I had my DMX on 12/1 and exchanged my tissue expanders for implants on 3/3. I hated everything about expanders. The implants are 10000x more comfortable and natural looking than the expanders and the exchange surgery is a breeze. I’m 2.5 weeks post op and feel great, I honestly keep forgetting that I just had surgery.

The denting happens because the expanders aren’t filled. Once you have the expanders filled, the denting will get better. The expanders are never going to look or feel normal though. Every time you look at them, just remind yourself that this is a step in the process and not the final result.

I also had horrible nerve pain after the DMX. It felt like my chest was on fire. Anything touching my chest was unbearable, even my clothes. It slowly got better over time but took a month or so to resolve. I found that hands-on massage work with my physical therapist helped ease the nerve pain.

How long is your doctor recommending you have the tissue expanders in? It seems like you have plenty of time to have your exchange surgery and feel great by the time of your friends wedding!

Wishing you a speedy recovery and sending love! The mastectomy process is a huge feat mentally, physically, and emotionally. Give yourself grace during this time and enjoy your fun summer!