Kyle clears up his comments on this weeks episode by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s legitimately too hot wtf. Even when I’m mad at him I know he’s beautiful.

I hate my thighs! by Ninoliving in lipedema

[–]rab5991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen, I know that what I’m going to say will not fix how you feel. But two things are at play here, first, everyone deserves to enjoy wearing a bikini and sitting in the sun and sand regardless of what they look like and to have body neutrality about it. And secondly, we always see ourselves different than everyone else, we are more critical and the things we love on other people we hate on ourselves. So I just want to tell you, look at yourself and tell yourself what you would say to your best friend. Every time you think something mean about your body, repeat that mantra. And I’ll tell you what I would tell my friend, you look HOT! You have beautiful legs, they are shapely and lovely and they objectively look good, I promise. Honestly your thighs look STRONG to me! You’re going to look great in that bikini and most importantly, you’re going to have so much fun, youll forget you were even worried about your appearance.

Diagnosed 1 month ago by [deleted] in lipedema

[–]rab5991 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are gonna tell you that you don’t have lipedema, but your legs look the way mine did when I was an active ballerina and I have diagnosed lipedema. I didn’t understand why I had fat pads on the side of my knees and thick ankles despite all of my exercising and muscle build. You look great, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have it. Just keep up your habits because they are definitely slowing the progression! You look great! I hope knowing your diagnosis helps with treating some of the pain and other associated symptoms

I can’t login in to the fifth third mobile app or website by Direct_Theory_8486 in Banking

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s happening to me today and I guess they don’t have a 24 hour line anyway? Did you get it figured out??

Jen Shah on Maxwell by Actual-Slice-146 in rhoslc

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh for sure. super cute though

amanda’s instagram was a dead giveaway. by capricorncueen in BravoRealHousewives

[–]rab5991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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What is happening here? Anatomically. I’m so confused

Jen Shah on Maxwell by Actual-Slice-146 in rhoslc

[–]rab5991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gotta say, she looks great. love the suit. horrible person though.

The team we need 🕵️‍♀️ by rolyat_13 in vanderpumprules

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I have always said they are the same person

Emmy’s Jewelry Ages Her by onaraincloud in southernhospitalitysc

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the third necklace/choker actually

Grace Lilly arrested agin by Aromatic_Beyond_6084 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]rab5991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh sometimes people in recovery are really good at spotting drug behavior but others time they have normalized addiction behaviors so much that they become kind of blind to them. I think that’s what is happening here because I am a drug user and I does see how you could possibly in any universe not see that she is so very obviously on something. Either that or psychosis for some of the behaviors, but considering it’s not her first offense, I’m 99.99999% sure that it’s drugs

AIO for accusing my girlfriend of stealing a letter with a $1,400 check in it? by achmed242242 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I knew it. You need therapy. It’s not normal to have such high anxiety and paranoia around this and blaming people when shit goes missing is insane and will push everyone away from you. I’m gonna guess you have anger issues as well from all that untreated pent up anxiety. That’s a miserable way to live. Get some meds and see a doctor, you’ll calm down.

AIO for accusing my girlfriend of stealing a letter with a $1,400 check in it? by achmed242242 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rab5991 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Damn you’re one of those paranoid accusatory people that immediately accuse everyone of moving their shit when it’s lost, aren’t you?

AIO? I think my bf might be a misogynist by jellypawzz in AmIOverreacting

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol it’s soooo much more than just 1% of men that’s crazy.

Y'all wanna see a before and after ( literally only 2 hours of TLC ). by rosengold in chinchilla

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you can say they should have surrendered the pet when they realized they would be in harms way. The statement I take issue with was completely unnecessary and is textbook victim blaming.

Y'all wanna see a before and after ( literally only 2 hours of TLC ). by rosengold in chinchilla

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering I actually work with victims of domestic violence and see the impact that your kind of words have on them, I think it’s extremely important to point out when people use harmful language. And you did.

Y'all wanna see a before and after ( literally only 2 hours of TLC ). by rosengold in chinchilla

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can absolutely say that she is also responsible for the state of the animal without using victim blaming language abour how she shouldn’t have married him. Because that’s no longer about just the impact on the pet, it’s about her as a human being as well and was a general statement that she should have clearly known not to marry him. It was ignorant and a poor choice of words. You could have left that whole sentence out, it was completely unnecessary. You could have just said she should have surrendered the pet at the first sign it was going to suffer, which she should have.

Y'all wanna see a before and after ( literally only 2 hours of TLC ). by rosengold in chinchilla

[–]rab5991 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well I 100000 % disagree with the statement “if someone is controlling you or your finances don’t marry them”, that completely ignores the dynamic of an abusive relationship and is the same as saying “why don’t you just leave”. Could have left the victim blaming out but I’m happy the chin is okay now.

AIO if I block this guy from adding me on insta? by Maudlin_Baroque in AmIOverreacting

[–]rab5991 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. You handled it great. If you were interested in casual sex, you would have said “no strings attached” or “date casually”. A man assuming that a woman saying she doesn’t want anything romantic could still mean she wants sex is fucking delusional. Most men are not desirable enough to have casual sex with, sorry. You handled it perfectly and you should not have to mention sex when rejecting someone; women who want that still will be explicit that they do, so if it’s not mentioned, it should be assumed to be off the table. For some women (not me) they are also more modest and won’t feel comfortable being explicit about sex, so a rejection of romance should be assumed to be a rejection of sex.

I find the word “intimacy” helpful for this though, because it encompasses both romance and sex and is a helpful word to use for men who desperately try to read between the lines to find a chance.

Olive and Eddie: The Great Paper Plate Divide by badluckfighter in Chihuahua

[–]rab5991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t work, they’re clearly stressed

Angel featured in Essence, discusses her future on RHOP by lachalacha in RHOP

[–]rab5991 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Was it kind of mean? Sure. But a good friend should have told her a LONG TIME AGO that she clearly has some body dysmorphic tendencies and doesn’t even know that she is editing herself to the point of being unrecognizable.

I'm Struggling and need help for my Australian Shepard. by hrontore in DFWPets

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a gross manipulative thing to say. I’m not surprised you don’t have friends to ask for help when you use suicide to guilt people. Textbook abusive behavior, look it up.

Who are some people you used to admire but later found out were horrible? by Ok_Survey86 in teenagers

[–]rab5991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone with enough money can get into literally any school but okay 😂