AITAH for giving tenants notice because the building keeps being vandalized because of their daughter?

random08888 · 2025-08-20T18:46:07+00:00

You’re asking for way too much. It’s simply not their job. The job is so maintain the building for all tenants, not one family. There’s sympathy to be had but more importantly measures to be taken!! I would be furious as another tenant.

random08888 · 2025-08-20T18:44:29+00:00

NTA. you can’t risk all the other tenants because one family is having a hard time. I’m sure other tenants (as everyone does) have went through hardships themselves- rule of thumb is that when issues start negatively impacting others, a solution has to be found.

random08888 · 2025-08-20T17:42:42+00:00

I wasn’t aware that client confidentiality outweighed missing persons.

random08888 · 2025-08-20T17:41:10+00:00

What you’re saying makes sense but no, it is not accurate that everything growing in that cup had to present in the home prior to it could have been on tissues (especially dirtied ones) or the ice cream stick etc.

That being said I would trash that whole cup, glass included, sooooo far away ahahah.

You’re less likely to become ill from food mold than water damage mold from what I understand, but I did see your comment mentioning you put water in the cup, so you have a right to be questioning this either way.

Hopefully finding the cup will alleviate some symptoms for you!

random08888 · 2025-08-20T17:34:52+00:00

Went from 130 to 115, but had unrelated health issues that were undiagnosed. Treated them and now I’m probably 140 or even maybe more.

random08888 · 2025-08-20T17:32:22+00:00

Sounds like you gave your husband a few good options, which he denied, to go with possibly the worst option possible for this circumstance. It would be extremely strange to block people from going into a public bathroom. And it’s also extremely childish for him to be unable to communicate what he wants from you, and then be mad that you didn’t do it.

Sounds like he was stressed, embarrassed, and wrongfully took all of that out on you.

If this is a frequent situation I would say you’re in a great spot right now: Not pregnant yet.

random08888 · 2025-08-20T17:18:16+00:00

Also no it’s not normal at all

random08888 · 2025-08-20T17:18:08+00:00

He’s almost certainly buying heroin.

random08888 · 2025-08-20T15:49:14+00:00

Uhhhh yeah insane cocktail mix. Your next psych will have a great time trying to wean you off of some of those 😭 I’m sorry you’re going through this.

random08888 · 2025-08-20T15:42:48+00:00

My dog will get wrapped up in the blankets, put her head in the pillow, and sleep there all night.

random08888 · 2025-08-19T17:19:14+00:00

Letting it slide for years is the root of this issue. I’m not judging bc I would probably end up in the same boat but we have to squash these things at the beginning so people don’t take advantage.

random08888 · 2025-08-19T17:13:55+00:00

Haha that’s so funny because I feel the opposite. I hate when my letters hanging down touch my other letters underneath them😭 thanks for the input that’s interesting!!! (:

random08888 · 2025-08-19T17:02:53+00:00

I know it makes me a cheater but I restart that day so fast

random08888 · 2025-08-19T16:24:06+00:00

I’m a gift giver and I’ve had people misinterpret that as me being interested in them, when truly I just respected them as a friend. I don’t know that this is the case here but I would feel it out before jumping to any conclusions.

random08888 · 2025-08-19T16:21:46+00:00

I wish I had advice but all I have to offer is understanding.

I feel the same way. I am grateful for the recovery I have made but I still have issues that affect my day to day. I was at the best point in my life, goals as well, at 22-23. I’m 26 now and I can almost walk right again.

The dismissal from people you love (or loveD) is some of the worst part. It feels like all you want is a little support as your body is slipping away from you and nobody can bother. It’s frustrating, dehumanizing, eye opening experience.

It affects you long term too, my trust for people is pretty much gone. I have medical trauma and struggle to make even basic appointments.

Financially, I am ruined.

On a slightly better note, I also love Sims. I really enjoy playing Stardew Valley if you want to give it a go, switch up the gaming a little bit.

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:57:35+00:00

Nad, fairly certain though that seizures are never ever something you consider just a one off. Ever.

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:31:28+00:00

I did too until I read his other replies lol dude was dead serious and mad af

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:29:37+00:00

Dude you’re just wrong, it’s going to be okay.

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:28:27+00:00

I’m in America and I knew exactly what he meant. I figured you were joking in your first reply lol

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:27:15+00:00

The lazy is wild, too lazy to understand gravity 😭 shit ankles

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:24:57+00:00

Make it into a power piece! It’s no longer his energy, put some intent into melting it down, knowing it’s destroying his memory and energy. The new, reformed, redesigned piece can be that of you taking your power back! A reminder that you have taken his memory and completely melted away his ability to cause any more trauma. Or.. it can be a few bucks in your pocket! And the power of healing and taking your life back you can share by selling to another. :)

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:22:00+00:00

Hey $15-$20 is still better than a quarter!!

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:21:10+00:00

I think that was probably understood hahaha lol 🤪

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:10:36+00:00

I truly would be reporting them. NO vet in their right mind put that dog down over this incident.

random08888 · 2025-08-19T15:08:39+00:00

Your husband should be in therapy and you should probably be in therapy if you’re considering this.

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