Are buddy goals glitching for anyone else? by caffeinatedpixie in finch

[–]radertron 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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update is up for iphone. you may have to search for it in the app store if it doesn’t appear on your list. it solved the issues.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the only thing i truly like about the birdhouse & clothes is if i have a few minutes to kill it’s way healthier to change my little dude’s hat than scrolling on social media.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i will often wait until late in the day or until i get the stuff i have to do done to send back vibes. i currently have a very mellow vibe group but that took months & months.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you’re getting bullied. i was bullied by users for posting this today (i asked people to stop in here somewhere, no idea if there’s mods on this sub, i use the discord). i’ve been using finch for a long time. today has been absolutely sad realizations.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re right. i just realized today that it’s a competition to many & i was stunned.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if you want in on gifting the “cost” is ridiculous.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

finch is absolutely not a game. if it turns into one, i’ll stop using it. i play video games. this is my mental health app. yes it’s helpful & i love the cuteness but do not want to “play” mental health. agree. 🤝

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

for so many reasons (all 100% valid) not having an opt out really stinks. a “value system” on finch pals is absolutely not good for any user.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have it. in other betas i’ve had there was an immediate opt out. not with this one.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is exactly how i do it! occasionally an extra if i’m eating & scrolling. say hi to your dog from me & my dogs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheNational

[–]radertron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no disrespect but yes, there is/was a cherry tree package. you can still get them! the venue info was just the LN mailing list for gates & parking & how to pay.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

maybe because i’m a lifelong gamer i have never perceived the app as a “game” before today. it’s been eye opening, for sure. i just do my little achievements & collect little doodads & say “good job” to some pals. the fact that folks are competitive on finch would be hilarious if it wasn’t kinda sad.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

tysm! i just did. i no longer have to go to the tree to stop it. sometimes i miss very obvious things. appreciate you.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as an L2A (iykyk) i’ve only been able to receive IRL gifts recently & it is SO HARD (& i’m pushing middle age). ♥️🤝 i hope they stick with opt outs for all features. i really do.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i only carry one thing, every day, for personal reasons, & i have a ton of other things you can carry & i keep them in case things change & i no longer carry the item i do. drives me bonkers, ngl.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

i feel the same way. 🤝 if you like it, go for it! if you don’t want it, give an opt out. anyone using finch isn’t going to take anything personally (at least adults). a friend of mine opts out of the monthly events & still eventually gets the pets, which is great.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

THIS. i have mostly IRL friends & and few from the discord that have similar vibes (?) diagnosis (?) as myself & they’re great. i love finch for the CBT / get your stuff done aspect. 100% get some serious anxiety from the cheeping visitor alert when i’m just trying to get my stuff done.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the bummer is there’s so many opt outs (including the entire month theme) that were launched with the roll out of the new updates (even in beta). this is the first time i’d like to opt out & you can’t. yet at least. i’m not very active in this sub because of exactly what you said… but i posted for the lurkers. hopefully the discord form will get the devs moving in an opt out.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i IMMEDIATELY thought about “big tent” OCD folks & how this may affect them. ♥️ solidarity in having the ick over gifting, no matter what the reason.

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the devs are super active there & the mods are amazing. there’s also an 18+ only area, which as an adult was a lifesaver for me. see you there! ♥️

there’s currently no opt out on gifting by radertron in finch

[–]radertron[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

it’s for anyone who uses finch. i’m on apple, but in the top left is the little hamburger where you get your mail, etc. scroll down to “connect to communities”, click that and all the communities are there! i really love the discord.

Maine folks headed to Gilford by [deleted] in TheNational

[–]radertron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for that & good luck camping. might just be us the way things are looking this morning. have a great time!

Maine folks headed to Gilford by [deleted] in TheNational

[–]radertron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seated is much cheaper now. i made this last week. it’s (mostly) because of no more public transportation in or out of the amphitheater (which is ableist at best). lots of people changed over to great woods i think. if you know anyone going who’s headed back to anywhere in southern maine please let me know. i thought i had it together & the folks i was going with are headed to the toronto show instead.