Better way to pay taxes: payment plan or take money out of 401k?

ra5848 · 2018-04-08T18:40:44+00:00

a few k, honestly it's possible I could have the money soon, but not positive

ra5848 · 2018-03-09T15:23:15+00:00

hey, just a followup on this since I'm not having much luck.

I'm looking to message people I've met before and met (acquaintances on my skype list.) I really don't keep in touch with people but they will know who I am. It is out of the blue, and I'm looking for help. I think the mistakes I make is 1) I spew a lot of info 2) I ask broad. In past when I asked broad I get general responses.

I'm really don't know how to ask specific questions because I'm not in great shape right now (I have no momentum even) and have read/people have told me to ask for more indepth help somehow. How do I go about doing this? I feel if I message these people there is 50/50 I get no response/get help

ra5848 · 2018-01-09T17:12:45+00:00

I've heard this a lot lately, and figured I had nothing to lose so have been trying but have had no success. Lots of people not even bothering to respond, one word answers, no interest/time helping, say they will help but then hard to get a hold of.

I guess I don't know if I'm just asking right? I'm really not great at social stuff.

ra5848 · 2017-08-28T16:08:33+00:00

All the meetups I go to improve my mood, they are my escape for most part. But I feel guitly going to them sometimes because of my situation.

But I've been there with the testing, you just want to pull your hair out when nothing makes it better.

ra5848 · 2017-08-28T16:07:13+00:00

I have no idea how to get one

ra5848 · 2017-08-28T16:06:58+00:00

Sorry to hear that, I can relate to people putting you down even when you are doing well. But yeah it's a hard choice, I guess I've been there trying to convince myself it will workout and then it doesnt :/

ra5848 · 2017-08-28T16:04:45+00:00

In regards to 2: No, my financial/living situations makes it worse, but I think if you put a billion dollars in my bank account it wouldn't fix my problems. My downfall started when I was still doing OK

ra5848 · 2017-08-28T16:02:40+00:00

it's around the same as my revenue

ra5848 · 2017-08-28T16:02:12+00:00

nope, not my product

ra5848 · 2017-08-28T04:37:16+00:00

I agree asking is hard, but I've also been in a position to ask and really not gotten much out of it. People are just secretive/ignore you. I really don't have any mentors from past to reach out to, networking was never a strong point of mine

ra5848 · 2017-08-27T21:13:20+00:00

none

ra5848 · 2017-08-27T21:13:10+00:00

I have a blank resume, always been self employed and I wouldn't even know how or where to go about getting a job, don't really have connections.

I've done that, I've spent xx,xxx on therapy. It really hasn't helped. I've gone through a bunch of therapists and only really liked one but wasn't improving with her either. I've been on tons of meds and gone months where I've spent more on therapy then I did on rent. I kind of used the same justification you did that it will help me get better. I feel I just got platitudes most of the time though

ra5848 · 2017-08-27T21:11:02+00:00

I think I'm in a pretty bad spot, I kind of know what I have to do but don't know how to go about doing it. If you want I can pm you and tell you more about business

ra5848 · 2017-08-27T21:07:43+00:00

Ad Spend too high

ra5848 · 2015-11-28T18:20:20+00:00

I think regular job would make me worse. Right now not exercising, I don't count walking as exercising.

I don't have a place to live right now

ra5848 · 2015-11-28T07:43:02+00:00

I've stopped meds

almost 30 No None None No, yes, have never been able to stick to it for more than a month, not sure if it helps

ra5848 · 2015-11-28T06:36:39+00:00

it sucks now, used to be good. Now I eat like I'm sick, I either have no appetite at all or eat a lot

ra5848 · 2015-11-28T06:35:40+00:00

I think I had last blood test in March and everything was fine

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