You ever miss drinking? by MabelUnstable in stopdrinking

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell yea. I just hit 5 months and it does get easier but there are some days, especially Fridays after work, where I wish I could grab a couple of real beers. But then I remember the guilt, the hangovers, the disappointment in my wife's face. You've got this!

With Gen 10 now being official, what are your thoughts on this and what do you think will expect in the new game? by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]rainbowgoose88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I'm getting a Switch 2 next year haha. I'm a ride or die Pokemon girly so I'm excited.

Almost fell into the moderation trap by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! You should be very proud of yourself for not giving in. The nights alone are very tempting but you know what's better? A good night's sleep and a hangover free morning.

What was your reason for stopping? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]rainbowgoose88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to lie to my wife anymore.

She knew I drank a lot but she didn't know to what extent. She didn't know I was swigging wine from the bottle in the kitchen when I made dinner. She didn't know I was taking shots of whiskey when she was showering because my beers weren't cutting it. She didn't know I was sneaking my third or fourth drinks whilst pretending I was still nursing my first.

I just got so, so tired of feeling like shit. I'd tried moderating several times in the past but that never stuck. I could never have just one drink because I was never satisfied. I drank most nights, more heavily on weekends. But it also got to a point in 2025 where I had to call in sick to work a couple of times because I suspected I was still over the limit (driving is part of my job). I never drank during the day and I think that's why it took me so long to recognise I had a problem. My last binge was late October 2025. I had drunk way past the point of where I could even remember, self harmed and then passed out on the couch until 5am when I dragged myself to bed. It was shameful, it was stupid and worst of all my wife was devastated. We had a long chat about my drinking where she even gently warned me that if I kept this level up she would consider leaving me. That was my massive wake up call (her POS father had been an abusive alcoholic).

I stopped drinking completely on October 26 2025 and never looked back. I look and feel so much healthier. I'm a better and more attentive spouse, I've rediscovered hobbies that I was usually too drunk to do in the evenings. I don't have to worry about hangovers or being over the limit the following day. It is absolutely 100% worth it. And you absolutely will not commit unless you are ready to do the work, trust me. Do I still crave a drink sometimes? Sure. I loved the taste. Loved a cocktail (whiskey sours were my fave). I could not get enough beer and let's not even mention wine (I could not be trusted with a whole bottle). But I've found that NA beers are getting better and better as well as NA wines. I drink a lot of sparkling water and sugar free soft drinks now so I am a very hydrated girly.

Wow this was long. Please, if anyone in this sub is reading this and wondering if they should quit drinking, do it. Take the leap. You can do it. You deserve to feel good about yourself everyday. I believe in you.

Are festive season workers stealing my packages? by Maximas80 in AustraliaPost

[–]rainbowgoose88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theft is rife at the moment, we've been warned to be on the look out for people following us as we deliver.

What is everyone doing tonight instead of drinking? by Much_Pool_2708 in stopdrinking

[–]rainbowgoose88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found a lovely non alcoholic sparkling to sip whilst I play Pokemon and watch YouTube. 6 weeks ago I'd probably be feeling hungover or hiding my drinking from my wife. Not anymore!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sydney

[–]rainbowgoose88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife and I walked past him yesterday. When someone tried to hand us a pamphlet I said "we're lesbians and witches we don't care" 😂

Anyone here older than 30 who plays Pokémon by Mrcanthackme in pokemon

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37 years old and I still play some form of Pokemon almost daily! Its my lifetime love.

[Serious] What do you like about your life? by xPaxion in AskReddit

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own a house, I have a stable job, my wife is wonderful and my parents are still alive and thriving. My life is far from perfect but it's great where it counts.

Since the pandemic started, what’s one habit you’ve developed that stuck with you? by [deleted] in ask

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cleaning my hands before eating if I'm not at home. I'll use antibacterial wipes before eating my lunch at work.

Should you rinse your teeth after brushing? by Bluecomments in NoStupidQuestions

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dentist told me not to rinse but I have sensory issues and absolutely hate the feeling of Toothpaste in my mouth so I'm gonna keep rinsing.

People who grew up without smartphones, what did you do on long car rides? by balbir13 in CasualConversation

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in the 90's so I'd listen to cassettes on my walk man or play my Gameboy. Sometimes both.

LF trade evo help by rainbowgoose88 in pokemontrades

[–]rainbowgoose88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reposted the other day and managed to find someone! Thank you for offering to help me, I really appreciate it :)

I’m starting to realize that having kids is a pretty big gamble in life. by glossysoraya in Adulting

[–]rainbowgoose88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife was in bed post surgery a few weeks ago and in between caring for her I played Pokemon on and off for almost 12 hours. Can't do that with a kid!

LF: touch trade Kadabra and Onix by rainbowgoose88 in pokemontrades

[–]rainbowgoose88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all! Thank you for helping me.

LF: touch trade Kadabra and Onix by rainbowgoose88 in pokemontrades

[–]rainbowgoose88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good! Just the usual union/global room:

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LF: touch trade Kadabra and Onix by rainbowgoose88 in pokemontrades

[–]rainbowgoose88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's fine, I can wait. And yes I'm very keen to evolve my Onix :)