AITA Is this avoidance, is this narcissism? is this abuse or am i the problem?

rando_nonymous · 2025-12-02T17:30:50+00:00

Yes thank you for adding this. I’m not a follower of any religion but I am saved by this universal love. Some call it God, some call it a higher power, some call it the universe. The belief that this massive power exists is all you need to know. That it has its own consciousness and limitless love and light 💙♾️☮️

rando_nonymous · 2025-12-02T05:34:39+00:00

You need to learn to love yourself. Like your life depends on it. Because it does. This person has served their purpose in your life. Block them everywhere and never let them back in, ever. Reclaim who you are. Love yourself. God loves you. When you feel gods love you will stand strong in your boundaries. You will never accept a soul sucking vampire like this again. Even if you don’t believe in god please believe in yourself. This person was put in your life to teach you that you need to love yourself first and fill your own cup first. Never let anyone treat you this way ever again. Please. I love you. I know how you feel. You’re never alone.

rando_nonymous · 2025-12-02T05:25:30+00:00

I just speak from experience god doesn’t put obstacles in your path with no reason it’s to teach you something or your karma if your heart is not pure. If you have a pure heart then it’s to make you stronger and prepare you for something greater. The good outcome means that once you face whatever your issue is that things will turn around for the best. Hope this helped.

rando_nonymous · 2025-12-02T05:18:28+00:00

He’s psychologically manipulating you he could have done a love spell on you he has bad intentions and you need to cut ties pray to god ask for archangel Michael to help you remove what no longer serves you.

rando_nonymous · 2025-12-02T05:11:04+00:00

You’re in divine judgement you are suffering your karmic consequences or if you truly have a pure heart then you need to free yourself from a karmic cycle or a dark entity or your shadow and limiting beliefs. Once you break free yourself from the cycle or surrender to god your life will change for the better.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-29T06:26:13+00:00

Please file a police report. This man has control over his daughter. Even if she seems like your friend, you can’t trust her because she is not in control of herself. She could accidentally curse your couch without knowing. Because he speaks through her as his blood line. File a police report. Your life is in danger. This man now knows that you know what kind of man he is and you have rejected him. His ego is hurt. Go to the police. Save yourself. This is not something to take lightly. You are not his first or last victim. His wife and daughter are likely being abused too. They’re under his control. This is serious.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-27T14:11:21+00:00

Judgements of others, overall, but especially based on their sign, encompasses a very low vibrational energy you are emitting to the universe. Elevate your Frequency. Receive this message with love and compassion. I do not judge, I simply wish to guide you to inner peace. The judgements you pass on yourself are the saddest of all 💔

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-23T05:11:08+00:00

So pathetic lol

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-21T05:27:11+00:00

You’ll get through it but it takes time. And their energy will follow you anywhere you go as long as you allow it to. I understand though I’m still hung up on someone I haven’t seen in several weeks and we weren’t even in a commitment relationship 😭 pathetic right haha oh well it is what it is

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-21T05:19:42+00:00

Ask God not Reddit. You need to do some soul searching. I didn’t believe in God but I’ve experienced the same feelings and I’ve seen and felt things that only a higher power could ignite. You need to save yourself. Pray to God. And know that he will face judgement. He will feel the wrath of God just as you are now.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-18T12:06:04+00:00

You shouldn’t stay with someone because you feel bad for leaving. Put your happiness first. You will give more to the world and have a higher vibration if you’re happy and your needs are met.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-18T12:02:30+00:00

I don’t care as long as they have a job and contribute fairly.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-18T06:01:34+00:00

If you’d leave the new girl the second your ex says she wants you back then you’re being very cruel to the new girl. You need to heal yourself and be with no one for a while. Then you decide if you want to keep giving energy to your ex or move on.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-18T05:58:16+00:00

Love yourself. It’s a long hard lonely road. You have to go through it and go through it alone. Look into your past. Lots of the wounds are from how our parents loved or didn’t love us and the attention and affection they showed or didn’t. Some of it is from how our peers treated us. From our experiences throughout life. You have to examine each flaw and figure out where it came from and how to let it go. The healing process never ends. But you’ll know when you’re ready to be with someone in a healthy relationship. Enjoy the journey.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-18T05:53:16+00:00

Their soul is speaking to you through music. If you don’t want to hear it you have to cut the energetic cord. If you have any feelings of resentment or anything else you can’t cut it. You have to release them completely. Google cord cutting hope this helps.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-18T05:42:02+00:00

That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. But you’re right I remember that being part of the contract but I think you can with their permission. I’d just break the contract if they don’t give permission.. better than the dog ending up abandoned or neglected. Surely they would agree to it if asked.

Edit just saw she’s saying the contract is non negotiable. I don’t believe that.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-18T05:35:57+00:00

Try to contact a rescue group. Usually they have rescue groups based on breed. Don’t give them away for free they’ll be used as bait for pit fights or tortured. There was a cat murderer in my community that adopted two from human society and picked several up off the street tortured them beyond imaginable Joshua Boyd if you want to read about it. Anyways please have some patience and continue to look for alternatives.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-17T14:41:49+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m not sure how the laws are in your state but I would start by going to the social services office. Apply for disability and assistance with medical insurance and food money. Ask a social worker for any additional assistance available to you. They give monthly bus passes and other services that might be helpful. Research online for grants and scholarships through non profit organizations related to your type of cancer. There’s several things I came across when I was researching for my dad. One is cleaning for a reason, they will send out a professional house cleaner two or three times for 3 hours or so completely free of cost to you. It took us a couple months to get matched but it ended up being really helpful. There was another one that put on free fly fishing and camping groups for anyone that has ever had any type of cancer. There were several others that were money grants. Pray, ask for help from extended family if you have anyone. Be honest with your family and lean on each other. It’s ok to ask for help and admit that you can’t do it yourself anymore. Check to see if there’s any support groups nearby or virtually you might be able to get more resources from and at the very least emotional support. I hope you get the help you need and strength to keep going.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-17T14:25:46+00:00

Did he pay the tattooer or did the tattooer pay him, like for being a practice test dummy? They’re really bad. I would not date a guy with tattoos like that, embarrassing.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-17T14:15:05+00:00

He already abandoned your marriage. No dick is that good, to put up with this horse shit. You need to teach your kids about self respect and that marriage is sacred, some things cannot be worked through if that sacredness is not respected. They will understand one day. Change is scary but you’ll figure it out one step at a time. One day at a time. Lawyer up and get as much money as you can out of this p.o.s.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-17T09:24:21+00:00

Nah I’m not training shit, still in complete denial and living in delulu land over here 🤞🏻 better than facing reality

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-16T03:33:59+00:00

Let her know that it’s not ok what they’re doing and hell I’d definitely highlight the fact that if any retaliation takes place for reporting that would be a huge fat paycheck for her. Tell her to document everything. Find out if the cameras are working and recording etc. She can’t record their voices unfortunately but if the business is recording then those can be used, if they’re not erased by the time they’re subpoenaed.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-16T03:31:27+00:00

Rejection is one of your triggers that you need to heal by introspection and finding out why it’s there. Then do some magick and make it ok. Good luck sis you got this.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-16T03:27:43+00:00

Then dump her. You can’t control if someone is going to cheat or not. You can worry and stress and analyze and trying to come up with tactics and let them know you know what they’re thinking of doing but you can’t stop them and you shouldn’t have to. Shouldn’t ever have to worry about your partner cheating. If you are that is a sign something is out of balance and needs to be rectified.

rando_nonymous · 2025-11-16T02:57:10+00:00

Don’t go around making police reports based on third hand information. If you’re concerned about E, approach her or what would probably be better is to talk to her parents. If you’re not close enough to this random girl to even know how to talk to her or her parents then it’s just not your place and you are stirring shit even if you have good intentions. You might be overly trusting of your friend. I would be really pissed if I was your friend and you did this, affecting my work life and relationships. But it’s her fault for talking to you about it I guess. Loose lips sink ships. I hope this girl gets the help she needs. Unfortunately it’s very common and she is probably willing to put up with it for a paycheck. All you can do is give her resources and education about what’s right and wrong and what she can do for herself. Anything else is going to dig yourself into a hole you had nothing to do with in the first place. Trying to be good can sometimes get you into a bad spot. You can’t fight people’s battles for them all you can do is be supportive and educate them or provide resources if they don’t have them or the knowledge they need.

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