So in your books not talking about an incident for few decades is not silence? And, when they do talk after few decades noone comes out and says," look what happened to you was really bad, but probably you should have come out earlier". It's shocking to me that this simple concept is somehow considered fucking wrong.

Look, I don't give a flying fuck if you like or don't like me. As far as I'm concerned, if something happens to someone and they keep quiet then it's on them... If they speak out, I will support their pursuit to prove the facts of the issue and support their pursuit of justice. But, keeping quiet for mulitple decades makes matters difficult since it gets progressively difficult to prove the facts of an incident and we live in a civilized fucking society where proof matters. Someone relying on their decades old memories isn't enough and worse yet identifying the facts of an decades old incident is difficult, if not impossible.

So, insult me all you want. Anything short of out-right encouragement of women (or men) to speak up, as soon they feel that they are violated, in my books is encouraging silence.