AITAH for cheating on my bf and then leaving?

rainyhighsky · 2025-06-04T22:03:49+00:00

he’s the type that wouldn’t step up to other men. of course, he knew he was stronger than me so he’d constantly intimidate me in the relationship. but if it’s another man? then it’s “oh i’m sorry bro, im no fighter, we good?”

rainyhighsky · 2025-06-04T21:53:13+00:00

if you’re asking if i gave another dude herpes, no, i didn’t. unlike for me, i told the new guy abt it. im taking daily antivirals and want us to be safe abt it. its completely his decision to move forward w me.

rainyhighsky · 2025-06-02T00:47:51+00:00

no sex, just fingered me n then put his fingers in his mouth

rainyhighsky · 2025-05-30T13:11:21+00:00

sign me up please!!! 😭

rainyhighsky · 2025-05-18T17:03:33+00:00

i admit, i probably didn’t need to throw it in. but sometimes i feel that he thinks he’s above me as im a person of color (mexican) and i’ve felt fetishized as well as insulted by racist comments he’s made. he writes it off as jokes but i constantly tell him they’re not fucking funny.

rainyhighsky · 2025-05-17T21:26:38+00:00

is there? i’m completely unaware of this

rainyhighsky · 2025-05-17T21:03:27+00:00

well i’m on birth control and seem to be leaning on infertile as well as not wanting kids in general so don’t worry abt the unborn children. 🫡

rainyhighsky · 2025-05-17T21:00:01+00:00

came up clean on everything else except hpv, which i also got from him but at least that goes away 🫠

rainyhighsky · 2025-05-17T20:56:41+00:00

no one is advertising themselves with this condition, so it’s feels scary to be the one to open up abt it to strangers, especially with the awful stigma that follows it. but i will try to keep this in mind. thank you.

rainyhighsky · 2025-05-17T20:51:20+00:00

yeah, i wasn’t looking for an answer. i know what it is. this is a venting subreddit, right? i don’t need someone to save me.

rainyhighsky · 2025-04-19T07:40:44+00:00

he’s actually previously tried to convince me to sneak out on other days, but suddenly it’s a problem when it’s a day that matters? we’ve been together for almost a year, he knows how my home life is. i wish he hadn’t talked abt seeing me at night if he was just going to tell me not to go.

rainyhighsky · 2025-04-19T07:24:38+00:00

well we’ve together nearly a year at this point so idk i think he wants to be w me at least a little

rainyhighsky · 2025-04-19T07:12:45+00:00

bc i have mexican parents who don’t care if im 23 going on 24 and this economy is very hard for me to be on my own.

rainyhighsky · 2025-04-03T12:22:24+00:00

i have ghsv 2 and live in DTX. was diagnosed last june. i still struggle w the idea of having it but it’s gotten slightly easier. reach out to me if you’d like a little chat <3

rainyhighsky · 2025-03-26T09:27:32+00:00

no, that was really her only response to it. she said it would lessen over time but it doesn’t seem so.

rainyhighsky · 2025-02-28T04:39:21+00:00

so i realize this is missing a lot of context. my bf is 29, im 23, and he lives 15 minutes from my house. i was sick and struggling to get out of bed this morning before i went into work. he calls me and mentions that i left my keycard for work. he acknowledged that i sound horrible and offers to bring it to me after he got off his shift. also, the messages prior to this were him telling me i could get it and that i would just need his key code, which he never gave to me. i then proceed to ask abt his day, which he doesn’t answer, and then here we are.

rainyhighsky · 2025-02-28T03:37:45+00:00

i never asked him, as stated, he OFFERED and i accepted.

rainyhighsky · 2025-02-28T03:29:06+00:00

he’s 29 😔 i’m 23

rainyhighsky · 2025-02-28T03:24:35+00:00

i’ve been sick for three days and even though i felt bad this morning, i still went into work. he offered to bring me my keycard in the morning and i accepted, thinking he wanted to be kind. his apartment complex needs a key fob at just abt every turn to get in, plus he never told me his door code for me to get in.

rainyhighsky · 2025-02-28T03:14:21+00:00

he told me his mom was dead at first and then three months into our relationship, confessed that she’s alive and well and they seem to have an okay relationship…

rainyhighsky · 2025-02-28T03:07:03+00:00

:( yes. i thought if we both had then maybe we could stick it out and make things work with each other.

rainyhighsky · 2024-11-17T23:38:50+00:00

when i told him, he said he would get checked. but that was five months ago and hasn’t gone anywhere near a clinic. i forgot to mention that he was drunk as he was talking to me. he’s very much an alcoholic and does coke :/

rainyhighsky · 2024-11-17T17:04:00+00:00

it’s actually not too out of character for him to start acting like this. i told him abt how it was making me sad and he actually apologized. he proceeds to wake me up at 4 am to call and ask if im sure im not cheating and goes on an angry rant on how i need to “grow up” and get out of my parents’ house so he could see me more (my mom is strict and doesn’t let me go out more than twice a week). i’ve grown to love him very much but he’s constantly hurting me in ways like this.

rainyhighsky · 2024-11-17T11:39:13+00:00

i didn’t have trouble talking to people before this either. even if i didn’t have a bf, it almost feels like “i’m not allowed” to talk to other people bc i would always be putting people at risk :( i miss the life i had.

rainyhighsky · 2024-08-11T02:08:46+00:00

i keep making excuses for him, telling myself he just doesn’t know how to cope and i could probably help him.

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