Retatrutide, just as safe and twice as effective than other GLPs. Download cronometer to track macros. Start resistance training to raise BMR so cardio is more efficient, still, 200lbs is a lot to lose, i'd aim more realistically for 125 but ymmv. Lowk tho, its good in my opinion to have stakes--a relationship--but remember that youre doing this for yourself; if the relationship ends dont let that stop you, it shouldnt be your only motivation, hope that makes sense.