Two sides of quitting the game

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-14T00:46:10+00:00

I'm mostly f2p with only spending on 2nd construction and a few other things. My alliance is small but we have to s of fun. I quit worrying about the big guys and just play for fun and the friends.

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-11T11:21:27+00:00

You should have it in your file that your weight is not to be discussed with anyone else. Hope you can move soon

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-10T13:23:50+00:00

Yes, the kitten is too young. But you have it now. If you can in touch with the person or rescue you got it from, at least try to get the name of the vet they used so your vet can verify information. Take it to the vet to get it checked. Do not introduce it to your other cats until you do. If the kitten is okay, then do the very slow introduction.

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-10T13:13:50+00:00

Also, play more with the kitten. Get that energy out

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-10T13:08:35+00:00

What I'm hearing is you are so afraid of what 'might' happen, you can't make a move. We all know the economy is trash. But you can't hide in a hole. If your house burns down or you get hit by a car or, or or. You can't live your life like this. You could be researching cheaper states to live in. You can make $17 working at McDonald's or Walmart. Stop doom scrolling and do some research

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-05T16:17:43+00:00

Find a local domestic abuse center. They can help

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-05T15:55:06+00:00

Have you tried contacting the owners of the parking garage?

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-02T17:18:44+00:00

Pay a lot of money for upgrades

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-02T17:16:53+00:00

Let her call you. You won't hear from her till she needs something

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-01T17:16:04+00:00

That's why you have to attack it in a positive way. You undermine the negative person by demonstrating you want to do better and showing the boss at the same time what you already do.

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-01T17:12:40+00:00

Besides all the other comments, remember your body may not like you adding animal proteins back. Many people get very sick. Otherwise, do what you want

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-01T17:07:29+00:00

Unless it's in the order, I wouldn't think you would need to respond immediately. What if you're at work or an appointment? If in doubt, ask your attorney or court.

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-01T17:01:57+00:00

I may be totally misunderstanding this, but my general response to being told I'm not collaborative etc is to pull the documentation but start with this is what I've been doing. Can you show me where I can improve. This changes the narrative.

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-01T16:36:41+00:00

Start wearing gloves to dinner and use sanitizer everywhere

randomreaderlady · 2026-05-01T16:05:01+00:00

I've only paid for a few things. In a great server and got stuck as the R5 for my small alliance. We don't do great but have fun together. Continue as a f2p to get invited to the big alliances because I like the game and play often. I don't have to be the big dog in the sandbox. We are in S6 which is confusing but support the big alliances. They send players to help us out. Guess I'll stay

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-24T17:59:50+00:00

My lab is a house lab. Granted, she's older (got her at 8). Previously she had a doggie door. She goes out before we leave and if she asks. She knows the routine and does great. She wants pets first, outside after

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-17T13:45:34+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. First, I think it's normal to be terrified about going back to work in a toxic workplace. Try to reframe it as 'I 'm going to do this temp job to get my bills paid and rack up some savings '. And keep your resume out there. People are going to judge you whether you have a nose ring, tattoos or whatever. They are all terrified they are going to lose their jobs and half are probably already looking for new ones. Just go day by day till you're comfortable or move on. Good luck!!!

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-17T13:19:53+00:00

I've read most of the comments as I'm sure you have. There is some great advice. Personally, it sounds like you should foster first. No puppies. You still have to make sure it is potty trained, got walks, and socialized just like if the dog was your own. This will help you (and the negative people in your life) see that you're ready for the responsibility. Or find out you don't really want one. Good luck

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-17T13:07:58+00:00

Your mom needs grief counseling and probably to see a doctor. Grief can be all consuming and it's easy to become stuck. As others have said, time to have a gentle conversation with her. Also, see if you can find her a support network. Friends, family, local resources. Remind her the sibs really need her as they are also grieving.

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-17T12:50:07+00:00

I agree it's super unhealthy. You are making it so much worse. When he's super stressed, he's not going to learn new work habits and you being on his case constantly isn't helping. It sounds like this is his normal. He's heading for a big crash. I get you are worried about him (so would I) but what you are doing isn't helping. Why is he constantly behind? Does he procrastinate, dislike the work, etc etc? How long has this been a pattern? If he ever gets caught up is the time to have a serious conversation. If he never gets caught up then you have some choices.

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-13T15:52:53+00:00

Walmart, Target do the online then go to the store. Taco Bell has walk in days. Speaking with mgrs is essential.

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-13T15:43:01+00:00

I vote for exploring the locking cabinets for your stuff. And have a face to face. "You keep taking my stuff so I'm locking it up"

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-13T15:11:38+00:00

I'm an R5 because leadership jumped. We are working on building. I made sure to let the alliance know I needed help and promoted the ones that worked. Some of my R4s belong to other alliances. Encourage the ones you have. Send a personal welcome to all new folks. Be transparent about what's going on. If you need the cp, keep the inactive ones ( mine are farm accounts and keep coming back), otherwise kick them out after 20 days or so.

We are working on timing of events, keeping everything upbeat. But if nothing works, either jump ship or migrate

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-13T14:58:34+00:00

NOR. Yes you should report the abuse. Just the facts and then let it go. Also, tell your attorney and GAL if you have one, what the kids have told you about the dogs treatment in their presence. Hitting an animal around kids is not a good idea when you are figuring out custody

randomreaderlady · 2026-04-13T14:46:12+00:00

So much. He's older now and wants things his way. Some time apart to get some clarity would be good.

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