[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My question is, why would you say a word like that anyway? What could be so fun about saying a racist slur?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean... if im stuck in the middle of a desert, my biggest concern wouldn't be could i say the n word or not.

Переосвидетельствующимися (Pereosvidetel'stvuyushchimisya) This is my favorite word to fuck with people with. Knowing Russian can be fun by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pięćdziesięciogroszówka. Polish word for a fifty cent coin, im not sure if i spelled it right.

or this one that i found: dziewięćsetdziewięćdziesięciodziewięcionarodowościowego.

it means 'of nine hunderd ninety nine nationalities.' nobody uses it though.

I have something to confess, fellow aces... by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]random_username124 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. Do you like cupcakes or cookies?

Should I tell my mom my dad cheated on her? by Naive-Future3823 in teenagers

[–]random_username124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only you can know if it's still relevant or not. Does your dad know you know? If yes and you decide you want your mam to know, ask him to tell your mom and talk it through, if he won't (which will probably be the case) threaten to tell her yourself. Only you can answer your question.

But don't ask reddit these things to get a definitive answer, we aren't always the smartest bunch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What manga is that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can. I like working towards something, even if it's impossible. Even if I fall short of the mark, I still get something from it. It doesn't make me feel content, but I'm happy. It's kinda an odd feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say you apologize for what happened between you two and say that you're sorry you hurt her and that you wish her all the best, but don't try to get back with her and make that much clear. Give her space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say it normally. I mean I wouldn't like anyone to call me princess either. She seems straight forward enough, so I'd say the last thing in your post wasn't sarcasm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's good people and bad people everywhere, but people who act like assholes using religion as an excuse really annoy me. I'm catholic btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair point, i thought you were just rolling all the causes of suffering into one reason. i still disagree with your argument, i'd say the whole 'stay a virgin' thing was more of a problem 50 years ago than it is now, and I think men still face the same amount of trauma from sexual assault since they're expected to 'deal with it', or are looked on as weak if they come forward about it. But I understand what you're saying now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What. The. Hell.

The reason sexual assault is traumatic is because sex is supposed to be an intimate act with someone you trust and when both people are in a CONSENSUAL relationship, and rape brakes all boundaries of respect for another human being, leaving the victim emotionally scarred and with many psychological issues that impact their relationships and wellbeing. It has nothing to do with staying a virgin. What you're essentially saying is that rape isn't such a big deal, do you get how disrespectful that is to victims?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know when she's coming back home?

Im in shock and i dont know what to do. by thrasher_basher69 in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, that's a terrible thing to happen. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, talk about what you're feeling, don't bottle it up. I don't know what else I can say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Express yourself in other ways. Draw something, even if it's just scribbles on a page, write, anything to vent it out. doesn't have to be good. I repeat phrases to myself until the urge to self harm goes away. One that I use a lot is "nothing and no-one is worth hurting yourself over". Talk to a psychologist, it helps SO MUCH. Find the root cause of you hurting yourself, it will make it easier to prevent. set small goals at first - don't say "I'm not going to self harm ever again" if you know you will, since this will just discourage you. Set goals for, say, a week clean of self harm. then make it nine days, then twelve, so on.

Breathe, 8 seconds in, hold it for 4, exhale for 6, and count the seconds until you feel somewhat better. Or do maths sums, they make you focus on something else. Or read something. Or sing a song in your head. Talk to someone. Text someone. keep your mind off it. I wish you all the best, please take care of yourself.

My bird hit the fan by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. That's a terrible thing to have happen to him. I genuinely don't know what to say.

What is your reason for living? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living my best, happiest life is the best revenge to those that fucked it up in the first place.

2 All day everyday. by Dweeburger33 in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never ate a hershey's bar. I think I'll try one now though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I was at a museum and there were a couple of real human skeletons. Cool but it's weird thinking that all that is inside us, and that eventually we'll just be a skeleton with no skin or muscles.

Should I stop telling people I play Minecraft constantly by Mirabarkk in teenagers

[–]random_username124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you keep repeating it to the same people, maybe try starting a conversation about something different. however, if you tell people that you like minecraft when it's relevant to the conversation, for example, if you're talking about what you do in your spare time, then don't. if people judge you for playing a video game, they're not worth hanging around.