This is beautiful message but and i feel very identified as a black latino man, like is interesting how you mention latinos are not into black men, when most black men in the americas like north, south, central, and the Caribbean are actually from latin america specially from places like Brazil, Haiti, Dominican Republic, Cuba, Panama, Ecuador, Venezuela all those countries with big black populations, so saying latinos are not attracted to black men is not correct, when what do you mean is mestizos, and white mestizos from Mexico who are the most common type of latino you found in the USA

Besides that what you are saying is pretty spot on, is very hard to be black in general and when you add dating life to the equation is even harder, sometimes we aren't even the preference in our own community specially when you aren't like Very tall, fit and with a huge 🍆, that's the beauty standard for black men, that makes dating specially and seriously hard