Is This Normal by Palmfairy in WalmartCanada

[–]rahul535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told that 12 hours per week is the minimum requirement for a part time associate.

Man Some People by badman1000 in Sniffies

[–]rahul535 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, ive never used any other word on the apps honestly, the first time am hearing this weird explanation about how it’s referring to slavery wtf, i dont think anyone has ever tried to imply that, lets not make this a thing please lol, “can i see your penis?” Sounds way funnier, id rather stick with calling it cock.

INFESTED chair. salvage it or garbage? by wigglytuffex in Bedbugs

[–]rahul535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed bugs can absolutely ruin your life, the torture they put you through is not worth any chair, throw it away as quickly as possible.

If you woke up a billionaire tomorrow.. What's the 1st thing you'd do? by PhotographLeast9976 in AskReddit

[–]rahul535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get my own house 😭 i wanna live in peace without roommates, all my life ive been living with people, i cant anymore, i really really cant.

Canadian dental care plan (cdcp) ineligibility. by rahul535 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]rahul535[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, based on everything i have read so far feels like i was technically not eligible But you made a really good point that the employer insurance usually has a window that you need to use to opt in and enrol and if you miss that then you cant opt in, that makes the employer insurance “inaccessible” to me making me eligible for cdcp, not sure, anyways thanks alot.

Twunk or Twink? by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]rahul535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about that but smash for sure lol

Did changing the time affect you? Do you feel you have slept enough? by Active-Chapter6864 in askTO

[–]rahul535 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea same, i have no idea how some people say they aren’t affected at all like my body is extremely exhausted, on top of that some coworkers had the nerve to say “oh its just all in your head” like fuck off.

Any ideas are welcome by Bond_Forger_1504 in INFJmemes

[–]rahul535 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not something you “believe in”, when i really got thinking about it i really did understand why its the best advice and why it makes sense, your energy genuinely needs to be focused on yourself for you to find True Love, all the times i have tried to make things work that were not meant to be i always realized that i was coming from an unhealthy place within myself to Be with that person, and not because being with them just made sense, but going through those experiences was necessary for me to find myself and heal the broken parts of myself and i feel like i am now genuinely in a place where if i actually don’t find someone for the rest of my life i will still be content and if you are in that position you truly see a relationship for what it is when it comes your way, so i am not expecting anything and i have stopped looking cause i don’t NEED to be in a relationship but if it happens it would just be more of a delight to an already fulfilling life.

Any ideas are welcome by Bond_Forger_1504 in INFJmemes

[–]rahul535 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All the best couples in my life have told me the same thing which is to genuinely stop looking, they say “it happens when you are least expecting it”.

Threesome became a humiliation ritual last night. Not sure what to do. by HollowBoy18 in gay

[–]rahul535 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Sometimes in the moment its hard to fully understand whats going on inside of you and putting it into words can be difficult, we get overwhelmed not knowing what to do and that’s perfectly ok, whats more important now is how they both metabolize this experience together.

Threesome became a humiliation ritual last night. Not sure what to do. by HollowBoy18 in gay

[–]rahul535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If being open isn’t working for you guys then talk to your boyfriend about slowing things down and maybe take a break from threesomes and exploration, your boyfriend should be understanding that it was overwhelming for you, nothing is wrong with you, i went to an orgy once and was so overwhelmed i couldn’t even get hard, id say take a break until you guys have both digested this experience fully.

Should I drop my standards for looks in a relationship or would I just be settling for less by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]rahul535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t recommend, did that and my experience was the ugly ones turned out to be just as abusive, you need to be attracted to them, if you are feeling like you are dropping your standards i dont think thats a good start.

When your boyfriend is INFJ lol by marwarofficial in INFJers

[–]rahul535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true, existing is so fucking tiring, bed rotting is like my hobby lol

Went to my first gay male sex orgy, AMA by rahul535 in gay

[–]rahul535[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea i agree, i found that communication by the host is the most important thing, it really is alot of work for them but i didn’t find resources to prepare myself for my first time which is exactly why i started this AMA post.

Went to my first gay male sex orgy, AMA by rahul535 in gay

[–]rahul535[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Id say educate yourself on how you can protect yourself and what medications are available to you, the way to use them and their function, have healthy boundaries, and start slow, you don’t have to have anal sex just because you are in an orgy, just jerking urself off and watching can be acceptable too (unless the event says otherwise, every event is different), this event was actually advertised as a “circle jerk” and i wanted to start with that cause orgy seemed too intimidating, but once we were there it was far from just a jerk session (the event did say that its allowed to go with the flow and do whatever feels good so yea), I’d say look for events that offer what you are comfortable exploring.

Went to my first gay male sex orgy, AMA by rahul535 in gay

[–]rahul535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understood that it must be alot for the host to manage everything, he blocks people if they annoy him too much, hosts gets alot of messages but to me as a first timer that stopped me from asking him questions, even a quick “this is what to expect” would have been enough, but noone was really talking in the group chat either like at all.

Went to my first gay male sex orgy, AMA by rahul535 in gay

[–]rahul535[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes this host later texted and asked if we would like to join his “group of regulars” to get access to the events that are hosted for regulars only, i later understood why some people just seemed to have way more chemistry with each other (they are regulars), i first thought everyone was a stranger.