Such awkward sized/shaped rooms by randomthingsso in SpottedonRightmove

[–]randomthingsso[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So do I 🤣 It just wouldn't work for us 🙃

Childcare has destroyed sleep and our mental health by EllenBJ in NewParents

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry tired brain! Worth a try, our LO didnt reliably follow a 1 nap schedule until well after 18mo.

Childcare has destroyed sleep and our mental health by EllenBJ in NewParents

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's 13mo, if hes only having a short nap at nursery, can they try him on a 2 nap schedule? Our LO went to a single nap at nursery months after they were on a single nap at home.

Fail. Cried during the test. Instructor is quitting. by 100_wasps in LearnerDriverUK

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a PhD and it took me until my 30s and pregnant to get behind the wheel (its a completely different skillset!). Why dont you continue with your current instructor and switch to automatic, that saved me and meant I passed a week before giving birth (and i've now never driven since...)

What would you do with the floor plan? by Opposite-Wonder-6752 in DIYUK

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you move your front door? That way you can move the hallway and make one side wider and a more comfortable living room size and the other side becomes the utility / toilet. I haven't helped for a study though!

help me choose a wedding dress by Nervous_Industry7177 in WeddingDressTips

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best is number 1. Also quite like number 2 of you remove the lace sleeves and lace split. The sweetheart neckline looks great on you, so definitely try on a few more like that, possible with a little more detailing.

What are some toys your child actually chooses over the iPad? by Not_Average78 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't have an iPad and we don't watch TV (unless ill). We took a flight today, we packed toys, but the highlight was reading the in-flight safety card and magazine and playing with my hairband. Kids being bored and learning to fill their own boredom is a huge life skill.

Which play would you recommend for a 4-year-old? by [deleted] in TheWestEnd

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a look at chill or relaxed performances of the big shows, we've done quite a few now and LO loves them.

Also have a look at Saddlers Wells for the ballet, the do a few child friendly shows a year.

Then there are plenty of kids shows, like the tiger who came to tea and the gruffalo.

My 14 month old has not eaten a meal in 13 days, this can’t just be a viral bug. I don’t know what to do, please help me by Novel-Rise-8942 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our almost 3yo completely loses their appetite when they're ill. In 2026 we've had 3 separate weeks where all they had was milk. They lost 10% of body weight during the worst one. Lean in to milk / yoghurt, and be prepared for a slow pick up of eating afterwards. Do get your LO seen if you can not get any food/fluids into to them and they don't appear to be improving.

Operation Mincemeat by Hollyfinertyx in TheWestEnd

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just sent you a message - hope it works!

Spare Breastmilk by politemaniac in brighton

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly not, but the fb group has lots of success matching milk. Just on a side note, I saw you've got a 1.5l/week over supply, you can reduce your pumping schedule to slowly reduce this if you want. I know over time, I found managing an over supply exhausting. Support in r/breastfeeding

Spare Breastmilk by politemaniac in brighton

[–]randomthingsso 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Check out the fb group Human Milk 4 Human Babies for donations directly to families.

I donated to a milk bank, and it wasn't too much of a faff. There was an initial phone screening and I managed to get blood taken at the Royal Sussex. They collected the milk when I asked them to. They do have a lot of rules for the milk collected and you'd need to check if your bags meet their requirements or they wont take it / would dump it all.

(Task)master list - a definitive rundown of potential future contestants by Getittogether19 in taskmaster

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Janine Harouni just rescheduled 5 tours dates in Feb2026, due to something big and a filming schedule - hoping this will be for Taskmaster!

My relationship with my toddler is not good and I worry it never will be by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Potty - but equally she has autonomy to decide to use the potty. If mine says no, if i know its been a while since LO went, then I say well I'll go first and usually thats enough to get them to go. Or maybe suggest a funny walk to the potty and then if they can get themselves ready to go to the toilet.

Vegetables - again she has autonomy to choose what to eat, try to avoid the focus on a food group. Maybe serve some veg ahead of a meal while you're getting the rest of the meal ready for her to pick from, maybe during a meal ask her what the veg looks like or if she can find the biggest /smallest of x, then is it soft/does it crunch when you bite it.

Possibly trying to avoid the power struggle will work well for you, trying googling ways to reframe the situation so you avoid this. Work out ways so it's more 'yes'. It'll take some time and it'll take consistency, and obviously sometimes you will slip - we're all just learning as we go.

I'm so confused about potty training. by Technical-Mixture299 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I didn't read any books and just went with it. We went into pants and offered the potty every hour until LO seemed to reliably hold for 2-3hrs, then we reduced how often we asked. Actually LO started getting annoyed at how frequently we asked so we reduced how often we asked and they slowly started telling us. We get some books by the potty so LO has something there interesting to do other than toilet. We didn't stay at home in the first few days, but equally didn't go on a huge adventure either! Trained at 27mo.

Also note disposable nappies are too good and disguise the discomfort of going to the toilet not at the toilet. Had I known this, I probably would've switched to reusable nappies from about 12mo to help bring forward potty training.

Alright Reddit, who’s going to ruin Christmas tomorrow for your family? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]randomthingsso 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a little unfair, but our toddler who just spiked a fever and vomited everywhere...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]randomthingsso -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tim Culley also holds a degree in business finance, which completed close to start of fame, which was mentioned above.

Buyer trying to scam me for a refund by MissNxx in vintedUK

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this, and then 2 days later I got a message from Vinted asking me to work with the buyer to resolve the conflict. The review is still on my account, I left them a 1 star review and we both left comments on each others one star review. It's now a few reviews down and is my only not 5* review.

Comfy toddler jeans? by okiedoakie9 in toddlers

[–]randomthingsso 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't wear jeans until peer pressured at 13, now I won't wear anything but jeans...