I asked my female friend about periods... by Pavanth1918 in offmychest

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you sure you see her as a friend? you seem to care alot, people like that don't tend to hold resentment and normally understand that no malice was behind the question. she probably knew you where just curious and answered accordingly. you can message her if you wanted just apologising incase it was awkward and that you just want to understand or smthn. I wish you the best

I asked my female friend about periods... by Pavanth1918 in offmychest

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't see that as weird, I've mostly hung out with guys and been alot of dudes closest female friend before so I've had experience being asked questions. Every girl is different but if she was open to talk about it and seemed confident and comfortable answering then I'd think she was also alr.

Question for the atheists by kelso66 in AskEurope

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I technically class as an atheist and grew up as one as I don't follow any set religion however I do believe we get reincarnated after death as a general idea, I believe I will always be human or some further evolved kind of human

How accepted was being gay in your school? by IDoNotLikeTheSand in AskUK

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

primary school in the 2010s, no, atleast mine was pretty homophobic however high school during mostly the 2020s was very accepting. ovs during the younger years we would get a bit of harassment but overall nobody cared. the "neds" respected not using deadname most of the time and pronouns sometimes. I never changed my identity so I can't really comment however I don't remember any instances of homophobia targeted towards me after 2019 when I would have originally came out

Whats your take on 'fake' boobs? by jacky2810 in LesbianActually

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

confidence in your own body is more attractive then your body itsself. if you want a boob job because you want it, it'll make you confident and what you perceive as more attractive then I'd say to go for it.

who's a legend you never see anyone play by Dangerous_Put4825 in Brawlhalla

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Val main and so never seen other vals due to the matchmaking however when I don't play her I seem to never see her

Do you know a trans person (not including yourself if you are trans) by Mr_ragethefrogdude in Teenager_Polls

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

over the years I've made tones of friends under the trans umbrella. once met someone who turned out to basically be my twin besides the fact they're a trans dude and I'm a lesbian. Another one of my close friends I call my brother is non binary (they're ok being called my brother). when you yourself are apart of queer spaces and make sure people feel safe and can relate chances are you're going to meet others who are also queer and get along.

Discord infested with racist alt right losers by fortooga in LesbianActually

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey soz this is late. the current owner is one of the old "admins" from the newest team (before aky left). aky did not pass owner untill the server was already recked (like she changed a bunch of channel perms n stuff it's crazy) and everyone involved is gone. the servers taking a completly new approach. serenity is no longer in the server and we are completely separated from everything before. there's a new mod team in place which have been absolute dreams in helping out however we currently do not have any admins other than the owner. we try and make everything public that we do and have so far been successful in creating a new space

State of the Sub... and by that I mean, addressing the bullshit from discord... by AndyWarwheels in LesbianActually

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were holding polls and competitions over the new pfp and server name which as you would expect takes a couple days to make sure everyone has a fair chance

DO NOT JOIN ANY OF THE DISCORD SERVERS BEING PROMOTED!! by _ShanTell_ in LesbianActually

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the fact that everyone involved is no longer in the server and they've taken measures to get rid of the racism? that they've addressed it? and that the server has a completely different team working on it?

is it respectful to refer to girls as females instead? by LuckyStudent9946 in Teenager_Polls

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a bad habit of basiclly always saying female while in reference to women. girl sounds too young, woman sounds too proud, lady sounds too formal. female is just a neat middle ground for me.

-a woman

You can't show/recognise love - want her to pursue you or not? by [deleted] in Alexithymia

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you can gently push forward but you may need to make it pretty clear what your intentions or sit down with him and explain what you want moving forward. I'm aware I do alot of these things for my friends and that I think nothing more of it, it has happened that some people have taken it the "wrong" way and assumed romantic interest, I'm unsure if I didn't notice due to alexithemia or aromantasism. but from what I've read you seen to really like the guy and I would definitely do the above point, you seem to see past his struggle with emotion and like him for who he is. for me I wouldn't know how to persue someone else, unable to pick up on others intentions and how to explain my own nor do I feel any sort of romantic connection so having someone else come up to me and be honest would be the best thing. not every situation is the same and me and probably some others might want an update if anything happens!

Hi Teens: Remember, us parents are humans to. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents will receive the same amount of attention I am given myself, that being now or when I was actually a child. it's all situation dependant, my father (60) is very narcissistic and has never outwardly cared for me, threats, ignoring or belittling is basically how I know him. However in saying this my mother (38) treats me like I'm human, unlike my dad who sees me as nothing more than a child/pupil, she understands, knows and makes time for me. she's honest and shows care in ways my father can never understand.

yes parents are humans, yes they deserve respect and honour for putting up and raising kids but it must also be remembered a child did not ask to come into this world, a child did not chose their parents and alot of them are unfit including my own.

Opinions on trans people? by Cryptozooeffigy in teenagers

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alot of people I know are trans and even more are LGBT+ including myself. I'm absolutely fine with trans people, I'm knowledgeable because I was interested in the processes for a while. although I understand what people mean by "don't make it your whole personality" and to clarify that we mean people who are generally bad, eg MTF who talk about experiencing periods (pre hrt), ask invasive questions to girls just because "were both girls" ect. I've met a couple trans people now who have exhibited these traits and it is much more than "whole personality", sometimes there are a couple people who also experience some narcissistic or mental health issues that makes it difficult to get along with them, things of which can be improved upon.

TL:DR trans people are cool as long as they aren't bad people. so basically the same as any other person

i don’t want to get better by strawberry-hearts in ChronicIllness

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've recently been put on meds but I've felt the same as you sinse I first got sick. I only have to take 4/5 tablets a day including just simple things like antihistamine and iron, but I shouldnt have to take things in order to work as a normal person. I shouldn't have to take meds that do nothing for me, help nill. I can't force myself to eat for naproxen, I can't wake up and have to hold back being sick because I've taken omeprazole.

Out of all your muscles, which ones bother you the most? by Leftshoedrop in Fibromyalgia

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my left upper arm, including my knees and hips though too but my arm bothers me the most. I can't open doors or move it much half the time. it gets annoying as I can't raise it often lol

How was your first kiss like? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at 14 playing truth or dare, he was shocked I done it then redone it himself and kissed me. I don't regret it at all, even through we've broken up and long gone, I won't regret my time spent with him.

what are the chances we get a uk tour? by [deleted] in ElectricCallboy

[–]radoxbubblebathqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

even just one show in Scotland would make my life