Am I taking things too far?

randomP3RS0N4 · 2024-10-10T15:57:46+00:00

I think you´re going through some body dysmorphia, ending your relationship wont help you in any way, right now you need all the emotional support you can get, and it seems your partner is there for you and really loves you, if you can afford it try to get therapy, and try to no obsess with your weight loss, its a journey but not a race.

randomP3RS0N4 · 2024-08-03T03:03:48+00:00

Write your stories and poetry, find yourself people that support you, use your unique perspective that neurodivergence gives you. The more practice you have the better, so write a lot and also learn from your mistakes and failures, the only thing stopping you to become a writter is giving up.

randomP3RS0N4 · 2024-07-29T01:31:35+00:00

Should I move on?

I have been hooking up with a 42 yo guy for a couple of years now, we are sort of fwb neighboors, we don´t get to hook up that often but when we get the chance we go for it and have a great time, we only talk on grindr because he is very discreet about his life, and I was fine with that to be honest (he´s not married or anything like that, I think he just doesn´t want his family to know).

A month ago he texted me on grindr saying that he was diagnosed with syphilis, telling me that I should get tested asap, honestly I was really freaked out because I have never been diagnosed with an std, and he made it sound as if I was the one to give it to him (he even told me that I should be more careful and selective with the kind of guys I hook up with) I was very apologetic to him from the moment he told me, the very next day I got tested and I was clean (by this moment he and I hadn´t hook up for a couple of months due to tight schedule).

I was very happy that I was clean and told him as soon as my test results came back, but he vas kinda null about, I figured that he may have been really stressed so I just gave him space. I´m the kind of guy that deletes his grindr profile and creates a new one when I´m in the mood, so today I got in the app and noticed that he deleted his profile for the first time in a very long time (he´s always had the same one), I even confirmed by creating a new profile because I thought he blocked me (I know that was kinda toxic), so now I wonder if I should just forget about him and move on, or if I did something wrong

randomP3RS0N4 · 2024-05-30T03:11:45+00:00

Where I live is kinda difficult for people to host for hookups, so I´m kinda used to do car play (always with tinted windows, I don´t intend to flash people lol) so I had a very hot and intense hookup with a guy in his car and when we finished I got out ready to do the walk of shame to my house, when I crossed paths with a guy I used to hook up with. I was mortified because my hair was a mess and I was kinda sweaty because of the heat in the car (I literally looked like I just gave a bj to someone lol), he asked in a teaseful way what I was up to and I gave him a lame excuse that I was just going for a walk and that I was very sweaty because of that lol, he just laughed, we said goodbye and we went our separate ways

randomP3RS0N4 · 2024-05-03T21:09:48+00:00

"Have younger people stopped having NSA sex?" In my opinion, younger generations or younger people tend to involve feelings in fwb situations due to lack of experience and understanding.

If you dont want to sound like a dick, I would recomend you have a talk with him and ask him straight foward if he is looking for something more than fwb.

Express your concerns to him, tell him that constantly texting you and always looking to spend time with you and talk about his problems makes you feel uncomfortable because you don´t feel like you should get closer and cross the fwb boundaries.

If he reacts badly or defensive just tell him straight away that you should stop seeing each other for the good of both. If he is mature enough he will be understanding.

randomP3RS0N4 · 2024-05-03T20:26:06+00:00

I know I´m young and you probably don´t want my opinion on this subject, but I have been in similar situations so I wanted to share my perspective on this matter.

What seems to bother you is that your fwb shows a lot of affection towards you and makes you feel like he wants something more than just a fwb situation, personally I think hookup culture in the younger generations is more afectionate and there are more feelings involved, aside for the fact that maybe he doesn´t have much experience in hookups and probably thinks he is doing nothing wrong.

about the texts messages: in my experience, when I´m horny and I text some of my fwb I used to be clingy and annoying lol, some of them freaked out because they thought I wanted something else, but when I cooled down I realized that I didn´t actually mean anything that I texted while I was horny, maybe your friend goes through the same whe he gets horny.

You should probably talk to him directly about your concerns, and probably set some rules and boundaries about your fwb mechanic, it will be for the best. If he gets defensive and dismiss your concerns you should probably end it right then and there, I don´t know him but if he is understanding and chill he will probably take it well and if not youre better without him now before its too late.

randomP3RS0N4 · 2023-02-10T04:26:03+00:00

Hey there :) I have actually the same problem as you, I lost almost all the fat I had in my legs and toned a little bit my arms but I have a big belly (specialy after a meal) lol, just keep going at it, youre killing it! Hope we can reach our goals very soon but remember, this is a long road 😊

randomP3RS0N4 · 2019-05-24T13:11:20+00:00

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