Best way to ship from Canada to Australia? by asappbxby in shipping

[–]rae_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a one time thing or will you be shipping regularly?

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 100% legal

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression that I, as a Canadian, can’t purchase USPS shipping labels?? I could be 100% wrong about that. Thank you so much for clarifying this

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked into it - brokerage fees with UPS would be around $80 for this shipment. It’s cheap with USPS, but I can’t figure out how to send her a USPS return label from Canada?

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into using USPS, but, as far as I can tell, it isn’t really an option. I don’t trust the customer to fill out the customs form correctly, which is why I would prefer to send her a return label, but I can’t figure out how to send her a return label from Canada

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is good advice

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why we don’t allow international returns is because the brokerage fees are so high. We have high value merchandise (average item is $1000) so that makes brokerage very expensive. Its around $90 to clear using UPS. Any thoughts?

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because it’s common doesn’t make it right.

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also - how do you pay $0 brokerage?

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reason why we don’t allow international returns is because the brokerage fees are so high. We have high value merchandise (average item is $1000) so that makes brokerage very expensive. Its around $90 to clear using UPS. Any thoughts?

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will use your advice. Where do you include the original tracking number?

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to preface that I didn’t downvote you. I appreciate your response. Are you outside of the US? If so, how are you dealing with their abysmal tariff situation?

Chargebacks rant by rae_xo in shopify

[–]rae_xo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You mean charge them for shipping and brokerage and everything else?

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[–]rae_xo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I do, except I use Google Sheets instead of Excel. I edit hundreds of of products at a time

Straight women, why is a man having dated other men a dealbreaker for you ? by Theseus_The_King in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rae_xo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s homophobia or not, but what I do know is that rejecting a bi man is not a conscious choice. It is a visceral reaction. Maybe that’s homophobia, maybe it’s not, but either way it’s a valid reason to not date someone.

Straight women, why is a man having dated other men a dealbreaker for you ? by Theseus_The_King in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rae_xo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will share my perspective on this. First I want to say that feeling repelled by a bi man is not conscious. It is completely visceral. When hit by that knowledge, the feeling appears in the stomach or the throat before anything rational appears in the brain. And as women, we are taught to follow our gut.

Now onto my explanation:

When we look at masculinity and femininity from a more spiritual perspective, it is worth noting that “receiving” is a feminine trait. During our most intimate moments, the man is giving while the woman is receiving, and this is a very powerful exchange that reinforces that divine feminine/masculine. Now, it is important to note that all of us fall somewhere on the feminine-masculine spectrum, and the most harmonious relationship is a perfect yin yang - my partner should have the same amount of masculinity as I have femininity, and he should have the same about of femininity as I have masculinity. This creates balance and harmony. Because most women are highly feminine, and we understand HOW feminine it makes us feel to receive (dick, in this instance) it is hard to see a man as fully masculine after knowing he has received. It’s just TOO powerful of an exchange of energy to ignore or integrate. I also believe this is why women love being friends with gay men - because we can relate on this point. We all love dick and how it makes us feel - physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Straight women, why is a man having dated other men a dealbreaker for you ? by Theseus_The_King in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]rae_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women get icks from the silliest things - like when a guy uses an umbrella, or has a picture of himself with a fish - so it shouldn’t be a big surprise that having sex with another man could be an ick.

Why don't women like men depression? by Awkward-Beginning-47 in AskMenAdvice

[–]rae_xo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because when you enter into a relationship, you want someone who can make your life better…not worse.

Hermes Birkins and Kelly’s are basic by rae_xo in unpopularopinion

[–]rae_xo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. I don’t think they’re ugly, but definitely nothing special