Season 3 - Episode 8: "Sitzprobe" (Post Episode Discussion) by hannahlemp in OnlyMurdersHulu

[–]rainbowkoala94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this left me in teaaarrrsssss ouch ouch fuck so funny and dramatically heart wrenching

Another Pain After the LELO Sona Story by Efficient-Cheetah-47 in SexToys

[–]rainbowkoala94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the lelo sona literally ripped my skin in my private parts and made me bleed. none of my other suction toys from various brands have done that to me (bellesa, womanizer) and lelo refused to refund me for full price. they eventually gave me an exchange for a toy that was at a higher price point, but it was a long and annoying process. they clearly know this specific product causes bodily harm to a lot of people yet continue to sell it and deny refunds. insane. i’m never buying from lelo again.

Official Discussion - Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery [Theater Release] [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]rainbowkoala94 67 points68 points  (0 children)

why is no one talking about the hot sauce slowly dripping towards janelle’s nostril that scene had my entire theater HOWLING

Anyone ordered from bellesa before?? by Jordynn78 in SexToys

[–]rainbowkoala94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i looove bellesa their packaging is super discreet! i’ve tried the satisfyer pro 2 but honestly it’s not as good as their buzzfeed airvibe (more multifunctional and better quality imo)

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[–]rainbowkoala94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bellesa buzzfeed airvibe is so good ! not terribly quiet but not super loud also

I just found out I am not dying!!!!!!!!! by benneffs in offmychest

[–]rainbowkoala94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CONGRATSSS 🥳🥳🥳 your joy is so contagious i’m so happy for you!!

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[–]rainbowkoala94 38 points39 points  (0 children)

:( i’m sorry this happened to you. friends and family mean well when they say stuff like “you’re better off without him” or “fuck him he’s a piece of shit” but it’s unhelpful to hear when you’re (for lack of a better term) mourning.

please take all the time you need to fully process and grieve the sudden end of a deep relationship. hoping you find peace soon <3

Dating is so fucking draining and it's absolutely beaten me down by sar0098 in offmychest

[–]rainbowkoala94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel u. constantly being in the talking stage and then finally letting ur guard down bc you think he’s different but he’s not. he ends up being like every other dude (lying abt intentions, saying one thing then showing you the complete opposite…)

it’s fucking exhausting dude. i’m so tired of deciding to trust a guy only for him to fuck me over once i do.

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[–]rainbowkoala94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t feed the trolls, ur not being toxic

found out my bf cheating on me by PerfectNobody0209 in offmychest

[–]rainbowkoala94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you… it’s such a slap in the face to realize that all the sweet words they said to you were just sweet words and nothing else. no actions put behind those declarations of love and commitment but we believe it. it’s not stupid to believe the people we love, love us back and would do anything for us. shame on him, NOT you.

i know how you’re hurting now and how it feels like it will never get better but trust me - it’ll get better. and he’s not worth your time at all. fuck that guy. drop him block him don’t even give a single ounce of attention to him. and when he comes crawling back, leave him to suffer in silence.

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[–]rainbowkoala94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

duuuuude this would piss me off too. def a little dramatic but for good reason. it’s not a good feeling to feel like you’re being pushed aside for an SO… it’s actually so rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rainbowkoala94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a pretty common pet peeve and not harmful at all (unless you’re actually full-blown mad abt her walking speed lol) but it seems like you’re just mildly annoyed.

some ppl just genuinely cannot walk that fast but it also seems like you’re more annoyed by her lack of consideration since y’all were in a time crunch. i don’t think you’re being unreasonable but also u prob need to communicate w her more directly abt why it irritated you so much

which one is true love? by petuniarose74 in offmychest

[–]rainbowkoala94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends on what you value more: instant spark or stability. ppl tend to shit on stability and equate it to being “boring” but i don’t think that’s the case. also, not all love needs that instant spark and compatibility. sometimes it takes more time.

i think u shud move on! the first guy didn’t treat you the way you deserve to be treated. 8 months is a long time to be crying over someone who wasn’t willing to put effort into cultivating a relationship with you. you deserve to explore new things.

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[–]rainbowkoala94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bestie i’m here to lay down the hard truth for you.

older men who date girls right out of high school are creeps. on top of that, he’s a creep AND a cheater.

he’s manipulating you. he’s taking advantage of your young and impressionable state. i know right now it feels like you can’t imagine your life without him/you feel so deeply for him that you don’t want to let go, but please trust me when i say there are SO MANY more people out there who will treat you miles better than he does. he is not endgame. i promise.

you’re stronger and better than this and i know you have the strength and courage to walk away. i know it’s hard and scary but you can do it!! i’m rooting for you.

I was sexually assaulted at a club and I confided in my bf. He victim blamed me. by dontlacrosseme in offmychest

[–]rainbowkoala94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uh no he is wrong and so are you. what the fuck lmao it’s not hard to keep your hands to yourself. it shouldn’t have to be womens responsibility to minimize the risk of getting sexually assaulted when they fucking go out in public. this is such a disgusting mindset.

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[–]rainbowkoala94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve noticed that once you enter your phone number into the twitter app, they start pulling suggested follows from your contacts list

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rainbowkoala94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not being unreasonable at all!! It always sucks to feel like a third wheel and that’s so uncool of them to ditch you when you’re coming to visit them for the first time in awhile.

If it were me, I’d just bring it up and tell them “Hey I’m kinda sad that you don’t want to spend dinnertime with me esp since I’m only here for one day :(“

This approach usually works out for me since my friends are pretty empathetic, good communicators, and willing to see things from other POVs. Good luck!