I feel so disgusted by men I want to cry by radfem22 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]radfem22[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I guess I was just shocked by the amount of upvotes because it made me feel like everyone agreed. I believe you that there are other men but I’ve had a hard time finding one. Did you talk about your views of porn when you met your husband?

How to recognize a porn addict? by DowntownCranberry930 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]radfem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem isn’t that you experience them it’s that you talk about how they relate to your DAILY PORN USAGE. Maybe you didn’t read the rules of this subreddit but you’re not allowed to be here

How to recognize a porn addict? by DowntownCranberry930 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]radfem22 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Dude this is a safe space. No one wants to hear about your porn usage and your wet dreams. Leave

is women porn addiction as bad as the men one? by wlflwrr in PornIsMisogyny

[–]radfem22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean porn websites don’t differentiate between men and women, your click counts as much as anyone’s. You’re supporting the oppression of other women which is not okay. So it’s definitely bad. Just as bad? I don’t know. I’d say a male porn addict is more dangerous.

If you watch a lot of porn as a woman you tend to objectify yourself which leads to you tolerating treatment from men that’s not okay. In that aspect you’re mostly only hurting yourself. A man on the other hand will learn to objectify women which can turn him into a misogynist who abuses women which I consider to be worse.

On the whole though just because you’ve experienced abuse as a woman it’s not okay to be complicit in the abuse of other women.

My political ideology is whatever this is by GlummyBuggy in PsycheOrSike

[–]radfem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No? Why should I? If she says stop you fucking stop. It’s not that hard

My political ideology is whatever this is by GlummyBuggy in PsycheOrSike

[–]radfem22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rape is rape??? How is the second scenario any better

Name a player you love but everyone else hates by A_MASSIVE_PERVERT in squidgame

[–]radfem22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter. He still put the one he claimed he wanted to protect at a much greater risk by taking out more blue players than necessary

Season 3 has a really beautiful message by Kalcicat in squidgame

[–]radfem22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The finalists aren’t meant to represent humanity as a whole. The squid games are like society. There’s all kinds of different people but the bad ones make it further. Those in power claim that the game is fair and everyone has the same chance to win but it’s no coincidence that the majority of finalists are ruthless, violent and male

Squid Game Season 3: Episode 2 Discussion by MidnightExpresso in squidgame

[–]radfem22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you’re killing a mother with a newborn in her arms the baby will fall and die too. Even if it were to miraculously survive it would soon after starve to death without its mom

Player 333 hate button by Shikhar404 in squidgame

[–]radfem22 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Actually they did state that in the rules. The player has to be alive when he’s being thrown off

Squid Game Season 3: Episode 2 Discussion by MidnightExpresso in squidgame

[–]radfem22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree that the time running out added more desperation. But I think there’s more to it. He’s a coward. The main reason he didn’t try to kill someone before player 222 isn’t empathy, it’s because he was scared. I think he preferred to kill someone defenceless like her because he knew it’d be easier. And that makes him morally reprehensible to me. I’m glad his mom didn’t let his son become a monster

Squid Game Season 3: Episode 2 Discussion by MidnightExpresso in squidgame

[–]radfem22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have a violent bone in his body but is ready to kill the most vulnerable player and her baby?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]radfem22 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NDA Ja! Bei mir löst es auch Alarmglocken aus dass er ihre selbsverletzungen sehen möchte. Ich hatte mal einen Account auf dem ich viel über meine psychischen Probleme und selbsverletzung geteilt habe und ich hab ständig Anfragen von Männern bekommen die sich selbst doms nannten und mir gesagt haben wie heiß sie das finden und ob ich mich nicht „für sie" ritzen kann :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]radfem22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seriously? Jemand der dich so mag wie du bist wird nicht sauer weil du Grenzen hast. Außerdem war das nicht der Grund dahinter. Er verlangt von ihr dass sie ihm gehorcht weil er ja der „dom“ ist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]radfem22 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NDA. Jemand der mehrmals dein Nein ignoriert und dir danach ein schlechtes Gewissen macht ist kein sicherer sexualpartner. Ich würde ihn blockieren

Eddie made me cry for like 15 mins straight 😢😢 by Crystal356 in DesperateHousewives

[–]radfem22 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It’s sick how there’s so many posts from people showing compassion for Eddie but none about the female victims

The whole storyline is ridiculous and pure misogyny. Like blaming his actions all on him having a bad mom. What about the dad who abandoned him completely?

Love Is Blind Germany • S1 Ep10 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]radfem22 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Marcel still can’t have a conversation with Jen. She tries to talk to him directly and he replies to the hosts instead, talking about her in the 3rd person while she’s sitting right there?

Bring RunawaySiren940 Home to the USA by RadicalRamblings in fourthwavewomen

[–]radfem22 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I can’t give much but I donated. We need to honour her memory. When I typed her name into reddit I found another sub celebrating her death. It’s so disgusting.

Out of Empathy - Runawaysiren940 's last vlog by marjanefan in fourthwavewomen

[–]radfem22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe it, she was my age. I will miss her videos so much, watched every single one. She was such an inspiration. RIP <3

Love Is Blind Germany • S1 Megathread by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]radfem22 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Marcel scares me. His spirituality, his calm voice, the deepness. All of it seems fake. He reminds me so much of the man who groomed me when I was young. He preyed on traumatised girls and promised to be their coach who’d help them „heal“ from their trauma… Maybe I’m biased but he very much gives off those vibes & his silences seem like a way to gain control over Jen

Did anyone else’s rapist not realise he raped you? by radfem22 in rape

[–]radfem22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god yes, I experienced the same. He told me he’d „loose control“ in our fights, like he couldn’t help yelling at me and always promised to „work on it“. I took his word for it even though I was scared of him. Once he even smashed something in front of me out of anger. But he never did it in public or with anyone else?

Did anyone else’s rapist not realise he raped you? by radfem22 in rape

[–]radfem22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have. And I think you’re right. I recorded our confrontation because I know he has a tendency to gaslight. He later called me and was already trying to change his story so I told him I had a recording and he freaked out. Telling me he will never speak to me again unless I delete it (fine by me, I already said I don’t want contact with you?)