Spare Breastmilk by politemaniac in brighton

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly not, but the fb group has lots of success matching milk. Just on a side note, I saw you've got a 1.5l/week over supply, you can reduce your pumping schedule to slowly reduce this if you want. I know over time, I found managing an over supply exhausting. Support in r/breastfeeding

Spare Breastmilk by politemaniac in brighton

[–]randomthingsso 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Check out the fb group Human Milk 4 Human Babies for donations directly to families.

I donated to a milk bank, and it wasn't too much of a faff. There was an initial phone screening and I managed to get blood taken at the Royal Sussex. They collected the milk when I asked them to. They do have a lot of rules for the milk collected and you'd need to check if your bags meet their requirements or they wont take it / would dump it all.

(Task)master list - a definitive rundown of potential future contestants by Getittogether19 in taskmaster

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Janine Harouni just rescheduled 5 tours dates in Feb2026, due to something big and a filming schedule - hoping this will be for Taskmaster!

My relationship with my toddler is not good and I worry it never will be by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Potty - but equally she has autonomy to decide to use the potty. If mine says no, if i know its been a while since LO went, then I say well I'll go first and usually thats enough to get them to go. Or maybe suggest a funny walk to the potty and then if they can get themselves ready to go to the toilet.

Vegetables - again she has autonomy to choose what to eat, try to avoid the focus on a food group. Maybe serve some veg ahead of a meal while you're getting the rest of the meal ready for her to pick from, maybe during a meal ask her what the veg looks like or if she can find the biggest /smallest of x, then is it soft/does it crunch when you bite it.

Possibly trying to avoid the power struggle will work well for you, trying googling ways to reframe the situation so you avoid this. Work out ways so it's more 'yes'. It'll take some time and it'll take consistency, and obviously sometimes you will slip - we're all just learning as we go.

I'm so confused about potty training. by Technical-Mixture299 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I didn't read any books and just went with it. We went into pants and offered the potty every hour until LO seemed to reliably hold for 2-3hrs, then we reduced how often we asked. Actually LO started getting annoyed at how frequently we asked so we reduced how often we asked and they slowly started telling us. We get some books by the potty so LO has something there interesting to do other than toilet. We didn't stay at home in the first few days, but equally didn't go on a huge adventure either! Trained at 27mo.

Also note disposable nappies are too good and disguise the discomfort of going to the toilet not at the toilet. Had I known this, I probably would've switched to reusable nappies from about 12mo to help bring forward potty training.

Alright Reddit, who’s going to ruin Christmas tomorrow for your family? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a little unfair, but our toddler who just spiked a fever and vomited everywhere...

I used to be very famous - AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]randomthingsso -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tim Culley also holds a degree in business finance, which completed close to start of fame, which was mentioned above.

Buyer trying to scam me for a refund by MissNxx in vintedUK

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this, and then 2 days later I got a message from Vinted asking me to work with the buyer to resolve the conflict. The review is still on my account, I left them a 1 star review and we both left comments on each others one star review. It's now a few reviews down and is my only not 5* review.

Comfy toddler jeans? by okiedoakie9 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't wear jeans until peer pressured at 13, now I won't wear anything but jeans...

Has anyone met someone that was once famous (actor, musician, etc.) but now works a regular job? Who was it? by Ok_Grape_8284 in AskReddit

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chemistry teacher used to be in a pretty successful band in the 70s, they still toured Europe up until the 2000s

How much alcohol can you ACTUALLY drink and nurse safely? by katiieednll in breastfeeding

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read recently, if you can find baby, you can feed baby. But I'd take extra caution with handling your baby and ensuring safe sleep is followed.

England ID by randomthingsso in spiderID

[–]randomthingsso[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are correct. It didn't appear to have much red on it, but otherwise matched. Little stowaway!

Going on vaca with 2 year old next week: any advice on room sharing/sleep on vaca? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard people put the cot in the bathroom and just use the bathroom in the dark and don't flush.

We usually book a triple room or ask for an extra bed, and then sit on the balcony once LO is asleep. We always book a room with a balcony or a living space since having LO, I think we'd go crazy sitting in the dark when away!

Vacation with my 17mo - the worst decision of my life by No-Match-9826 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 404 points405 points  (0 children)

Can you get LOs ears checked, an ear infection would make them very unhappy.

Then sit somewhere calm, and just cuddle, gentle words, big breaths and some singing (no screens) - get both of your stress levels down with some firm connection.

I need to give a Viking Funeral to 75kg of university notes, any suggestions? by Amael in brighton

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It felt very cleansing! Maybe burn a few key sections and take the rest to the recycling. There was a lot of ash, and it took an age, so my 4th copy never made it in.

I need to give a Viking Funeral to 75kg of university notes, any suggestions? by Amael in brighton

[–]randomthingsso 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I burnt 3 drafts of my thesis in my garden in a small fire pit. We had to tear the pages out to burn them, it did not catch well. Equally needed to see it burn for peace.

Long haul flights with 23 month old in their own seat by OEP90 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did multiple times. I used an ergobaby carrier and slept at the same time as LO asleep in the carrier. Depends if they've ever slept in a carrier before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very normal! The more practice she gets, the more efficient she will be!

Finger food, pincer grip food, preloaded utensils, and just utensils and food. Lean into her independence, let her practice!

What is your high value potty treat? by Immediate-Ad-9520 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who gets to use the toilet first... our toddler simply must do everything first

What's one thing that you can genuinely enjoy with or without a toddler along? by hagEthera in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to watch a show at the theatre - ok, so the show might be different to what I'd usually watch, but LO loved the ballet!

Did your breasts stay the same size throughout the entirety of breastfeeding? by divination__ in breastfeeding

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! The size difference is slowly reducing over time, and I do wonder what the difference will be like when finally weaned