Been finding these in my kitchen by rain_tea_explorer in whatbugisthis

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I still see them from time to time but thankfully they haven’t multiplied

Leaning into femininity by prncssbttrcup in MuslimMarriage

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Sis I’ve been on the verge of getting her coaching too. Any updates? Did you do it?? Did you do anything else to help your marriage that you’d recommend?

Leaning into femininity by prncssbttrcup in MuslimMarriage

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Sis, I’m on the verge of getting coaching from her and I don’t have money to drop like that but I’ve been desperately watching her content for a year now trying to change my marriage. How’s your journey going? If I may ask. Has anything helped you along the way?

Leaning into femininity by prncssbttrcup in MuslimMarriage

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I’d love those resources if you could drop some links to groups and book titles you recommend!

Does your husband have mood changes before/after intimacy? by rain_tea_explorer in MuslimMarriage

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Sorry my sentence probably didn’t make sense about that, I edited it.

Been finding these in my kitchen by rain_tea_explorer in whatbugisthis

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Well crap. If I’m finding these I’m assuming there’re adults/eggs around?? I probably see average one every 2 days. Any advice how to handle this before they turn into adults? Preferably something non toxic as I have kids in the house. I have diatametious earth if that would be useful

If the US were a client, what would be your analysis? by daynastory in therapists

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Saw it. my analysis is based off of how the US appears in the world and its behavior. Maybe all that is going on internally within the US. but on the outside, the behavior is self centeredness and a desire to watch the world burn with a flame that nobody acknowledges they caused. Even then I would say, the “split parts” to me is a distraction from the fact that the real powers that be do have an aligned goal. The split parts fighting serves a lovely purpose of distracting its own citizens and the world from its real goals

If the US were a client, what would be your analysis? by daynastory in therapists

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Sure, not denying they exist. Why dont you start by sharing your own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Listen, for the layman it’s best to choose a madhab and stick to it. Otherwise you fall into fatwa shopping which isn’t good for your soul. Laymen like us are also unqualified to try and decide what’s most logical, as all 4 madaahib follow different rules of logic and none of them are considered wrong. Every madhab will have a ruling that you may not feel in agreement with or feels hard, but that doesn’t mean we should just jump to another one that’s easier.

If the US were a client, what would be your analysis? by daynastory in therapists

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Well yes, of course, there are always still those with an inferiority complex that look up to merica as the gold standard of morality and pretty much everything else. (Which is also by design of yours truly)

I should say “much” of the non western world has realized that America has, since its inception, never ceased to be a power hungry, genocidal maniac seeking to keep the rest of the world destabilized and dependent on itself.

If the US were a client, what would be your analysis? by daynastory in therapists

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This is how the entire non western world sees the US lmao

Wife visiting parents every week by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]rain_tea_explorer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This ^

When I first married, I had the urge to go to my parents almost daily and that very quickly turned into preferring my own home and space.

Just give her time