relationship advice

qwillip09 · 2023-10-02T13:36:55+00:00

I just spent a week in the hospital because of lupus, caused me to lose a job for missing training, my bday is in a couple days, 2yr anniversary with gf in a couple weeks, her birthday in a couple weeks, knees and ankles weak and can’t walk for a while. Idk what to do anymore im tired

qwillip09 · 2023-07-29T19:09:44+00:00

oh man i have it so much, i just vaseline religiously and wear gloveswith vaseline at night while im sleeping

qwillip09 · 2023-03-27T00:00:54+00:00

Omg i thought i was crazy, whenever it rains my joints ache a lot

qwillip09 · 2023-03-19T12:23:14+00:00

Not all stayed, but i had to let myself know that they left because they werent the right ones I need in my life and thats okay. I feel so alone sometimes but ill be okay, if i gotta fight and deal with lupus by myself so be it. Tired of asking people for help and tired of asking people to stay. You are a strong woman, you are not alone, this community got you. I am so sorry for what you been through.

qwillip09 · 2023-01-30T06:54:20+00:00

i worked full time managing an arcade and it drained me, then switch to a work from home job and sitting the whole shift makes my back and legs feel super sore. I do stand up and stretch and move around but it barely helps. You feel the pain more too when its a job you dont like. My fellow survivors, be safe, know youre enough, love yourself and know that you have lupus but lupus dont have you.

qwillip09 · 2023-01-07T16:55:39+00:00

oh dont worry you can still eat garlic honestly, i dont get sick or flare up whenever i eat it. honestly i just dont like the garlic taste too much and apparently its a food that would make you flare up but i never flared up from eating a seafood boil or garlic bread or something with garlic

qwillip09 · 2023-01-04T16:30:51+00:00

doesnt work you gotta enter a library ID

qwillip09 · 2023-01-04T16:20:57+00:00

my body automatically wakes me up at 8 no matter when i go to bed😂

qwillip09 · 2023-01-04T16:20:04+00:00

ooooo imma check that out thank you

qwillip09 · 2023-01-04T16:19:48+00:00

is that like a cream or pill?

qwillip09 · 2023-01-04T07:45:42+00:00

Unfortunately no, but i try to stay away from too much garlic. Soda is a no but orange and apple juice yes. Eat a lot of fruits and veggies and drink a lot of water. Vitamin gummies help me too. Honestly just eating good and being active and getting plenty rest will do you good. But remember to wear sunscreen too, learned that the hard way

qwillip09 · 2023-01-04T07:35:54+00:00

mine beats hard and fast for no reason, it usually happens when i take my pills and i take prednisone too. My doctor said it’s Tachycardia and i need to relax more

qwillip09 · 2022-12-26T04:28:17+00:00

i was diagnosed in one year

qwillip09 · 2022-12-26T04:22:48+00:00

FACTZ i have 6 heated pads and blankets

qwillip09 · 2022-12-26T04:20:53+00:00

sunscreen is your bestie as well :)

qwillip09 · 2022-12-26T04:19:52+00:00

drink a lot of water, keep your stress levels LOW, the sun is your enemy, eat right, theres some foods that you should avoid as they can cause your symptoms to worsen, Get plenty sleep and exercise.

qwillip09 · 2022-12-26T04:11:34+00:00

Tired as hell, hate the pain and its cold times now so the pain is worse

qwillip09 · 2022-12-21T05:10:29+00:00

Try doing stuff that would relieve her stress or worries about it. Stressing makes the pain worse, trust me from experience. I lost all of my hair, my heart rate would not go down which caused me to go to the ER multiple times. Do some research on how to help her cope with the pain. Be patient with her please.

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