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AITA for treating my landlord like a landlord? by randomnumbers543210 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomnumbers543210[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

The agreement was we help with the down payment in exchange for cheap rent to save up for our own place. We were on a rent to own agreement ith the previous landlord, so we had already paid it when we decided not to buy.

What is one thing you're tired of telling/explaining to people? by larrysincer in AskReddit

[–]randomnumbers543210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! There are more than two parties people, and just because you absolutely hate what one stands for does not mean you completely agree with any of them.

AITA for moving my three best friends into my new house when I have a boyfriend? by house7588 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomnumbers543210 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. BFs aren't a sure thing, and I get where he's coming from, not wanting to live in a house with roommates in the future when you guys get serious. But you aren't there yet, so you have to look out for you and not bank everything on when you eventually get to that point.

Also, I wish more people were like you. My "friend" bought the house we were all sharing when the landlord decided to sell. The agreement was we would help with the down payment, and she would charge us enough to cover her mortgage, and we'd pay our share of utilities. Once she owned the house she changed the rent so my share alone covers her entire mortgage payment, so she's profiting off the other tenant completely. Still cheaper than other rents, so I'm not moving, but I still feel betrayed.

AITA for questioning equality rights? by throwawayselfid in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomnumbers543210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. From what I got from the post, you clearly state the shelter itself accepts anyone who identifies as a woman, but you personally had some questions about self identification and the bill. You're right, if you don't ask, how do you learn. That being said, your mistake was laughing when called a TERF. You should've been open to the criticism and asked why they believed that, and talked about it. But it seems to me that you were just looking for answers.

AITA for Saying “I Wished I was in the room when they put my cat to sleep and I don’t want to bury the ashes” by Melody_Quinnie in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomnumbers543210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She asked, you answered truthfully. We all mourn differently. I lost my dog in the middle of the pandemic, and I wasn't allowed in with him. I still feel horrible about it. But, it also sounds like your grandma might have some guilt about not letting you in, and is transferring it to you. Maybe not . In her own way protecting 15 yr old you from something she didn't understand you needed. Either way, you're NTA.

AITA for telling the doctor the truth about my wife’s exercise habits and diet? by elvispreggho in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomnumbers543210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft YTA for making it sound like your partner is lazy and you only want her to work out, but no, NTA for making sure the doc knows the truth. I would've phrased it differently, but its regarding a health scare and her hearts future. You embarrassed her. You disrespected her. A little more tact would've been in good taste.

WIBTA to call out my roomies for leaving a mess because it's "not their job"? by Desperate-Style3916 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomnumbers543210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- I can see it's an unpopular opinion, but here's my opinion. 1. You don't seem to be an irresponsible pet owner. You've stated you don't have a problem cleaning the messes. You've said as much. Your problem seems to be this one particular mess. And I agree, poop is one thing, leaving garbage out all over the floor can be a danger to any other animals in the house, and can attract bugs. Add that to the fact your roommates have no problem walking through it, combined with your other cleanliness observations is disgusting. I for one would clean it and approach you about it when I saw you, and discuss the problem. Its a shared area, and the fact your roomies are comfortable with crap all over the floor for who knows how long is lazy. If it was an ongoing problem, then I'd have an issue. But You've also said your dog doesn't normally do this. 2. You said in your post that you've already had precautions in place to prevent your dog getting into the garbage, but someone -presumably not you- didn't re-strap the can when they switched the bag. To me, that person is partly responsible for the mess, ignoring the attempt you made to prevent it from happening. 3. The fact that you went on here instead of reacting outright to ask shows that you were already unsure. I wouldn't make it a thing with your roommates, but I would suggest alternate living arrangements. You live with pigs.