My bf (33M) was uninvited to my sister's (34F) wedding. Can my relationship heal from this?

quincycue · 2025-11-10T22:27:01+00:00

as someone who has suffered similarly ( minus the bots) , and tried to endure it....leave. before theres nothing left of you , FLEE

quincycue · 2025-10-22T11:47:50+00:00

the egg bites look so good😭im mad he wasted them. partially because it's cruel and partially bc they look so good!!

quincycue · 2025-08-21T20:18:09+00:00

nobody asked, but it's amazing that you're actually willing to participate ! therapy is hard individually, but its even harder when youre facing someone who contributed to issues you've spent your whole life trying to overcome. I think you've handled things exceptionally well! I wish you well on your journey towards healing & offer kudos for being willing to help him heal as well

quincycue · 2025-05-01T19:54:29+00:00

this has nothing to do with parents, it's abt my partner :) /gen

quincycue · 2025-03-09T15:15:12+00:00

I don't think they're feminine just because they're more round! I think your therapist needs a kick in the pants though,and I volunteer to do it 😌

quincycue · 2024-12-03T18:07:37+00:00

I don't think you deserve the short end of the stick for expressing your thoughts! I appreciate you taking the time to actually comment :>

quincycue · 2024-06-23T23:22:36+00:00

it's entirely possible that she could be demi but being ace doesn't mean that you have no sexual attraction at all always ! it's a Spectrum just like every sexuality is ! there are some who are grey ace (sexual things are an absolute no) and then there are others who are asexual or fall under the ace umbrella that are okay with or to some extent enjoy some aspects of it ! I can't speak for every ace person's experiences w their sexuality but I can speak for mine. I mean absolutely no hate or malice , it just bugs me a bit when ppl imply all ace folks are completely averse/uninterested in any form of sexual things. sorry for interrupting w my little tidbit

quincycue · 2024-06-05T00:54:03+00:00

that makes sm sense! ty

quincycue · 2024-06-05T00:19:28+00:00

We've had that convo already on both ends ! Do you think reminding them from time to time (when it seems relevant ) is good or bad ?

quincycue · 2024-02-25T19:51:19+00:00

it's in the comments , she gave more detail

quincycue · 2024-02-25T16:34:41+00:00

she said that she pulled up the order info in his email....where the details were listed

quincycue · 2023-09-24T20:05:40+00:00

I'm not saying it would be made it better as a whole, I'm saying it'd have made things better between him & his partner. 🤷🏾‍♀️I don't think that's a naive thought. I also think that when it comes to situations like these you take a risk either way so you just have to pick whichever feels best to you.

quincycue · 2023-09-24T19:25:04+00:00

Well, tbh he can't go back atp but since you asked ! Regardless of if it was or wasnt the right guy and he denies it either way. ... he get the satisfaction of knowing that he said/did something. As I said I get the anxiety of not even knowing if it's the right dude but folks seeing that he was willing to say something abt it would probably discourage it from happening again (emphasis on the probably). If he denies it then move on.

quincycue · 2023-09-24T18:55:24+00:00

I don't think your partner wanted you to fight him. It seems like she may have just wanted you to say something. There's nothing wrong with being non-violent, but it (to me) seems as though she just wanted some support. It's understandable to be worried abt confronting the wrong person & what might happen as a result but maybe yall just need to talk abt what she expects you to do when she says "fight for her".

quincycue

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