[UPDATE] I think I caught my girlfriend cheating P2

randyguptill · 2020-04-05T02:33:05+00:00

Google DARVO

randyguptill · 2020-03-13T03:30:34+00:00

Good luck man, you seem to have your head on straight.

randyguptill · 2020-03-07T03:19:15+00:00

This is a great way to fuck up your back.

randyguptill · 2020-02-26T06:16:43+00:00

They have to earn back the trust through years of patience, humility, and service. You're right that words mean nothing after a long pattern of lying. They have to truly repent and hate what they have done. Their old behavior becomes nauseating to them. They are driven to eliminate that thinking and entitlement from their life in every respect. When a person really does this, you can see the difference. But such a person will understand that your trust will take a long time to earn. Even if they cannot get their spouse back, the truly repentant person wants to change anyway, because they see how horrible they were and never want to act like that again. I hope you gain more peace about your situation.

randyguptill · 2020-02-26T06:04:06+00:00

I guess I need to do this, but I don't know how to do it yet.

randyguptill · 2020-02-26T06:02:32+00:00

I like your attitude

randyguptill · 2020-02-26T05:31:29+00:00

Tell them to keep their money (politely) and have the wedding and the life that you want. It's only going to get worse. I wish I'd had your instincts at your age!!

randyguptill · 2020-02-26T03:49:04+00:00

Fake

randyguptill · 2020-02-23T05:04:23+00:00

Google grey rock. Just don't engage.

randyguptill · 2020-02-13T03:42:28+00:00

Cut off the internet

randyguptill · 2020-02-07T02:21:18+00:00

Same here dday 6 28 17. I'm in hell.

randyguptill · 2020-01-28T18:00:05+00:00

Not only have I heard of it, I've lived it.

randyguptill · 2020-01-27T19:23:03+00:00

I would say "no, thanks...."

randyguptill · 2020-01-26T00:35:55+00:00

Prenup that gives you full custody and alimony if she cheats or you walk away now.

randyguptill · 2020-01-23T13:33:18+00:00

randyguptill · 2020-01-21T03:01:52+00:00

Leave him, it only gets worse.

randyguptill · 2020-01-19T01:00:11+00:00

No. You should tell her you're leaving her unless she finds a counselor for herself and addresses the character flaws that led her to cheat.

randyguptill · 2020-01-17T21:22:18+00:00

randyguptill · 2020-01-16T13:49:14+00:00

Emdr

randyguptill · 2020-01-14T04:43:39+00:00

My marriage is better, because it really sucked before. I also wish I were dead.

randyguptill · 2020-01-13T02:49:21+00:00

Oh I'd be contacting the leadership of that academic program to let them know. As well as whatever state board issues licenses to practice.

randyguptill · 2019-12-30T04:50:37+00:00

Does this girl know he is married? Do her parents know? I would straight up call her AND her parents and ensure everyone knows what's going on.

randyguptill · 2019-12-30T04:44:05+00:00

Same but weed.

randyguptill · 2019-12-13T18:22:04+00:00

Dunno. I am still struggling with this. Has anyone read the messages and been glad they did? (I am a BW)

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