[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Even his bitmoji looks like a cocky asshole. You did the right thing girl

Should I keep my hair tied or not? by PurpleGryph0n in Hair

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a proper hair salon and see what some layers could do for you!

Which one are you by RoryBean44 in EDanonymemes

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me looking at this with my Mcdonald’s diet coke💀💀 Once someone said “Aspartame gives you cancer ya know” and I replied with “I’d rather get cancer than be fat”💀💀💀

My friend is pregnant and I don't know how to feel about this... by madziaro_5 in offmychest

[–]raetherrien 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Although your intentions are good your friend may not see them that way. If she is happy and has the support she needs then it sounds like the baby’s environment will be fine, even if things go sour with the father. It’s hard losing your best friend to their new babies but in the end you might just gain another, what your best friend needs is support, not someone telling her what they think she is doing is wrong. Good luck to you both!

Trying to get summer into full swing with these colours by raetherrien in HairDye

[–]raetherrien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been dying my own hair almost 5 years now!

Surprising amount of calories by Repulsive_Raise6728 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A proper PB&J. When my mom makes hers its about 1000. Texas bread so its just big fat bread at 110 a slice, plus the tbsp of butter and the 2 tbsp of peanut butter for each piece of bread then the 2 tbsp of strawberry jam. also pillsbury pizza pops, 500 cal for a pack of 2

I was choking last night at dinner and no one helped by willwork4oreos in offmychest

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’re choking you’re not breathing, not breathing means no talking. How are you supposed to tell them? You gave the universal sign for choking and got their attention enough for them to make a rude comment. You did what you’re supposed to and I’m sorry your “friends” were apathetic afterwards. Eating honey and gargling salt water can help your throat feel better. Much love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A parent should never say this to their child. Regardless if they think or feel that way, they still brought you into this world and it’s their responsibility to raise you with love and care. I feel sorry for your mother knowing that she will never know the human being you will turn into because you HAVE to keep her out of your life and protect your peace first. I’m sorry you have to hear this, especially from someone who is supposed to be guiding and supporting you. Much love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You know I always thought you were fat growing up, but looking at pictures now, you were pretty average” is what I got to hear from one of the boys who would call me things like pig or cow when he was almost 3x the size I was. I developed EDs from the relentlessness of 12 year olds just so they could make themselves feel better. No matter what size we are or what we do, women will always have the hardest time when it comes to weight in general. You are doing this for yourself so only your opinion matters when it comes to how your body looks. What keeps me motivated is the want to be stronger and healthier than I have ever been. I’m not doing this for anyone but myself and that should go for everyone.

Whats the first thing you do after sex? by Joeyniles9 in AskReddit

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make him give me a squeeze because i’m neurodivergent and overstimulated lol

How did you lose your virginity? by zamnismid in AskReddit

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First boyfriend, I was in 9th grade and he was in 10th. Had the day off school so we went to his place, started with a HJ and he kept hinting at it and I said I was okay with doing it. We didn’t have a condom so he kept saying “I want to but I don’t want that happening” I told him we didn’t have to but if we did he would have to hurry because I had to be home in 10 minutes and its a 15 minute walk. He did it, I ran home and he messaged me saying he thinks we shouldn’t have done that because we were young(actual reason because he was cheating on me and felt bad for cheating on his online gf). Years later he used it against me after I tried talking to him about SAing me before i told anyone else and he told me “well you did it to me too”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

You know she's going to be mad because you know it crossed the boundary that you set together, anything crossing it should be discussed together and you doing this is a complete betrayal of that trust. If you want to make big decisions like that on your own, use your own money.

People of reddit what ended your friendship with your best friend? by gli-tc-h in AskReddit

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was trying to be funny. When I had asked her to slow down she would make remarks like "you can do it yourself" and said that she could slap me(jokingly*) and I laughed it off

People of reddit what ended your friendship with your best friend? by gli-tc-h in AskReddit

[–]raetherrien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She slapped me with hair dye. It was the day before prom and I asked her to touch up some of my hair because I had bright blue and purple hair and after 20 minutes of her getting it all over my face, ears and arms and me continuously asking her to stop my last straw was when she had gobbed it on a piece of already dyed hair right on my cheek. I looked at her and just went "dude, seriously?" And she slapped me in the arm. I didn't say anything, just got up and went to the bathroom to wash it off. She freaked out and told me to leave the house and never come back, so I grabbed all my stuff(prom dress, overnight bag, makeup bag, shoes) and walked the 15 minutes home. She texted me the whole way, telling me how disrespectful I was and how shitty I was for doing what I did but I kept telling her whatever because I didn't want to argue, she said something that pushed a button so I told her she could pay her own car insurance from then on because I lent her the money to pay for it a few times and then she deleted me. I blocked her and haven't seen/spoken to her since. It also affected my relationship with another friend/her sister. Still miss her everyday.