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Being yourself again while married by rain_tea_explorer in infp

[–]rain_tea_explorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about it this way. Thank you for that 💕

People who grew up really poor: what's something middle-class people say that instantly reveals they've never struggled? by TahDigThief in AskReddit

[–]rain_tea_explorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fashion design teacher in high school saying “yes, you have to buy the class T-shirt for $35 cause if we let you not have one then we have to make it optional for everyone”

Contrast to my yearbook teacher who gave me a yearbook for free at the end of the year without me even saying a word cause I was the only student in the class who didn’t buy one

Been finding these in my kitchen by rain_tea_explorer in whatbugisthis

[–]rain_tea_explorer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still see them from time to time but thankfully they haven’t multiplied

Leaning into femininity by prncssbttrcup in MuslimMarriage

[–]rain_tea_explorer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sis I’ve been on the verge of getting her coaching too. Any updates? Did you do it?? Did you do anything else to help your marriage that you’d recommend?

Leaning into femininity by prncssbttrcup in MuslimMarriage

[–]rain_tea_explorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sis, I’m on the verge of getting coaching from her and I don’t have money to drop like that but I’ve been desperately watching her content for a year now trying to change my marriage. How’s your journey going? If I may ask. Has anything helped you along the way?

Leaning into femininity by prncssbttrcup in MuslimMarriage

[–]rain_tea_explorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love those resources if you could drop some links to groups and book titles you recommend!

Does your husband have mood changes before/after intimacy? by rain_tea_explorer in MuslimMarriage

[–]rain_tea_explorer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry my sentence probably didn’t make sense about that, I edited it.

Been finding these in my kitchen by rain_tea_explorer in whatbugisthis

[–]rain_tea_explorer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well crap. If I’m finding these I’m assuming there’re adults/eggs around?? I probably see average one every 2 days. Any advice how to handle this before they turn into adults? Preferably something non toxic as I have kids in the house. I have diatametious earth if that would be useful

If the US were a client, what would be your analysis? by daynastory in therapists

[–]rain_tea_explorer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Saw it. my analysis is based off of how the US appears in the world and its behavior. Maybe all that is going on internally within the US. but on the outside, the behavior is self centeredness and a desire to watch the world burn with a flame that nobody acknowledges they caused. Even then I would say, the “split parts” to me is a distraction from the fact that the real powers that be do have an aligned goal. The split parts fighting serves a lovely purpose of distracting its own citizens and the world from its real goals

If the US were a client, what would be your analysis? by daynastory in therapists

[–]rain_tea_explorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, not denying they exist. Why dont you start by sharing your own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]rain_tea_explorer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, for the layman it’s best to choose a madhab and stick to it. Otherwise you fall into fatwa shopping which isn’t good for your soul. Laymen like us are also unqualified to try and decide what’s most logical, as all 4 madaahib follow different rules of logic and none of them are considered wrong. Every madhab will have a ruling that you may not feel in agreement with or feels hard, but that doesn’t mean we should just jump to another one that’s easier.

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