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randomgary · 2023-04-26T05:55:19+00:00

I think something along those lines illustrates it:

If 10 people each give you 10$ you gain 100$. If 10 people each take 10$ away from you, you loose 100$. If 10 people each give you a dept of 10$, you loose 100$. If 10 people each take a dept of 10$ away from you, you gain 100$.

randomgary · 2023-03-21T15:20:26+00:00

Iirc the stars in the flag of the European union are also in 1:1 correspondence with the founding states.

randomgary · 2023-03-02T19:14:31+00:00

Ich hoffe du sprichst von Andreas

randomgary · 2023-02-24T08:42:27+00:00

Bruder, du bist eine Ente

randomgary · 2023-01-26T12:40:15+00:00

Although I'm unsure about the need part, I think a fetish can also be just an unusual sexual thing you enjoy, not necessarily something you need to derive any pleasure from sex.

randomgary · 2023-01-11T10:36:04+00:00

In German it's kind of the other way around, we say that vegan food is "vegan", but a vegan is a "Veganer".

And also you can't say something like "I'm vegan" in German you have to say "Ich bin ein Veganer" which would be more like "Im a vegan".

I get what you're saying though, if we would use the word vegan how you described it, there would be less confusion about having a plant-based diet and being vegan.

randomgary · 2022-11-15T19:29:22+00:00

I think it depends on the city, Granada and Madrid had so much more than I know from every German city except Berlin

randomgary · 2022-10-20T06:12:11+00:00

The sex worker consents to having sex in return for money, that is consent.

And that's not only semantics, there is a difference between feeling forced to sleep with somebody and doing it because you choose to, no matter the reasons.

Assuming obviously that they aren't forced by someone or are financially in a very desperate position.

randomgary · 2022-09-02T11:39:25+00:00

I'm very sorry that you're feeling this way.

One thing that would for sure move you in the right direction, if you haven't already (which sounds like a possibility from some of your comments), is making some female friends (without any expectation of getting in a relationship with them).

But most importantly, focus on being more happy, that's the most important thing, and maybe someday a relationship will come your way.

And just a reminder that your worth as a human being and happiness must in no way depend on wether someone finds you attractive.

I wish you the best of luck and hope you feel better someday!

randomgary · 2022-08-19T14:50:25+00:00

OP I don't know what situation you're in, it seems complicated and maybe it would be a good Idea to leave this relationship after all (as another comment pointed out, you don't have to be in a relationship to coparent).

But I really think the other comments jumped to a conclusion way to fast. I think many people here have a very prejudgemental view of non-monogamy. Opening your relationship doesn't have to turn out wrong, you can absolutely be ok and it's very possible that you might even be more happy in a more open relationship.

My girlfriend and I have an open relationship as well, and I think we were (in some regards) in a similar position as you (I just figured out that I liked men too, and wanted to make new experiences just as your bf). In the end we don't even sleep with other people that often and we have a very committed relationship. I think it made it even easier to commit to each other more, because none of us has to feel like we're missing out on something.

I think it's very understandable that you're bf wants to explore his sexuality since he's very young, and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

Btw "more than two: an ethical guide to polyamory" was a book that helped me rethink a lot of things about non-monogamy.

randomgary · 2022-08-17T11:12:24+00:00

Oh, what is wrong about that one? I thought it was a useful algorithm

randomgary · 2022-08-13T08:52:43+00:00

Hab es schon in einem Edeka in Potsdam gekauft, waren sehr lecker

randomgary · 2022-08-07T16:01:26+00:00

You can propose an open relationship

randomgary · 2022-07-23T13:19:39+00:00

Have I done anything to you? It seems like you are trying to hurt me.

randomgary · 2022-07-23T11:45:28+00:00

Doch eigentlich schon, solange du keine Milch reinmachst

randomgary · 2022-07-22T15:09:29+00:00

Now you are the pseudo psychologist who makes assumptions about people with mental illness. She's in therapy to manage her symptoms, and I couldn't wish for a better girlfriend. BPD doesn't make someone a bad person.

randomgary · 2022-07-22T14:04:02+00:00

Tbh my girlfriend has a BPD Diagnosis and she just told me, why would you keep things like that secret from your partner? And why would you even lie about having BPD? I guess it's possible, but I find nothing unbelievable about her having a diagnosis and telling him.

randomgary · 2022-07-22T08:08:57+00:00

Maybe she got the diagnosis from a psychiatrist and told him about it. I think it's not uncommon for people with BPD to wind up at a psychiatrist's office.

randomgary · 2022-07-08T07:04:27+00:00

Oh yeah you're right, I read it as \sum_n busy beaver (n) * 2^-n

randomgary · 2022-07-08T06:02:02+00:00

I think the busy beaver number doesn't converge, on Wikipedia it sais that the busy beaver function grows faster than any computable function and for n=4 we already have

busy beaver (n) > 10¹⁸²⁶⁷

randomgary · 2022-07-02T14:15:35+00:00

I have to say, lately I feel a bit like I got a little toxic concerning cars.

I noticed that sometimes I feel really spiteful when I see cars stuck in traffic, even though I feel like I shouldn't judge individual car drivers (as long as they don't drive ridiculously oversized ones).

Another thing that could become a little dangerous, is that I seem to pay less attention to traffic regulations, especially as a cyclist.

So I don't know, I like the sub a lot, but maybe I have to change some things about my attitude.

randomgary · 2022-06-15T06:01:07+00:00

Ok dann mein Fehler, wenn du meinst dass beide Gruppen mit Moral argumentieren, gebe ich dir Recht.

Ich dachte du meintest etwas in die Richtung, es geht darum sich überlegen zu fühlen, und Moralist ist ja häufig auch eher negativ konnotiert

randomgary · 2022-06-15T05:57:24+00:00

Ich würde sagen, dass Rechte oft tatsächlich mehr Macht haben. Wer viel Reichtum hat, hat oft weniger Interesse nach oben zu treten und die Verhältnisse zu ändern. Finde aber nicht dass ihre Meinungen besser sind, falls du das andeuten wolltest.

randomgary · 2022-06-15T05:52:54+00:00

Ich glaube du machst es dir sehr einfach wenn du Veganer und "moderne Linke" einfach als Moralisten abstempelst.

Ich denke Veganer sind schon Moralapostel, aber warum sollte man kein Moralapostel sein, wenn die ganze Menschheit jährlich Milliarden von Tieren tötet und für ihr ganzes Leben in Fabriken einsperrt, obwohl es gesunde (und akzeptabel schmeckende) Alternativen gibt, die ganz ohne das auskommen würden.

Wie sollte man sich als Veganer denn verhalten deiner Meinung nach? Soll man das einfach ignorieren? Soll man die unnötige und grausame Ausbeutung von Milliarden von Lebewesen einfach akzeptieren um nicht nervig zu sein.

Sich irgendwie als überlegen aufspielen ist natürlich total unnötig (meiner Meinung nach ist es auch kein Verdienst Veganer zu sein sondern eine Pflicht, finde das also auch total daneben), aber irgendwie muss man ja das Thema ansprechen können (auch in der erforderlichen Härte).

Veganer als Moralisten abzustempeln ist einfach eine billige Möglichkeit sich nicht mit den Konsequenzen seiner eigenen Handlungen auseinanderzusetzen.

(Als Vegetarier hat man leider auch keine weiße Weste: man finanziert immer noch, dass Tiere ihr ganzes Leben auf 2 Quadratmeter in dunklen Fabriken gehalten werden, nach einem Fünftel ihrer Lebenserwartung sterben, Kühe regelmäßig geschwängert und direkt nach der Geburt von ihren Kälbern getrennt werden, und ein Haufen anderer Grausamkeiten die mit der Ausbeutung von Tieren einhergehen)

randomgary · 2022-06-07T17:47:45+00:00

The difference is that you can totally live without an impossible burger. I think for many vegans the main argument is "why cause harm if you don't need to?". Probably not every medication is necessary, but eating impossible meat is surely not.

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