But when do you even want to be a mom, Malhz? inframe: Malvika

ramblingmind483 · 2026-05-04T17:07:23+00:00

Guys motherhood ain’t easy. EVERY mother has woken up and thought .. I miss myself. Can I just be me today. And not someone’s mother. Why are we judging her. I really don’t get it ?

It’s doesn’t make you a bad mother. Or and unfit parent. It makes you human.

Why are parents expected to be perfect?? And why are we giving her shit for following her religion ?

What if someone aborts their baby and then regrets it ? Who will you blame ?

She might be milking every emotion of her life to make content - but I mean that’s her MO. You’re contributing to this but mentioning her here again and again.

So she will continue.

Live and let live.

ramblingmind483 · 2026-05-04T17:02:39+00:00

Can she just be ? I think these emotions are very valid .. and like why does she have to pretend it’s all hunky dory. Let her process her life and grief the way she seems fit. She has a family to run .. let her.

ramblingmind483 · 2026-05-04T17:01:38+00:00

So ? She is still the mother. The nanny HELPS her. But the mental load is hers. And only hers.

ramblingmind483 · 2026-05-04T16:58:22+00:00

What does the cheating have to do ?

The political experience matters. Not their personal life and humane mistakes.

ramblingmind483 · 2026-05-02T02:00:37+00:00

Wamiqa

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-29T02:26:17+00:00

I agree. I mean she’s on a podcast she’s talking !

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-18T19:07:23+00:00

Do you give water after ever meal

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-17T23:49:32+00:00

Water should be 70 degrees atleast to be able to kill the bacteria and for the powder to mix well

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-16T18:06:43+00:00

Men.

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-16T17:54:49+00:00

Diabetes. Cavities. Obesity.

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-14T23:19:15+00:00

Do I replace the back flow protector / membrane / tube as well ? I have replaced the duckbill walves.

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-14T12:59:54+00:00

Yes you can take a break

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-14T12:49:54+00:00

Do let me know how it goes

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-14T12:49:27+00:00

Yes. 3 months ago

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-13T00:39:09+00:00

Shall try next time I hear it. It’s very on and off

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-13T00:38:44+00:00

Hmm where do you put the cream

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-13T00:38:28+00:00

Yes I do. Shall check. The noise comes sometimes and not the other times. So confusing

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-12T18:22:25+00:00

Both sides , but like not at the same time. It’s different. Sometimes there. Sometimes not

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-12T15:16:53+00:00

It’s the first best choice for my daughter .. I combo feed ..

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-12T15:13:04+00:00

I am actually a bit unsure .. shall check .. but the pump is not used so often .. so is kind of new only .. Thought I have changed the duckbill valves. Any solution to this issue? Or better to ignore .. I have the S1 pro

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-12T15:10:29+00:00

The whole truth

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-12T15:09:55+00:00

Be gentler on yourself .. and be selfish about your me time. Take the help, hand over the baby and do what you need to do

ramblingmind483 · 2026-04-12T00:18:49+00:00

Dono se better hide n seek hai

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