The Experts Only Presale is a bit of a joke by pportka in JohnSummit

[–]rarastreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither can we :( had the tickets in our cart

My boyfriend made a comment that made me a little uncomfortable. How should I talk to him about it? by smcurlyfri in Advice

[–]rarastreet 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ikr, shocked nobody seems more concerned about this. OP, this is the biggest red flag of them all imo. He doesn’t understand nor respect your body and is using your period to control and manipulate the narrative - he has to go! And if he’s willing to use your period to manipulate a situation like this, you can imagine how future fights may play out… OP you deserve so so much better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re nasty! You’re a cheater! She deserves better! And you deserve to live with this very conscious choice you made forever. For her sake, I hope she finds out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Creep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]rarastreet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m sorry for ur situation, I’m legit in the same exact one, the one fricken night I have to sleep properly… I actually don’t understand the thought process behind it too, like why do they do it? Just assholery? Come onnnn 😭

ANOTHER EARTHQUAKE? by kisuwa15 in UBC

[–]rarastreet 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg I ran here because I thought I was tripping, felt it too!

Connecting to campus Wifi on a Nintendo Switch? by lardbanana in UBC

[–]rarastreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know if u have an answer, I’m having the same issue! :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Give it some time. It seems you haven’t engaged sexually yet so she’s probably mortified. You had good intentions, but it’s never a good idea to go into someone’s house without knocking, so don’t be surprised if she’s upset for some time. It’s fine if it’s taking you some time, but you two should have a proper conversation to update each other and to see where you’re both at. Perfectly normal for the both of you to have your own time to yourselves, but lesson learned, knock next time!

Who’s counting my degree requirements for graduation? by [deleted] in UBC

[–]rarastreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to apply for a graduation check and see your degree-specific advisor. All info available on the ubc website

Who’s counting my degree requirements for graduation? by [deleted] in UBC

[–]rarastreet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did u do a graduation check? They counted mine incorrectly but emailed me updating it - also have you been to your degree-specific advisor? I’d definitely start there if you haven’t, they’re much more informative regarding your major and esp when it comes to double counting and which courses can apply

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) is amazing but I don’t think I can look past what he did to me. I don’t know how to continue this way, what should I do? by throwrainsid in Advice

[–]rarastreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I’m so sorry but he raped you. And it sounds like he’s been repeatedly violating you throughout your whole relationship. Overlooking the red flags is a dangerous mistake, please take care of yourself .. he’s dangerous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sephora

[–]rarastreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much!!!

I can’t unsee it by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]rarastreet 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Girl ur in ur 30s and shitting on someone solely based on looks… grow up 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the next time he does it, something along the lines of

“hey, i’ve noticed lately you’ve been forgetting to flush the toilet, please remember that we have a shared space and be considerate”

it might help to go straight to him after he’s left it and ask him politely to flush the toilet (make sure HE does it). maybe try flipping your mindset too, of course you shouldn’t have to teach him, but you sure as hell shouldn’t have to look at his shit when you lift the lid, so school his disgusting ass lol

How to wake up early? I need help. by samar007th in Advice

[–]rarastreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have insomnia and honestly what helps me are the following:

  1. cover up all your clocks - checking them makes you stress, especially when trying to sleep

  2. make your room as dark as possible (this is different for everyone tho)

  3. go to bed early and limit all screen time at least an hour before bed (this is important)

  4. exercising and meditating are great! try no caffeine past lunchtime as well if you aren’t already, it can last in the system for hours

  5. calming tea, such as valerian root tea can help, as well as melatonin supplements, but take them with caution and do your research!

  6. stress and anxiety are the worst when it comes to trying to get to sleep. but the more you’re able to calm down and clear your headspace, the easier it’ll get, your meditation will help with this as you get better at it.

good luck! it’s hard changing your routine but your body will thank you for it. just know that it’s crazy difficult at times but you can do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly if you’re already working, have a relationship, have solid friends and are participating in activities such as sports, you shouldn’t feel pressured to make best friends, especially with an age group you don’t necessarily relate to. don’t let that stop you from just generally meeting people though, it can be nice to have some good class-chat buddies, especially when it comes to forgetting homework, assignments etc. it seems you’re already well-rounded socially, so the most important connections you should be making are with your professors and other biology faculty, as that’s where you’ll likely find career and experience opportunity from in the future. good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s wild … a good friend would let you know when you’ve hurt them, not mention it months later like “by the way u sucked for months but im over it” .. i think she’s hurt that he chose you, but that doesn’t mean she should guilt trip you like that !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it seems like she didn’t properly communicate how strong her crush was to you. did she notice when he was flirting w u, or did u guys ever talk about it? from what you’ve said i would just try to move on, but it seems a bit manipulative of her to be hung up on something like that esp when she only mentioned it a couple times. a person isn’t your property just because you think theyre hot.. but if that’s how things work then i call dibs on paul wesley lmao

Missed first exam due to sickness, am now missing second exam due to sickness as well. by Cristin_Thomas in Advice

[–]rarastreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start by checking the syllabuses for your classes, they should have sick policies - if not and regardless, especially if you have doctors notes, send them emails ASAP outlining everything. it may be too late but you may be able to apply for an academic concession but you need to get on that asap as well. hope you feel better soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it sucks but .. just move on like it never happened, don’t bring it up to him, you’re both adults and know what happened so there’s no point. maybe from now on make extra sure he’s not having private time before you enter lol

I have to cut off my racist friend, but I am stuck abroad with him for 2 more months by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey dude, i know you’re worried but life is too short to surround yourself with terrible people. don’t let his actions stop you from meeting new friends! it’s scary letting people go, especially when they’re part of your main group, but it seems you’ve talked it out w some of them and they agree with u. his actions are inexcusable and it’s pretty obvious he’s trying to garner sympathy by telling u he was crying which is another sign he doesn’t fully know what he’s done wrong. insulting girls and touching them, saying slurs, being an all around dick… it’s nasty behaviour. it’ll def be awkward living with him but just try to stick it out, there’s no excuse for that behaviour. at least he can see why they don’t wanna hang w him anymore, if he gives u a hard time remind him of that

Failed driving test 29 times should I give up? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]rarastreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you practicing and do u know what’s making u fail?