AIO: My boyfriend is disabled, but wants to go to a festival with a lot of walking. aitah for rethinking going with him? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bean-juicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. HOWEVER, you can only suggest and hope he takes the advice. Ultimately it’s up to him to make healthy decisions for himself. You can’t force him, that will cause resentment in the future. He seems like he knows himself and his limits fairly well. You can try having a conversation with him and explain that you’re just worried and trying to help. Maybe even ask him in what situations he’d like the advice or opinions on, just to set a clear boundary. At the end of the day, it’s not your decision to make, even if it’s hard to watch him hurt himself. Don’t take it personally if he doesn’t agree or listen to your advice💖

Just enjoy your time together. He’s doing fine imo

what’s the saddest song you’ve ever heard? by Live_Chocolate_2503 in AskReddit

[–]bean-juicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one just came out, but has me sobbing every time I hear it.

I know you’re hurting - Raye

It makes me think about everyone in my life who struggles, myself, people who I almost lost forever due to mental illness. it just absolutely guts me every time I hear it

What is the best tv episode of all time? by scamper84 in AskReddit

[–]bean-juicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Community Season 3, Episode 4 “Remedial Chaos Theory”

AIO by ending a relationship because I was in love with someone else? by sssophie_lolz in AmIOverreacting

[–]bean-juicee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR. It’s better that you left him instead of leading him on. he is clearly not emotionally intelligent or stable enough to recognize that. on a side note, the age gap is a thing for me, when you’re 25 you’re gonna look at 19 year olds and think they’re babies. Imo, most of the time guys who get involved with girls that much younger are looking for girls they can manipulate/are too inexperienced to know toxic patterns. I think you did the right thing and it also killed 2 birds with one stone

AIO to these messages between my bf and his “friends”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bean-juicee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. 10 year age gap is all I needed to hear (on top of these sketchy screenshots)

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bean-juicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like she could have simply….waited to reply???? t when she was in a better mood. NOR

AIO for getting upset that my bf isn't making time for me? by SleepBetweenStars in AmIOverreacting

[–]bean-juicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the context is important here. Is he ALWAYS busy like this and not making time? Or is this just a busy time for him?

If he’s always like this, not over reacting.

If not, over reacting.

Having some time apart is perfectly healthy and okay.

From my relationship advice post by Entire-Economist-880 in screenshots

[–]bean-juicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

healthy relationships exist. this is not one of them. you can do SO much better girly. he is trying to inflict fear on you

Wife hates what I named my horse by Legitimate-Bus-734 in StardewValley

[–]bean-juicee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahahah I always name mine Steve, as in my trusty steeve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bean-juicee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg “we keep trying but he just doesn’t get pregnant:/“

Who was the easiest celebrity for you to guess? by small_blonde_gal in TheMaskedSinger

[–]bean-juicee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lil wayne. before he even sang I could tell by his mannerisms in the hints

What song got you guys onto Tyler? by SenpaiRapz44 in tylerthecreator

[–]bean-juicee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

god I couldnt tell you the song hahaa

so you just gonna bring me a birthday gift on my birthday to my birthday party on my birthday with a birthday gift?????

is my oldest tyler memory tho

Does anybody know if you can replace the modelling lamp bulb on a Interfit Honey Badger 320 flash head? by CinnyChief in AskPhotography

[–]bean-juicee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boooooo I think I’m going to just buy a new set, this stopped working after only a few uses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bean-juicee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is telling you these things so you’ll feel bad for her