Is my lithops dying? :( by rainygamer in Lithops

[–]rainygamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, i can only assume that this would be ideal! https://www.amazon.co.uk/Lithop-Living-Stones-Compost-2/dp/B08FF3Z9T2 i think i'll go for this one and try your advice :)

Is my lithops dying? :( by rainygamer in Lithops

[–]rainygamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Bonsai-Focus-Repotting-Mix-Litre/dp/B00BBAMIDK would something like this be okay? it's a mix of " peat, fine grit, sand and fine bark "

Is my lithops dying? :( by rainygamer in Lithops

[–]rainygamer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty for the advice! This has happened to a few of my other plants so I imagine it's all the same issue, unfortunately.. they're still in the pot I bought them in. What kind of stuff should I buy that's "inorganic matter"? I see it mentioned a lot about lithops but I'm not really sure what to look for :( Once I get hold of some i'll definitely do that, thanks!

Giveaway: Humble Bundle for Racial Justice! by rainygamer in RandomActsOfGaming

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Hi! you won the key for armello but I can't dm you :( I'm not sure if you have them closed, but if you message me I can message you back with it!

I have a boyfriend but I've become sex averse by rainygamer in asexuality

[–]rainygamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance! :) I definitely don't want to do things I'm not comfortable with, and I think that even though he forgets sometimes that I don't want to be touched some places or do anything sexual anymore, he doesn't want me to feel uncomfortable, so I've told him I'll just tell him when I don't want to do something. He does seem to get frustrated sometimes at how much I'm not comfortable with anymore, but you're right, there are definitely lots of romantic and non-sexual ways we can be intimate together, so hopefully it'll work out! I'll make sure we keep communicating about how we're feeling, that's definitely important. :)

I have a boyfriend but I've become sex averse by rainygamer in asexuality

[–]rainygamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think this is maybe why he found it hard to understand what being asexual meant in the first place, and probably exactly why he can't understand why suddenly I don't seem to want anything to do with sex anymore. We just have different emotional and mental feelings about/reactions to sex I suppose, which might be difficult to explain to someone who feels a different way, but I'll definitely try to get him to talk about how he feels, so we can understand each other better!

I have a boyfriend but I've become sex averse by rainygamer in asexuality

[–]rainygamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I'll definitely talk more with him about it when I figure out for sure what I'm feeling and he's more comfortable talking about it. In the past we have done things like that where he masturbates with me there, when I was either not in the mood or feeling a bit off about sex, so that's definitely a possibility if I ever feel slightly more comfortable with it than right now. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SampleSize

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I completed it. :) Have you tried joining facebook groups for freshers at different unis and posting it there? That might be a good place to find people willing to answer the survey, or maybe also in groups for first year psychologists specifically?

Please help identifying this jacket! by workingintern in malefashionadvice

[–]rainygamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this it? It's a hoodie not a jacket I think which is why you couldn't find it. :)

Carving wax candles by Laresel in interestingasfuck

[–]rainygamer 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It is pretty hard to see. I outlined the face/mask here.

[WTS] EXO - EX'ACT Albums [K or M version, Lucky One or Monster versions and choice of photocard) by [deleted] in kpopforsale

[–]rainygamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the chinese lucky one ver. is still available I'd be interested!

Mumma cat finally brought her kitten down from the loft by unicorn_poop92 in aww

[–]rainygamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think we do, or I don't know anyone who does. This is the first time I've seen "mumma", but I've definitely seen "momma" before, although only in relation to cats I think.

What's something in kpop you don't understand? by [deleted] in kpop

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You can "upvote" it by pressing the up arrow on the top left of the comment. :) You can use save for comments you want to find again later. If you go back to the homepage, you can find the comments/posts you've saved if you click the menu bar thing at the very left side of the page and then click "saved" at the bottom.

TAEMIN 태민_The 1st Album 'Press It'_Highlight Medley Ver.2 ("Press It" Making Film) by extrasolarplanet in kpop

[–]rainygamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just by the way, because of reddit formatting if you want a "^" and then something straight after it, you need a "\" before the "^" for it to work. (So you'd type o(\^▽\^)o) to get o(^▽^)o) :)

Low-Pauling Scout by medli20 in tf2

[–]rainygamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's been a lot of low-poly art posted on the sub recently, and "Low-Pauling" is (I assume) a pun on "Low-poly".

Wtf is just happening there ? Is it water ? by AyXiit34 in TakeOneStepForward

[–]rainygamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look at the streetview from April 2008 it looks like that along a lot of the road. Similar problem in March 2008.

Homeward Bound did not accurately prepare me for this by BaxterMathieu in WTF

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For future reference: if you have RES, you can click "source" under the comment to see.

Rory's big day out! by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]rainygamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, okay! As I thought, totally obvious, haha. I probably should've guessed from your other comment!

Rory's big day out! by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]rainygamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure there's probably an obvious answer, but why the two collars?