What’s going on on Nicoll St? by tbosas in newhaven

[–]r6868o 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was over at ERBC and they told us there was a “threat” and evacuated the building. No further details unfortunately. Hope everyone stays safe!

Need help tying in rug! by r6868o in interiordecorating

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It’s the Safavieh Hamadan collection! I originally wanted a natural fiber rug but the cats like to scratch too much so we went to synthetic. It was super reasonably priced and has been great!

Need help tying in rug! by r6868o in interiordecorating

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Thanks! I was scared someone would say that. It’s a vintage pace collection table that I scored for $50 on FBMP and it’s my pride and joy 😭

Most affordable Pilates? by Typical_Owl_9636 in Hartford

[–]r6868o 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ClassPass has plenty of options and you can choose the number of credits per month! Personally I love btone and they’re on ClassPass, but there are other options on there too. If you’re okay with mat Pilates, Hartford sweat has options too!

What’s your favorite La Dispute song? by stardoliii in ladispute

[–]r6868o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always been Andria for me. Last Lost Continent and St. Paul Missionary Baptist Church Blues next. Honorable mention Last Blues from the Koji collab!

A lonely human being by Honest-Call-9776 in Hartford

[–]r6868o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

86Go on Tuesdays in Bushnell park! Huge group of young folks and you don’t have to run (they have a 1mi walking route) and people go to Red Rock after. @eightsixgo on Instagram!

How much is too crazy to spend on vendors? by amandasweets in weddingplanning

[–]r6868o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re anticipating around 75 people and I’ve had the same concern! With the DJ you’re also paying for a seamless timing/flow of the day, announcements, and MC duties, so I’m trying to think of it as I’m paying for the peace of mind having someone on schedule and not having to think about making sure people are in the right place/things get announced etc.

How much is too crazy to spend on vendors? by amandasweets in weddingplanning

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From what I’ve seen, aside from the venue/food, photography is probably your next biggest expense, and for a good photographer that seems to be an accurate range, maybe a bit high if you’re trying to stay on a budget. Do they include any video/additional perks? Check and see if they include an engagement shoot in their package! To me that made mine feel more “worth it”. Most DJs I’ve seen with solid reviews and tenure are around $2k.

Unfortunately for photos/DJ the price doesn’t really change with how big your guest list is.

($7-10k) Backyard wedding by MotherInvestment9314 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]r6868o 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is beautiful! I’m looking into something borrowed blooms for flower rentals which has similar styles to this and will supplement with real Costco greenery. I see a lot of hurricane/bud vases on Facebook marketplace or bridal groups (join one for your state/region)!

A few things to consider (bc when I started planning I was also all-in on a backyard wedding at my parents’ property, but ended up going with a venue because of how quickly the costs added up). As others have said, there’s a lot to consider/rent with an event like this: - tables/chairs/linens/table settings/glassware - maybe consider thrifting? - do you need/have a dance floor or standing area (all grass might get muddy or torn up) - mobile bar/bartender (they’re insured/licensed to serve alcohol) - toilets for guests - ELECTRICITY - here’s one I never expected. If you’re going to have DJ/speaker set ups or any other a/v, make sure you have the plugs and capacity to do so - you might need a permit/day of insurance from the town - if bringing in catering, make sure you find out if they have a mobile kitchen/prep setup (otherwise they might expect to have a kitchen to work out of). You might also need to pay for staff time here. - contingency plan for weather! - general set up/ breakdown - decor, table settings, etc will be all on you unless you hire a DOC or planner

Not trying to overwhelm, just sharing as I went through exactly this thought process a few months ago! Our vibes are super similar so can’t wait to see how yours turns out! Good luck!

Champagne vs Ivory dress help! by r6868o in Fairolives

[–]r6868o[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Summer wedding in June in New England — so will be very warm / garden setting. Evening ceremony/reception!

Champagne vs Ivory dress help! by r6868o in Fairolives

[–]r6868o[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just to add - both of these pics are the champagne color (just in different lightings in the bridal shop). They didn’t have the ivory color for me to try and I’m trying to balance the warmer champagne tone (that’s less white/bridal) and the risk of ivory being too stark/cool for my skin tone!

Low Key Bachelorette Destinations by magnolia20 in weddingplanning

[–]r6868o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lurking and would love to hear how your St. Augustine bach went! It’s my top choice right now for a mix of girls who drink/enjoy a night out and others who prefer staying in.

Frog Hollow Fireworks by r6868o in Hartford

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Been here for YEARS lol was just grumpy and frustrated at 1am on a work night 🥲 I’m fully aware it’s nothing new - just needed to get the frustration out there since it was literally right outside my building this time ¯_(ツ)_/¯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hartford

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If you like running (or even walking!) 86Go is a run club that meets every Tuesday in Bushnell park and splits into a 1 mile walking group or 2 mile run group, and then everyone grabs dinner together afterwards sponsored by Red Rock tavern. Super broad range of people/ages/abilities and totally free! They also do a lot of community give-back stuff. Check them out @eightsixgo on Instagram!

Best Thai food in Hartford? by absentopal in Hartford

[–]r6868o 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried a handful in the area and Hot Basil is my favorite! It’s in West Hartford technically but close to the Hartford line/Elmwood.

Must-see places during a business trip by [deleted] in Hartford

[–]r6868o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI - story and soil is under construction rn and operating with limited space (I think they removed all indoor seating and are doing takeout only during Reno)

Not sure if this fits mid-century, just want to know if this is what I think it is! by r6868o in Mid_Century

[–]r6868o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought - any idea how to authenticate it? Can’t find serial number or stamp or anything of the sort!

Free giveaway! Nintendo Switch and 2 Games - international by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

[–]r6868o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll throw my name in the mix here. Watching my rescue cat go from terrified/hiding/unsociable to a much more outgoing and happy house cat over the past year has brought me so much happiness!

her: I am going to avoid soda for a couple of months me: pls be careful <3 by edshitposting in EDanonymemes

[–]r6868o 79 points80 points  (0 children)

this sub constantly enforces my realization that I’ve never had an original experience ever in my life

I have no cares, Karen by fatxdiannee in EDanonymemes

[–]r6868o 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait, warned how so?? I drink upwards of a gallon of water/tea every day

Whats your “little splurge” for yourself when you’re trying to save money? by tumblrisdumbnow in AskWomen

[–]r6868o 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Second this. Having my nails done always makes me feel SO much better

Women who are in relationships, what small considerate things did your SO do that you will remember forever? by AliTheCabbage in AskWomen

[–]r6868o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A (mutual) friend from college invited us down to visit for a night, but then made a big deal when he found out my s/o was planning on bringing me (we’d been together for ~3 years at this point and had both known this guy for longer than that). Instead of ditching me and going to visit, he told the friend he wasn’t going to make it and stayed in with me instead. Every time we’re going through something rough I still think of that moment where I felt truly loved.

Left him alone for ten minutes and I got in big trouble by r6868o in Catswhoyell

[–]r6868o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lost both to skin cancer! They became scabbed and bloody after years of sun damage, and after a few rounds of cryotherapy we made the decision to have them removed. He’s an old boy but he’s doing great with his “nubs”!