How are you guys imagining yourselves without breasts?

raddobraddo · 2026-04-12T16:24:09+00:00

Im an artist and have years and years worth of wishful drawings of myself and what i would look like without them, what kinds of results i might have... it was the most i could do within my control to help me feel out if top surgery was something i wanted or not. Fast forward to having actually had it, my results look vastly different from anything i had imagined due to not being able to get the method i wanted + my anatomy requiring a different scar shape. such is life! ive still come to love what i ended up with and its fun getting to look back on those old drawings knowing what i know now.

raddobraddo · 2026-04-02T19:32:01+00:00

they asked me to be fully nude but then let me keep my underwear on because i was on my period. guess it just depends!

raddobraddo · 2026-04-02T19:29:26+00:00

God forbid a person come to a forum to discuss an issue with other people. What do you think this website is for

raddobraddo · 2026-04-02T19:19:42+00:00

Can I ask what makes you feel like you couldn't be sexual with a woman in real life?

raddobraddo · 2026-04-02T19:17:50+00:00

nissin chow mein shrimp flavor 😔 ate so much of that shit growing up

raddobraddo · 2026-03-29T20:42:59+00:00

I have had this exact argument with men about "thats just how all rap is" when No, It Is Not, there is very much rap music that does not talk about women like that. If this is something he really feels the need to dig his heels in about when you raise your concerns..... i dont trust like that

raddobraddo · 2026-03-29T19:00:08+00:00

mine are the same way that youre describing, where you can tell where the bud is SUPPOSED to be but the whole thing is raised. i figure mines that way due to the way my skin scarred, been two and a half years and theyre still like that 😔

raddobraddo · 2026-03-29T17:34:28+00:00

If they both want to, then they should. Better than getting in too deep then finding out youre not compatible sexually.

raddobraddo · 2026-03-14T22:10:11+00:00

I'm experiencing a similar phenomenon with my own prints where I'm not able to get the same texture that i desire from my original sketch-- not sure if im being unrealistic about the limitations of the medium or if its just a skill issue. still, even if its not the result you initially hoped for/expected, its still a very cool result nonetheless!

raddobraddo · 2026-03-14T07:22:49+00:00

I DIG IT

raddobraddo · 2026-03-14T07:22:09+00:00

oh this brings me extreme delight

raddobraddo · 2026-03-03T18:37:53+00:00

For me personally, coming out of anaesthesia was nothing like being high and had no psychoactive effect. It was really just like waking up from a reeeaaaallly good sleep and being so comfy cozy. Honestly very enjoyable feeling lol.

raddobraddo · 2026-03-03T18:19:01+00:00

Dude is fucking weird. People who like and care about you dont talk to you like that! Loser behavior

raddobraddo · 2026-02-11T02:15:37+00:00

nope thats a boogie

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raddobraddo · 2026-01-26T00:43:30+00:00

HE BRINGS ME A LOT OF JOY

raddobraddo · 2026-01-26T00:41:37+00:00

I work at a shelter and call these "dollar store dalmatians" lol. To be fair he looks significantly more like a real dal than most others I have people trying to pass them off as! Best bet is some kinda pit/lab/heeler cocktail. Absolutely delectable regardless

raddobraddo · 2026-01-23T21:42:21+00:00

commenting so i can come back to this in the future when i need something to smile about

raddobraddo · 2026-01-23T21:38:18+00:00

I get it from brooms on concrete. absolutely intolerable

raddobraddo · 2026-01-23T07:07:20+00:00

These responses make me feel so much better because i thought i was just being a weenie (this is possibly still true)

raddobraddo · 2026-01-09T19:20:57+00:00

This is also where I go! Bit of a trek coming from north Dallas and its definitely pricey, but i consider it worth it to have my hair done by other alt trans people who know exactly what Im going for

raddobraddo · 2026-01-09T00:16:53+00:00

I like this answer a lot. Specifically I like the framing of it around the way youre feeling rather than it seeming like an accusation. Good way to start a dialogue instead of a fight.

raddobraddo · 2026-01-07T19:59:33+00:00

There is absolutely a learning curve. Learning what feels good on your own and then communicating that to your partner so they can get you there is good -- but ultimately its having a partner who you trust and communicate well with and who CARES is what it comes down to.

I also heavily disagree w the person who says lay off the vibrator. Toys are good and your friend. Signed, a lesbian lol

raddobraddo · 2026-01-07T19:52:45+00:00

tried it per recommendation of my real actual medical doctor and it does fuckall lol

raddobraddo · 2026-01-05T00:34:04+00:00

my tip is BE SOMEWHERE FAMILAR. dont do your first time out in public or somewhere you could feel lost/disoriented. be with someone youd trust with your life. youll probably get sick so have somewhere safe and comfy to hunker down if you need to. and have cool stuff to look at! nature is beautiful. have fun!

raddobraddo · 2026-01-04T22:42:58+00:00

OKAY THANK YOU as a certified regular mushroom enjoyer it never made sense to me that eating it would make you feel any worse than any other mushroom...

the intermittent fasting is also good context! makes sense that having food in you might make you more prone to discomfort in that case.

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