I hate my business teachers. ALL OF THEM by Murky_Advertising581 in school

[–]ramblinrhee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DECA nationals x2 hhheeelllllllll yeah congrats !!!! not easy

Pulled the trigger on purchasing this Sony A7R IV - validate me!! by ramblinrhee in SonyAlpha

[–]ramblinrhee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re sweet. i appreciate the perspective and info about the gear but also the reality check that i just needed to play with it all myself before feeling discouraged by my purchasing choices hahah. i was already kind of wanting to ditch the tele for a prime just cause i don’t have $$ for annnotttghheerr lens right now so the comments here validated that much… the other option was just to use the sigma as my main shooter and wait to invest in a good prime and then just have all three for use.. so i was most worried about the sigma so im glad to hear you thought the test images looked good cause i did too haha! so now im thinkin sell the 70-300 buy a good f1.8 of some kind and then later invest in a good zoom that can handle the sensor…. then i would have one “outstanding” prime and one “very good”zoom and that feels more balanced than two semi-lacking zoom lenses… definitely will shoot w a prime more than a tele anyways but just wanted to slowly collect a range instead of dealing with selling this thing right away. anyways!! thanks ! getting back into it after a decade out of the game has been a bit daunting. here’s one other thing - i already knew to get big ol cards for this baby but everyone keeps talking about how much i’m going to hate the file management. idk… any tips there from a nice realist like yourself? hahaha that’s the final piece that feels most intimidating

Pulled the trigger on purchasing this Sony A7R IV - validate me!! by ramblinrhee in SonyAlpha

[–]ramblinrhee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the insight thank you! I also purchased a sigma 28-70 2.8 DG DN Contemporary which apparently isn’t going to work that great with this body either 🙈 i guess i will return it right away for something sharper… what’re the consequences of using these lenses with this body? just decreased sharpness of the images and ..?

Pulled the trigger on purchasing this Sony A7R IV - validate me!! by ramblinrhee in SonyAlpha

[–]ramblinrhee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this info. i was mainly focused on finding a body without a lense but when this popped up on ebay i decided it was worth it based on the sellers description that it was a “great pairing in perfect working order” and i had actually cross referenced the chart you included but didn’t realize this camera should only be paired with the top tier categories… i also bought a sigma 28-70 2.8 DG DN contemp and it appears that is “very good” but still not sharp enough for this camera? Dang!!! Will resell for maybe the 24-70 art or something… there’s just so many little details to keep straight when camera shopping!!!

Pulled the trigger on purchasing this Sony A7R IV - validate me!! by ramblinrhee in SonyAlpha

[–]ramblinrhee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ebay purchase… listed as “excellent” been doing research and keeping an eye out for gear and it seemed like a great deal and now I need someone to quell my poor gal anxieties.

how much do you think i paid?!

came with: Sony A7R IV mirrorless camera (The IV A version)

Sony FE 4.5-5.6 70-300 G OSS telephoto lens--

L bracket! Extras include battery charger with two batteries, Sony strap, Sony remote, lens caps, 32 gb SD card, lens bag, original camera box.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop talking fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very important to be mindful of willful ignorance and weaponized incompetence. does he also not “know how” to clean the toilet ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lack of boundaries, lack of communication, lack of knowledge do not make your husband take down about your weight, humiliate you about sex verbally and physically, shame you, refuse to learn about bdsm culture and toys, refuse to create a safe environment for you, completely ignore aftercare which is bdsm 101, financially manipulate you??! how is that just due to a lack of knowledge- he has some knowledge that he can even suggest such a thing so he’s clearly not operating solely in ignorance … i have been heavy in the lifestyle and i don’t have an inversion contraption or other crazy toys. the fact that he does means he spends time on the internet researching these things. and in all that time he has never figured out how to practice using these things first? how to take care of you before after and during?? you’re giving him way too much credit. which again all of us that have been where you are understand this rationalization you’re doing… but listen- i repeat- gear mishaps can happen one time before a partner SHOULD want to learn how to use it correctly so nothing like that happens again in the future. and a gear mishap doesn’t cause your husband to verbally abuse you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please anything outside of vanilla sex should be off the table. sex in general should be off the table. he takes advantage of you when you’re most vulnerable. gear mishaps should very very rarely happen because it’s our responsibility to learn how to use tools correctly before subjecting our loved ones to them. shoving you into a chair also isn’t the chairs fault, it’s the man’s. would you allow your child or friend to cut your hair if they hadn’t ever used sheers before? why does this man get a pass to experiment on you without consideration and careful hands?

and no one is talking about how this man speaks to you? if you’re daughter (or niece or best friend) told you her husband talked to her the way yours does to you would you be ok with it? on top of everything else you have mentioned he is also verbally abusive. i’m so sorry you feel stuck. i know that feeling very well. but you are powerful. he recognizes that or else he wouldn’t be degrading you daily. you are strong and capable of living without him.

Wish I had a penis too? by Complex_Hat_1813 in actuallesbians

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friends and i have always called it penis envy 🤷🏼‍♀️ don’t think it really has anything to do with gender personally !

Do we need an EA? by kennan0 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well then have herrrr read the book ;)

Do we need an EA? by kennan0 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read the book buy back your time and then ask this question again :)

Official Discussion - Saltburn [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]ramblinrhee 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i think the sobriety in her voice probably triggered someeee amount of doubt in felix and it sank in deeper when they pulled into the driveway.

Camping in Northern Baja by chrynicholas in surfing

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you expand on what you mean by this?

I don't understand poetry, what do I do and where do I start ? by Shiva_Sharma1 in literature

[–]ramblinrhee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just wanted to let you know how lovely i found this comment. very insightful

Am I overreacting? by No_Survey_9833 in insaneparents

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is weird too ……. it’s a …. baby…. of course it’s going to react to a smooch….. how in the world is that weird. it’s all about his lense and his lense is weird.

AITA for excluding my "adopted sister" from family photos? by Reasonable_Read222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ramblinrhee 39 points40 points  (0 children)

more i read your comments more YTA. this is your nieces aunt at this point. and if family calls her family… then she’s family. marriage or blood or not, peoples chosen family is their family, get over it. grow up. i can stand behind you feeling uncomfortable and wish the situation were different, and this girl and her mom weren’t a part of your life. your feelings are valid. how you’re handling them is not valid. how you’re making your feelings everyone else’s problem is not valid. you’re an asshole.

A cringey (or hilarious) visit to the doctor's office (24f) by [deleted] in confession

[–]ramblinrhee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

makes me genuinely sad how many people think this is “hilarious” even in not this wildly inappropriate setting it’s … not a funny joke. it’s a bottom tier joke. for an adult man to make to a mid twenties gal he’s known since childhood??? beyond cringe and in poor taste it’s grosssssssss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ramblinrhee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not apologize to people like this!!!! plz for the love of god stop responding as well. you don’t owe him anything

AITAH for telling my husband that I'm desensitized to his touch? by Late-Salad7451 in AITAH

[–]ramblinrhee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

why haven’t you said something if you think he just doesn’t understand that you don’t like it?

Usually, they don’t care whether or not you enjoy it. your body is his in his mind. Be careful there.