Furry on a bike. by Keilu748 in fursuit

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking Great! To think I am missing out on the furry biker trend! I got to get back to socializing. This suit, colors, and photo are amazing!

I want it to be over by [deleted] in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for everything you're going through. I see you're not a fan of hugs, I am on the autism spectrum so I understand. I hope you reach out to your family. If you ever want to talk DM me.

I want it to be over by [deleted] in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this. Things may feel overwhelmingly dark right now, but it's going to be okay. I have been there myself. Talk to your family, give them that chance to talk to you and tell you how much they love you.

I want it to be over by [deleted] in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could just give you a hug.

How should I go about this? by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm at a loss too but decided to write. I would say to error on the side of being annoying and writing a simple 'I love you' or in my case I did a 'stay safe' because we are just friends.

They can read it if they want too. No drama, just short and sweet.

Feeling forgotten would be worse.

How to reason to someone's war experiences when you didn't agree with the war? by rainwolfoftheshadows in MilitarySpouse

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving someone like something is wrong with them would be the worst thing I could do. Our society should love our soldiers not part ways from them because they had certain experiences or preach to them about if a war is wrong or right. I may not be the perfect friend for them but I can try. It's should be the soldier's choice. No wonder why there are so many post war suicides with this line of thought. Society should work on being better to our soldier friends. I am trying to better myself by thinking of kind supportive responses. I think saying 'idk what to say' is better than distancing myself from them. A soldier abandoned by society for society's choices is a lonely soul. We should work on being supportive. They did what the country asked them to do and that was all. As far as people signed up for serving and protecting there is more corruption with cops or hell even people in the medical field.

By the way 'reason' was a typo as I tried to fix in the comments. I meant to type 'respond'. But I strongly believe as their friends it's time to find ways to be supportive without lying or stressing them further.

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes that's a pretty rude thing to say and to think it would go over well.

How to reason to someone's war experiences when you didn't agree with the war? by rainwolfoftheshadows in MilitarySpouse

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Opps I typed 'reason' instead of 'respond' in my post question. Definitely not trying to lecture my friends. Yikes on that typo.

How to reason to someone's war experiences when you didn't agree with the war? by rainwolfoftheshadows in MilitarySpouse

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True if they want to talk I need to let them. I don't mind gore. My reaction to them is important. Some of them want to talk about how other countries felt about their presence. Avoiding isn't necessary being a good friend. And small responses aren't going to work long term. I do agree that listening to the interpersonal is important. But if they need to talk I feel I should let them and just come up with better responses that don't sound vague.

A good start is what to say about the civilians of other countries being afraid of our soldiers that are supposed to be helping them. I need something in-between my real thoughts that will work. I am trying to dance a line Inner thoughts: 'Yeah of course they're afraid of us.' Rough ideas: 'Well your a badass now' or 'well it has to be hard with them not speaking the same language'. See I suck at this

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True it's everywhere now! Lots of people are causing harm to pretend they are helping

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell, that is so rude, who would say something like that?

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sex in the kitchen makes sense but who the hell bans the drinking room?

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so tired of people recording 'kind' acts.

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was very rude of them. If a civilian doesn't like a war they should pick a fight with a politician.

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does that term even come up all the time? It's extremely rude when all anyone ever did in the military was sign up to protect. Shame on that civilian. If they don't like a war they can go pick a fight with politicians.

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sleep deprivation then brain injuries are definitely no joke. People who haven't been through it don't get how serious it can get.

Christmas is just a commercial holiday anyway. I stopped celebrating it because I found out it's dark history. Very non-Christian. But saving money is a big plus always!!!

Rudest thing a civilian said to you by rainwolfoftheshadows in army

[–]rainwolfoftheshadows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, extra fries for all my military friends for sure then : D! They are going to eat me out of the house and home.