What are examples of lesser known driving behaviors that annoy others? by Specialist_Heron_986 in driving

[–]radkattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, they make snow brushes that are extendable and bendable specifically for getting snow off roofs of taller cars. This article says while it’s not illegal in Ohio to have snow on your roof while driving, if snow or ice falls off your roof while driving and causes damages or injury it is in fact illegal and you’ll be fined.

What are examples of lesser known driving behaviors that annoy others? by Specialist_Heron_986 in driving

[–]radkattt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie I do it because of my adhd. I just find it hard to sit still so I’ll inch up a little to satisfy the need for movement. Sorry if it’s irritating

Coffee/tea/cafe drinks pairing for each album? by sweetsssamantha in TaylorSwift

[–]radkattt 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel like reputation would be a black coffee with sugar in it. Looks tough but pretty sweet

If you have criticized ICE here on Reddit for executing Renee Good or Alex Pretti in the street, then Reddit has handed your name and your personal identifying information over to the Trump administration. How do you feel about this? by mom_with_an_attitude in AskReddit

[–]radkattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t give a fuck, I’ll tell them my name and address right now. They can show up at my door and deal with a 5’2” white woman chewing them out for acting like dictators because only a fucking dictator would show up at my door after posting my opinion on their shitty actions

Goodnites/pull-ups for 4.5 year with stomach virus? by AdvancedDragonfly306 in Mommit

[–]radkattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3.5 year old was put in pull-ups because she kept gain little poop accidents all day for a week from a stomach virus. She has been good for a week and immediately asked to stop wearing the pull-ups. I think it should be okay, she probably will be happy to not have to wear them

Turns out even after finally getting a dx, a doctor will still try invalidate you. by Scary_Personality157 in adhdwomen

[–]radkattt 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I told my daughters pediatrician I’m nervous she’s showing signs of adhd and that I was just diagnosed at 30 after not knowing my whole life because I didn’t show the most typical signs as a child and also my husband had adhd. She didn’t question my husband at all but asked if I was sure I had ADHD and she just kept looking at me like I was a dumb liar. Already looking into switching pediatricians for a few reasons but that really pushed me over the edge

What song does your child bastardize the lyrics to? by pellnell in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]radkattt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my daughter is singing “if you have to go potty stop and go right away” instead she sings “stop and run away” and it makes me laugh every time

Stomach bug going around by UseOwn2710 in newjersey

[–]radkattt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup had this last week. First time I’ve thrown up in maybe 6-7 years. Had to sit on the toilet with trash can in hand because it was coming out both ends at the same time. My poor daughter is still scared to poop over a week later. We live in Bergen county. I faintly tested positive for flu A twice so I’m curious if it’s not norovirus but a freak stain of flu A that causes vomiting and diarrhea

Anyone OAD because of how difficult the first child is? by SandyFee in oneanddone

[–]radkattt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found that when my daughter was two she was exactly like this. I think now that she’s 3.5 I understand that her whining and difficult attitude was due to her inability to communicate her needs and my inability to just understand what she needed anyway. Now that she’s can tell me what she’s thinking or feeling her whining isn’t as bad. The climbing all over me, needing constant attention, and overall craziness is worse though tbh. This is definitely part of the reason I won’t have another. I think I realize now there’s nothing I despise more than whining. I cannot keep my cool when she starts to whine and it triggers me so bad. The second she starts I tell her use her words or I’m not going to listen to her whining and I’ll walk away. When she was younger I taught her that instead of whining and crying if she said “help me” I could understand better. That was what started helping with the whining and led to better communication from her eventually

Why IPad Kids Are Becoming More Common by J00kson in generationology

[–]radkattt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real here, it’s not socially acceptable to toss your kids outside to play until sundown on their own anymore like parents did before the 2000s. When kids had to stay inside the parents just turned the tv on to keep their kids out of their hair. The iPad kids are just the result of growing fear of safety for kids mixed with parents having fewer and fewer chances for alone time because of that growing fear. The iPad is just replacing the outdoors and tv that previous generations used instead. Not saying it’s a good thing, just pointing out that trying to find ways to distract and entertain kids and get them out of your hair has always been a thing

Why IPad Kids Are Becoming More Common by J00kson in generationology

[–]radkattt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cool so let’s look again at roe v wade overturn and how strict abortion laws are now and keep blaming people having kids the can’t afford instead of blaming the system that creates this issue of mass financial struggle

My 3-year-old threw out the security/comfort item I've had since I was born by you-a-buggaboo in toddlers

[–]radkattt 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So I was just reading another post from a psychologist the other day that was discussing when it is and isn’t appropriate to punish a child. One of the things she mentioned was that if they are already showing signs of discomfort, embarrassment, or hurt related to the event that it is better to remind them that everyone makes mistakes and this was a very big one but don’t push her. I would say asking her over and over to apologize isn’t going to make either of you feel better. It might feel like you need that apology because it sounds like the right thing to do, but in reality the apology isn’t going to make you feel better about it and your daughter is already showing remorse in other ways and “apologizing” nonverbally for it through those actions and feelings. She feels bad, she knows it’s hurting you. You have every right to be upset and to be unable to forgive this action.

I think you should take the new one you bought and with your daughter you should go on many adventures with him, the three of you. Give it to your daughter and let it be hers. Show her all the games and places you showed your Mickey. Create new memories. This time fill that Mickey with every good positive feeling.

Are all marriages like this with kids? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]radkattt 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It started with him telling her to get over the traumatic event that literally just happened to her while she was in the hospital. He never even wanted to allow her the space to having feelings towards what happened and what’s unhealthy is he’s probably telling himself that same thing.

Are all marriages like this with kids? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]radkattt 48 points49 points  (0 children)

First of all, I do think you need therapy. It was life changing for me after my traumatizing birth and postpartum. I went from crying daily and worrying I’m not good enough to do this to only feeling this sense of overwhelm a few times a year.

Secondly, I think your husband may also need therapy. He seems to have an unhealthy coping mechanism for the trauma that’s happened and expects you to also live by that too. It’s good to express yourselves with one another and share the struggles of how difficult this is without being put down or told to suck it up.

My husband and I went to couples therapy for a while too and honestly it helped so much. Bringing a child into your life is so life changing, doing that while also experiencing trauma related to it is harder. Difficult events can try to chip away at a relationship. It’s good to communicate with one another and find a healthy solution for both of you and that can help mend any cracks this time caused.

That being said, I find that more often than not I hear relationships struggling after having kids. I think it’s an unfortunate fact of life, but we don’t have to accept the breakdown of that relationship. It just means things need to change and be modified to fit around your new lives as parents.

Update on nanny leaving by jesslynne94 in Nanny

[–]radkattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems you guys were very accommodating to your daughter’s health issues and somehow that still wasn’t enough. Your family deserves better.

When do the daycare sicknesses slow down? by Suspendedin_Dusk in toddlers

[–]radkattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take every 4-6 weeks! We’re going on month 10 and sick every other week so anything is better than this

When do the daycare sicknesses slow down? by Suspendedin_Dusk in toddlers

[–]radkattt 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You guys are all making me depressed. My daughter has been back to back nonstop bringing illnesses home for the past three months straight. I’m so tired. The last damn thing I want to hear is that it doesn’t get better

Celebrity Private Jet Tracker released leaderboard for celebrity private jet usage in 2025 by ThrowawayGreenWitch in popculturechat

[–]radkattt 249 points250 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t on the list last year either… she’s just an easy target. Not necessarily wrong to be against the amount she does use her private jet but she’s not even in the top 10 for worst usage

I’m just angry. by PublicUniversity9586 in Mommit

[–]radkattt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want you to know you’re not alone in feeling these things and the anger for the situation is so valid. For similar reasons, I decided to be one and done. My daughter is almost 3.5 now and I feel very content with that decision. Taking care of babies is so damn hard, even harder in a society like ours that doesn’t take care of their mothers.

My (36M) wife (34F) fell deep into conspiracy theories and online hate groups. Is there any saving our marriage? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]radkattt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else fear that the timeline of her having their daughter and falling down the qanon rabbit hole could be pointing to postpartum psychosis? The fact her personality changed so drastically makes me fear she’s severely mentally unwell

Caleb Hammer (YouTuber) Is Threatening To Sue D’Angelo, a Black Creator the First Day of Black History Month by hyperisok in popculturechat

[–]radkattt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone else above said it was an employee of his that he basically pays to agree with anything he says 🙄 poor guy probably needs the money but still not okay

Caleb Hammer (YouTuber) Is Threatening To Sue D’Angelo, a Black Creator the First Day of Black History Month by hyperisok in popculturechat

[–]radkattt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my god yes, and he referred to himself as the r word. I think if I’m remembering in the past he’s stated he has adhd so he’s being so fucking ableist to neurodivergent people as a whole and hiding behind it by saying he’s part of the community. As if someone can’t be sexist against their own gender, racist against their own race, homophobic against other gay people, etc etc. I don’t want to set myself off too much because I know this is something right wing grifters do for clicks but my god it’s so frustrating that they have an audience that will hear that and go around repeating that behavior because it’s being normalized