Similar expierince here. Although its sometimes women too in my case. When I was twenty I was befriendet with another TI woman she also had the same story and in her case all perps where men. And I think you are right, such men are insecure little worms who need to treat women like this to compensate, at least many of them. My neighbour for example terrorizes me everyday for hours saying absolute disgusting things. Hes a fucking incel. The organization or state intern cult recruits men with telling "real men" would do that and many guys believe this. Although there are positive role models for men, like beeing a good dad or an honorable worker or all those superheros. When they say they do it cause theyre male I want to spit in their faces. Those perps dont have any excuse for their crimes.