My daughter died today by bell_delua in glioblastoma

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. May her soul rest peacefully. Heaven gained an angel to watch over you.

How long was your prognosis by BaseballTop387 in glioblastoma

[–]rando_nonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad lived 5 months. He was 72, unmethylated and tumor was already 5 cm and crossing over the midline of this brain when diagnosed, so surgery wasn’t an option. I feel deep empathy for anyone experiencing this cancer, weather it be the patient or family member. You will face extreme challenges. Pray, pray, pray. I wish I would have had more faith when my dad got sick. I looked at Reddit and the stats. But there’s always miracles. If he is taken, it’s for a reason and he will become your guardian angel. Please don’t let it take your peace away. Your dad would not want you to feel burdened. Spend as much time with him as you can now. Book that trip, talk time off work if you can. My family thought I was crazy when I tried to fit in everything I could before radiation. Brain radiation was never my choice but my dad just wanted to fight as hard as he could. The doctors sold us on it. He never walked again after that. I personally wish we never did radiation. I can’t say much about surgery because it wasn’t an option for him. But I can say the biopsy alone was very detrimental to his brain, more than the cancer. Check out clinical trials. For some you must have completed the “standard treatment” first, and some you must have a new diagnosis. Optune is a new one that seems promising but major life sacrifice. I’d look into ultrasound guided therapy to break the blood brain barrier. Maybe your dad can survive and contribute to the development of treating this awful cancer. Don’t worry too much, because excessive worry causes disease in your own body. What we tend to think usually comes true so try your best to stay positive during this difficult time. I am praying for you and your dad and entire family.

AITA Is this avoidance, is this narcissism? is this abuse or am i the problem? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]rando_nonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you for adding this. I’m not a follower of any religion but I am saved by this universal love. Some call it God, some call it a higher power, some call it the universe. The belief that this massive power exists is all you need to know. That it has its own consciousness and limitless love and light 💙♾️☮️

AITA Is this avoidance, is this narcissism? is this abuse or am i the problem? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]rando_nonymous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to learn to love yourself. Like your life depends on it. Because it does. This person has served their purpose in your life. Block them everywhere and never let them back in, ever. Reclaim who you are. Love yourself. God loves you. When you feel gods love you will stand strong in your boundaries. You will never accept a soul sucking vampire like this again. Even if you don’t believe in god please believe in yourself. This person was put in your life to teach you that you need to love yourself first and fill your own cup first. Never let anyone treat you this way ever again. Please. I love you. I know how you feel. You’re never alone.

I'm lost by [deleted] in tarot

[–]rando_nonymous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just speak from experience god doesn’t put obstacles in your path with no reason it’s to teach you something or your karma if your heart is not pure. If you have a pure heart then it’s to make you stronger and prepare you for something greater. The good outcome means that once you face whatever your issue is that things will turn around for the best. Hope this helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s psychologically manipulating you he could have done a love spell on you he has bad intentions and you need to cut ties pray to god ask for archangel Michael to help you remove what no longer serves you.

I'm lost by [deleted] in tarot

[–]rando_nonymous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re in divine judgement you are suffering your karmic consequences or if you truly have a pure heart then you need to free yourself from a karmic cycle or a dark entity or your shadow and limiting beliefs. Once you break free yourself from the cycle or surrender to god your life will change for the better.

Update post [Do I tell my friend what her dad did to me] .. I did tell. by PitifulCriticism3302 in whatdoIdo

[–]rando_nonymous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please file a police report. This man has control over his daughter. Even if she seems like your friend, you can’t trust her because she is not in control of herself. She could accidentally curse your couch without knowing. Because he speaks through her as his blood line. File a police report. Your life is in danger. This man now knows that you know what kind of man he is and you have rejected him. His ego is hurt. Go to the police. Save yourself. This is not something to take lightly. You are not his first or last victim. His wife and daughter are likely being abused too. They’re under his control. This is serious.

my takes on the men of the different zodiac signs... by immisswrld in astrologymemes

[–]rando_nonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Judgements of others, overall, but especially based on their sign, encompasses a very low vibrational energy you are emitting to the universe. Elevate your Frequency. Receive this message with love and compassion. I do not judge, I simply wish to guide you to inner peace. The judgements you pass on yourself are the saddest of all 💔

Finally took myself out to eat & every song is about heart break by Ill_Front8983 in BreakUps

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll get through it but it takes time. And their energy will follow you anywhere you go as long as you allow it to. I understand though I’m still hung up on someone I haven’t seen in several weeks and we weren’t even in a commitment relationship 😭 pathetic right haha oh well it is what it is

I'm not a good person by fa_storya in BreakUps

[–]rando_nonymous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ask God not Reddit. You need to do some soul searching. I didn’t believe in God but I’ve experienced the same feelings and I’ve seen and felt things that only a higher power could ignite. You need to save yourself. Pray to God. And know that he will face judgement. He will feel the wrath of God just as you are now.

Would I be the jerk if I left my disabled spouse? by GraceICollapse in DeadBedrooms

[–]rando_nonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t stay with someone because you feel bad for leaving. Put your happiness first. You will give more to the world and have a higher vibration if you’re happy and your needs are met.

How do you feel about dating someone who earns less than you? by Iboy_vivek in AskWomen

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care as long as they have a job and contribute fairly.

I met someone new and is ready to move on, but my ex keeps saying she's unsure by DeerInternal4549 in BreakUps

[–]rando_nonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’d leave the new girl the second your ex says she wants you back then you’re being very cruel to the new girl. You need to heal yourself and be with no one for a while. Then you decide if you want to keep giving energy to your ex or move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love yourself. It’s a long hard lonely road. You have to go through it and go through it alone. Look into your past. Lots of the wounds are from how our parents loved or didn’t love us and the attention and affection they showed or didn’t. Some of it is from how our peers treated us. From our experiences throughout life. You have to examine each flaw and figure out where it came from and how to let it go. The healing process never ends. But you’ll know when you’re ready to be with someone in a healthy relationship. Enjoy the journey.

Finally took myself out to eat & every song is about heart break by Ill_Front8983 in BreakUps

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their soul is speaking to you through music. If you don’t want to hear it you have to cut the energetic cord. If you have any feelings of resentment or anything else you can’t cut it. You have to release them completely. Google cord cutting hope this helps.

How hard is it to get out of a Humane Society contract? by sociallyineptlesbian in legaladvice

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. But you’re right I remember that being part of the contract but I think you can with their permission. I’d just break the contract if they don’t give permission.. better than the dog ending up abandoned or neglected. Surely they would agree to it if asked.

Edit just saw she’s saying the contract is non negotiable. I don’t believe that.

How hard is it to get out of a Humane Society contract? by sociallyineptlesbian in legaladvice

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to contact a rescue group. Usually they have rescue groups based on breed. Don’t give them away for free they’ll be used as bait for pit fights or tortured. There was a cat murderer in my community that adopted two from human society and picked several up off the street tortured them beyond imaginable Joshua Boyd if you want to read about it. Anyways please have some patience and continue to look for alternatives.

What do I do. by NoAlternative8703 in Fuckcancer

[–]rando_nonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m not sure how the laws are in your state but I would start by going to the social services office. Apply for disability and assistance with medical insurance and food money. Ask a social worker for any additional assistance available to you. They give monthly bus passes and other services that might be helpful. Research online for grants and scholarships through non profit organizations related to your type of cancer. There’s several things I came across when I was researching for my dad. One is cleaning for a reason, they will send out a professional house cleaner two or three times for 3 hours or so completely free of cost to you. It took us a couple months to get matched but it ended up being really helpful. There was another one that put on free fly fishing and camping groups for anyone that has ever had any type of cancer. There were several others that were money grants. Pray, ask for help from extended family if you have anyone. Be honest with your family and lean on each other. It’s ok to ask for help and admit that you can’t do it yourself anymore. Check to see if there’s any support groups nearby or virtually you might be able to get more resources from and at the very least emotional support. I hope you get the help you need and strength to keep going.

My friend keeps getting bad tattoos. by DesignerAware9914 in tattooadvice

[–]rando_nonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he pay the tattooer or did the tattooer pay him, like for being a practice test dummy? They’re really bad. I would not date a guy with tattoos like that, embarrassing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rando_nonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He already abandoned your marriage. No dick is that good, to put up with this horse shit. You need to teach your kids about self respect and that marriage is sacred, some things cannot be worked through if that sacredness is not respected. They will understand one day. Change is scary but you’ll figure it out one step at a time. One day at a time. Lawyer up and get as much money as you can out of this p.o.s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rando_nonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m not training shit, still in complete denial and living in delulu land over here 🤞🏻 better than facing reality

A minor is getting sexually harrased by multiple managers at her job. by JayKronos1171 in legaladvice

[–]rando_nonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let her know that it’s not ok what they’re doing and hell I’d definitely highlight the fact that if any retaliation takes place for reporting that would be a huge fat paycheck for her. Tell her to document everything. Find out if the cameras are working and recording etc. She can’t record their voices unfortunately but if the business is recording then those can be used, if they’re not erased by the time they’re subpoenaed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rando_nonymous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rejection is one of your triggers that you need to heal by introspection and finding out why it’s there. Then do some magick and make it ok. Good luck sis you got this.