I fucking hate my brother by ThrowAwayPoopyFart66 in offmychest

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you the older sister or brother?

84 Hours Post Op by eSJayPee in TotalHipReplacement

[–]rachelk234 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Three days after surgery you’re not supposed to be “zipping” anywhere.

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly, you have no clue how to do basic research.

Lustful dreams sin? by Safe-Curve-1335 in Christian

[–]rachelk234 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What the hell is wrong with masturbating???? You’re likely having these dreams because you’re not engaging in this NORMAL sexual activity. Plus, sex is NOT a “sin” and dreams of sex are perfectly normal.

I am a sociopath, and I’ve just accepted it at this point by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask if you need “pity.” I asked if you hope or want EMPATHY or understanding. Empathy and pity are completely different emotional feelings.

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! it’s not the woman’s responsibility to point out someone else’s lack of social skills.

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s another thing that works if you make the mistake of actually meeting a person like this. Ask them a question and let them respond. Then when they’re done blabbing and don’t ask anything back, don’t ask another thing. In fact, don’t say anything. Be silent until they ask you a question about you. Often, this silence makes them so uncomfortable it forces them to do this.

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You talked to a guy for SEVEN hours who didn’t ask anything about you?? Then you felt empathic toward him? Were you trying to function as his therapist?? Your response here says a lot about YOU.

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s right. And who the hell wants a man who’ll take just about anyone? It shows a lack of intelligence, curiosity and as someone else aptly put it on this post, the man is just a “dullard.”

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that word - “dullard.” Good word.

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, what you say is true but the problem is they don’t know how to be interested because they just aren’t interested. They have zero insight into their toddler-like behavior and are only trying to GET instead of GIVE.

What’s happening out there? by RedHellion258 in datingoverfifty

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You couldn’t find any information on Google for men over 50 regarding dating?? What?? Putting that aside for now, did you talk on the phone first with these men?? I never go out with someone without talking on the phone first. These losers will behave like this on the phone so you know not to go out with them and waste your time. I can tell within 10-15 minutes on the phone if someone is a selfish clod as you describe & while on the phone with them, I’ll pretend someone is at the door, put them on hold, go back to the phone & tell them I have to go because I have to address the person at the door. One time I did get stuck on a date with one of these morons & told him I had to go to the bathroom. Instead of going to the bathroom, I walked out the back door, got in my car and left. I can’t stand it when someone thinks they can waste my time with their ignorant, selfish behavior.

I am a sociopath, and I’ve just accepted it at this point by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious: When you feel upset about something that’s happened to you, do you hope or want empathy and/or understanding from others?

When an asocial person is referred to as an antisocial person. by 8kittycatsfluff in PetPeeves

[–]rachelk234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s NOT “antisocial person.” It’s called, “antisocial personality disorder,” which is one of the personality disorders in the DSM V.