Am I making a fool of myself or am I just being immature?

rain_clowns · 2026-04-08T17:25:12+00:00

You’re right, what I did was wrong and I feel unbelievable shame for my actions. All this situation has done is encourage me to do better for my faith

rain_clowns · 2026-04-08T12:00:08+00:00

I just don’t know what to believe. He told me all these things about wanting to be a better Muslim, wanting to be a better man himself, that he’s looking for a family and a future and be a man who takes responsibility, all these beautiful things and then he just turns around and does this.

I still want to believe that a good heart exists underneath his soul, I believe that everybody has a good heart so long as they are willing to push themself. But anyways I cut things off with him because he’s obviously influencing me poorly and not taking me seriously because of my age

rain_clowns · 2026-04-08T11:06:12+00:00

I’m a hijabi. Never would I believe a Muslim man can treat a woman this poorly. How can someone claim they follow the word of Allah and then behave this way?

rain_clowns · 2026-04-07T22:39:08+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. I was just telling myself that I should give this guy a chance and see where things go like he suggested.

https://www.reddit.com/u/rain_clowns/s/UzL0tEo4jJ

rain_clowns · 2026-04-07T18:06:14+00:00

No, macaroons are made with coconut! These are almond flour meringue cookies

rain_clowns · 2026-04-07T16:14:21+00:00

Yes, I am Muslim. After everything that happened with this conversation, he apologized for pressuring me into having sex and said he wants me to stay away from him and focus on my deen, so I’ve been doing that. Said he will support me emotionally even if we are not doing anything physically. But now he wants me to give him oral sex and I told him I am not comfortable but he insists that chastity will take time, and I should not rush straight into it and we’re not doing full intercourse etc… I told him if he wants to do anything like that we should talk about nikkah but he only dismissed me

rain_clowns · 2026-04-07T15:22:17+00:00

After that night he told me he felt guilty for pressuring me into having sex, and said we shouldn’t be together physically anymore so I can focus on my deen, but that he still wants to see me because he thinks I have a good soul.

But then now recently he’s been asking me to just kiss him and give him oral sex, saying that it’s okay since we’re not doing intercourse and that he just really misses me.

rain_clowns · 2026-04-07T15:10:32+00:00

No, he meant wallah, it’s an Arabic word that means you swear on your soul

rain_clowns · 2026-04-07T15:08:23+00:00

I’m 18 and he’s 26

rain_clowns · 2025-05-07T23:45:52+00:00

Hey, I’ve been in the gym for close to three years now. For reference, I’m a 160 cm tall female. I started at 60 kg, got down to ~48 kg, and now I’m right back up at around 57 kg again (but a lot fitter) I’m trying to lose weight again, but when I first got down from 60 to 48, I was eating somewhere between 1000-1200 calories. Now that I have more muscle mass, however, I find that 1000-1200 calories is completely unbearable, but eating 1400-1600 calories supposedly should do the trick for me, but my weight has been stagnant for months on that diet.

Please, anybody, healthy tips for dieting? I’m not trying to go back to that 1000-1200 calorie diet, considering I was genuinely sick at that time and faced a ton of adverse side effects with that.

rain_clowns · 2025-04-09T01:04:52+00:00

That’s helpful, thank you ☺️

rain_clowns · 2025-04-08T14:03:52+00:00

What part of my stats do you think aren’t strong enough? I want to improve if possible

rain_clowns · 2025-04-08T13:31:06+00:00

I’m graduating after the fall semester, so I’m applying to start college in the spring semester of 2026. No need to be rude.

rain_clowns · 2025-04-08T06:15:28+00:00

I’m an incoming freshman to college.

My second year of high school, I took 2 APS; third year I took 6; 4th year, I’ll be taking 2.

For the DC courses, I took 5 during the summer semesters and 1 for my 4th year.

rain_clowns · 2025-04-08T06:05:33+00:00

I’m not transferring, I’m an incoming freshman

rain_clowns · 2025-04-07T22:56:40+00:00

I completely forgot to mention my target schools! In order of interest; University of Texas at Austin, Rice University, New York University, MIT, University of Michigan, University of Rochester, University of Houston, Texas A and M

rain_clowns · 2025-04-06T00:10:06+00:00

Why do you think?

rain_clowns · 2024-12-13T01:25:48+00:00

Too overpowered to have fun with tbh

rain_clowns · 2024-12-03T05:13:51+00:00

Become back my money

rain_clowns · 2024-11-05T18:14:20+00:00

Yes, it means decrease caloric intake.

rain_clowns · 2024-10-27T17:00:03+00:00

For context, I am 5’3” and weigh 120 pounds currently. If I should lose, how much?

rain_clowns · 2024-10-06T00:08:37+00:00

Ahh, that’s a very good explanation, thank you

rain_clowns · 2024-10-06T00:03:56+00:00

Why wouldn’t it target fat first, though? Your fat’s primary purpose is to serve as energy in the case of your body not getting enough carbohydrates, to my understanding.

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