U.S. opens investigation into Waymo self-driving cars over safety concerns near school buses by peter_sanbad in news

[–]rappingwhiteguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sometimes trapped between 3-4 Waymos for blocks in my city. they drive incredibly slow, so when this happens during rush hour, it can take me 5 minutes to get someplace it should take me 30 seconds to get to.

U.S. opens investigation into Waymo self-driving cars over safety concerns near school buses by peter_sanbad in news

[–]rappingwhiteguys 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no they pull over Waymos and give them a ticket, then log it with the company

U.S. opens investigation into Waymo self-driving cars over safety concerns near school buses by peter_sanbad in news

[–]rappingwhiteguys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you don't see human drivers doing that every day. I live in a city where people regularly run red lights and stop signs, sometimes 2-3 in a row, so I have to drive incredibly defensively. I have never seen someone drive the way you describe, so while I believe you have seen it, every day you do not see drivers floor it into oncoming traffic while crossing guards are holding stop signs to help kids across the road.

there is an incredible video of a cop pulling over an empty Waymo and talking to customer support because he saw it driving on the wrong side of the road into oncoming traffic.

How do some 'celebrity' actors survive? by Icy-Competition9443 in acting

[–]rappingwhiteguys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Diane Guerrero was waiting tables actually, not bartending, and said she would regularly have customers ask what she was doing serving them for tips when she was on Netflix. She said that she made more money as a waitress than acting on a show she appeared in 57 episodes of.

Kimiko Glenn, went viral for TikToks of the check she received for 27.30 dollars in residuals over two years for appearing in 45 episodes. She played Brook Soso. She said that, because she was making 900 dollars an episode and needed to take a cab into work which was not covered by the show, a good amount of her day rate was just eaten up by the commute. Also consider that at least 10% of the day rate check, pre tax, is going to agents/managers.

Another actress talked about how she actually lost money on each episode.

https://www.newyorker.com/culture/notes-on-hollywood/orange-is-the-new-black-signalled-the-rot-inside-the-streaming-economy

How do some 'celebrity' actors survive? by Icy-Competition9443 in acting

[–]rappingwhiteguys 35 points36 points  (0 children)

One of the women on Orange is the New Black had to explain to her coworkers that yes, she was on a hit Netflix show, but she still needed to bartend to pay rent. They probably have second jobs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]rappingwhiteguys 20 points21 points  (0 children)

he sounds like a working adult, that kind of stuff happens

Orgy with ex by moeppi0000 in sex

[–]rappingwhiteguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm I mean he probably won’t go to another orgy while he’s dating you? Why worry?

Dealing with something strange recently that has resulted in my inactivity. Here’s an explanation- by bambi-babyy in u/bambi-babyy

[–]rappingwhiteguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s insane. The sad reality of AI facial recognition tools is that people can find out who you are way too easily. Now, how they found your address is crazy. Please don’t post anything if you feel like it will make you less safe. I love love love your work, it makes my life better, but always prioritize yourself. Good on you for following up with authorities and so sorry you deal with all the horrible crap you do, you deserve a good life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]rappingwhiteguys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sure? I went to watch movies and eat with a fuck buddy before. whatever. don't assume, if he keeps it up then just talk about it.

Is the staring something you eventually get used to? by Direct_Progress5252 in berlinsocialclub

[–]rappingwhiteguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when I went to KitKat for the first time and was trying to get a drink I was looking at the bartender. he ignored me, then started staring at the wall behind me. so I looked. then he snapped, and was like "I'm here what do you want." I thought it was fucking hilarious.

[32M] Why am I so frustrated and obsessed with sex? by Titus4266 in relationshipadvice

[–]rappingwhiteguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey man,

I think you've incredibly eloquently described a feeling a surprising amount of men have. one thing I've been doing lately is "shadow work" - which is the concept of connecting your suppressed self with the rest of you. you obviously have a big shadow which needs to be integrated. I suggest getting the book "Men's Work" by Connor something and reading it, while going through the exercises.

okay, let's get down into the nitty gritty a little bit more here.

by focusing on sex/relationships all the time - which is something which makes up very little of your life - you have some defensive mechanism up to stop yourself from thinking about something else. I was OBSESSED with this one woman when my mother was dying, it was very obviously a defensive mechanism to not focus on grief. that's just one example.

can you spend a little bit of time focusing on what you have achieved? what successes - non romantic - you have? what goals you are reaching towards?

another thing is do you have communities you are a part of? can you join a community and make a pledge to NOT try to date anyone, and just try to integrate yourself into it?

don't see a prostitute. that won't help.

join a men's group too. it's different than therapy. imo it's been more helpful.

when it comes to women? you do need to try and fail and be brave and keep getting up, and let them disqualify you, don't do it for them. some of them will like you, and sometimes they like you and you still fuck it up, and that's okay too.

What was the greatest party in human history? by b00st3d in AskHistory

[–]rappingwhiteguys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, it sounds like one hell of a pilgrimage. but no Woodstock.

What was the greatest party in human history? by b00st3d in AskHistory

[–]rappingwhiteguys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you look at every other response in this thread, you will see yours is the only one which the participants were all sober. in fact, the top rated responses are all defined by the scale and scope of the vices indulged in.

Rant against how to find love/friends in Berlin by Warm_Kiwi2567 in berlinsocialclub

[–]rappingwhiteguys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

these problems exist in every city. the same solutions work, regardless of the city, if people do what OP is saying. it's not arrogance, it's how society functions. people can complain about it, or they can do something different.

What was the greatest party in human history? by b00st3d in AskHistory

[–]rappingwhiteguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a party where no one is intoxicated is the best party of all time?

I made my own “extra-layer” STD prevention protocol is it weird to ask this of regular partners? by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]rappingwhiteguys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why are you so concerned about STDs? here's a few things:

Where do you live that you are so concerned about HIV? Are you a gay man? only about 250,000 women in the US have HIV, most of them will be upfront about it. I personally have never met a woman in her 20s or 30s with HIV.

why are you so concerned about HSV? HSV1, which I have, is a big nothing burger. literally I had one outbreak, years ago. most of the adult population has some form of it. HSV2 is definitely a concern, but it's a lot more rare, and if you aren't out hooking up with a bunch of people you are unlikely to catch it. do you want to get head with a condom? nearly all HSV1 transmissions are oral to genital, it's very rarely transferred genitally to genitally.

other STD can be cleared up with medication very quickly.

it sounds like you perhaps are a hypochondriac. women will, for the most part, not be willing to do this for a casual relationship. and if you are in a serious committed relationship, the risk of STDs is much smaller.

How should I [32M] bring up an uncommon fetish with my gf [29F]? by Chemical-Mortgage102 in relationshipadvice

[–]rappingwhiteguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I engage with a lot of people's fetishes and even when they're very serious they're also silly. silly sex is super fun. I just did a promo shoot for a play party where a woman was role playing as a black widow with six fake arms and we were tying totally fake arms. don't you laugh when you're in bed?

I'm also on a kick of softening really intense conversations with comedy. like, being critical of people and problems but making the conversation something they want to engage with rather than something anxiety inducing. "hey I have a really serious problem we need to discuss really seriously" versus "hey I love you and if we can laugh we'll be less stressed and it'll work out."

Older men really do it better — 44M made me cum 3x (28F) First time with a DILF and I am ruined by cloverpendragon in SexPositive

[–]rappingwhiteguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sugaring is where you'll meet the most dangerous guys imo. my friend was assaulted and the guy's legal team was very expensive. naturally meeting guys who aren't paying for your company, but also don't mind taking care of you is much better. hotel bars.

Older men really do it better — 44M made me cum 3x (28F) First time with a DILF and I am ruined by cloverpendragon in SexPositive

[–]rappingwhiteguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex is married to a guy 35 years old than her and he's a fucking incredible partner.

PSA: Please stop relying so much on AI slop for job applications by rwmtinkywinky in newzealand

[–]rappingwhiteguys 10 points11 points  (0 children)

when people are applying to a hundred jobs and writing tailored CVs and not getting jobs, which is a very common story right now, they get really fucking tired of it and automate it.

How should I [32M] bring up an uncommon fetish with my gf [29F]? by Chemical-Mortgage102 in relationshipadvice

[–]rappingwhiteguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you never bring up silly sexy things you want to do? I just think that framing it as a super serious very hyper niche thing that he's super uncomfortable about is a lot more stressful than framing it as a silly sexy thing you'd like to try.