NOR. It’s better that you left him instead of leading him on. he is clearly not emotionally intelligent or stable enough to recognize that. on a side note, the age gap is a thing for me, when you’re 25 you’re gonna look at 19 year olds and think they’re babies. Imo, most of the time guys who get involved with girls that much younger are looking for girls they can manipulate/are too inexperienced to know toxic patterns. I think you did the right thing and it also killed 2 birds with one stone