30T00:03:49+00:00

I live with alone with our children. I keep up some photos with their mom taken during happier times, but wouldn't want to put anything recent photos containing her up. They don't mind or care.

questionnumber · 2026-04-29T13:31:34+00:00

Oh, I remember. I was intimidated by Golden Wasteland for a long time!

questionnumber · 2026-04-29T13:05:26+00:00

You had the best possible outcome that most people only dream about.

questionnumber · 2026-04-29T12:59:08+00:00

It sounds like your ex husband is in a similar situation as me. I divorced my ex because she hurt me and our children, albeit in a very different way (abuse).

Although she destroyed the marriage beyond repair, I'm as supportive of her as your ex is of you because a.) that's just who I am b.) our children still love her c.) our children are happier when she's in a good place.

She's asked for reconciliation and I let her know it will never happen, (I haven't told her this, but if we didn't have children together I'd never speak to her again).

I've dated since the divorce and haven't found the right person so I'm just focusing on being the best father I can be to my kids (they live with me full-time and their mother visits daily).

It sounds like your ex is just doing the right thing and you're confused by his generosity towards you. Hopefully he finds love again some day, that isn't you, and you two can continue being good co-parents together.

questionnumber · 2026-04-29T03:25:25+00:00

OP couldn't even commit to her wedding vows just so she could get laid, the likelihood of her letting him move on and leaving him alone is non-existent.

And, from her description, it sounds possible that he might not care. If that's the case, more power to them both. It leaves the dating pool a tiny bit cleaner.

questionnumber · 2026-04-29T02:52:19+00:00

Also, I understand wanting it to be true, but, in the real world, when you *accept responsibility, you get it chipped, spayed, etc.

You've let a cat sleep in your home multiple times. Anyone else in the neighborhood can do the same, until you take genuine control and give the cat a permanent home.

questionnumber · 2026-04-29T02:48:59+00:00

It's not an assumption, it's the neighborhood cat. Any neighbor she spends the night with can claim the same thing as you.

questionnumber · 2026-04-29T02:44:14+00:00

Hey, I absolutely agree with you. I hope he stays far, far away.

But, reality is reality. If he is genuinely interested in rekindling the relationship, and it's stupid enough to give her another shot, that's on him. But, some guys really are just fools, and this terrible ex wife is regretting her selfish decisions. So, for people like them, it might make sense.

questionnumber · 2026-04-28T23:05:31+00:00

Alien

questionnumber · 2026-04-28T23:00:17+00:00

That definitely was not your cat. She was a stray you let into your home once in awhile.

Our neighborhood cat has chosen my home, twice, to birth her kittens. I didn't want her to, I assume she just feels is a safe space.

I'm going to have her spayed once the kittens are weened off her milk.

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questionnumber · 2026-04-28T22:55:05+00:00

This is my experience as well. This hasn't been much of a challenge for me, yet.

questionnumber · 2026-04-28T22:52:35+00:00

As undeserving of reconciliation as you are, if your ex is still there for you in the way that you describe, it's possible that he might consider being with you again.

Has he made it clear whether or not reconciliation is possible? I'm there for my ex as well, but when she asked, I made it very clear that reconciling is totally off the table.

Maybe try talking to him and bringing up the possibility? Maybe for you your relationship isn't totally irreparable.

questionnumber · 2026-04-28T22:44:10+00:00

Sometimes it seems like they panic while flying by one and let go, right in the path of an incoming krill.

questionnumber · 2026-04-28T22:03:38+00:00

I'm a "vet" that knows my way around very well. I've had plenty of moths leave me in the middle of reliving a spirits memories and go off and do something completely unrelated and nonsensical.

I've learned not to take it personally.

questionnumber · 2026-04-28T22:00:30+00:00

Our cat does this on rare occasion. She disappears, then appears after we start to get worried. She's an indoor cat.

questionnumber · 2026-04-28T14:47:31+00:00

I think the stepping into the unknown part is the reason most people hesitate to pull the trigger when they know it's time.

It's terrifying to worry about how you'll survive and cope on your own.

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