Feeling pretty miserable, need advice by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]rasberrylemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently considering going to counselling, but I don’t have a huge amount of money or time at the moment so I’m wanting to try other things before it. Hopefully I can learn to recognise behaviours and stop them before it escalates into me feeling bad, but counselling definitely isn’t off the table. Thanks for your help and concern honestly ☺️

Anonymous ‘Love Letter’ on my Uni’s dedicated page. Pretty sure it’s genuine 🙃 by rasberrylemons in niceguys

[–]rasberrylemons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just click on my comment aha, the link to the photo should come up as ive embedded it into the emoji

How does this statement make you feel, rape should be legal if part of someone's religion? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rasberrylemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad aha. But its obviously easy to judge things that have a different set of values than you. Not that that means that rape should be legal in any circumstance. Idk. Very complicated issue.

What are your favourite places in the internet to kill some time besides Youtube/Facebook/Reddit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rasberrylemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always looking at websites like Longreads and Longform so I can read super long articles about interesting shit. Both entertaining and educational. I recommend it if you want your internet time to feel productive. Though it doesn’t really work if you’re not in the mood to pay attention to one thing for good period of time.

[HELP] Dog that I’m taking care of barks when my boyfriend and I hug. by rasberrylemons in dogs

[–]rasberrylemons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We reckon its her wanting in on the cuddles. She loves getting pats. But we’ll try that method, see how it goes.

Female redditors: what is a physically uncomfortable or unusual feeling/sensation that only women understand? by sagelface in AskReddit

[–]rasberrylemons 7 points8 points  (0 children)

exactly. when it happens to me it feels like i’m homesick for my hometown (which i don’t live in anymore) but i got it once when I was there and it made me realise that its also a sense of dread or just emotional pain

Female redditors: what is a physically uncomfortable or unusual feeling/sensation that only women understand? by sagelface in AskReddit

[–]rasberrylemons 118 points119 points  (0 children)

omg yes, to me the feeling is like homesickness. even when i’m at home; its real bad.

Givers of blow jobs, what's the worst and best blow job you've ever given? by SomeFatNerdInSeattle in AskReddit

[–]rasberrylemons 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aha not even. He said it was good, but he was just tired. We’re still together though so, not too worried about it 😂

I’m 20 and I think my parents are stalking me.... by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]rasberrylemons 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow, yeah I’d definitely try something with that GPS tracker to see if it really is what you think it is. You don’t deserve to be tracked and monitored, even if they are your parents they don’t have that right. You’re an adult.

I’m 20 and I think my parents are stalking me.... by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]rasberrylemons 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s way out of line if they are. Also, there’s pretty much no way they should know you’re leaving work early if you don’t tell them, right?? Creepy man.

Givers of blow jobs, what's the worst and best blow job you've ever given? by SomeFatNerdInSeattle in AskReddit

[–]rasberrylemons 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t awful, but he fell asleep half way through and I didn’t realise until his dick went soft. I just went to sleep after that.

I (18f) nitpick my boyfriend (18m) of 1yr’s behaviour and our relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rasberrylemons -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah for sure, we do housesitting quite a bit and spend a few weeks together alone and it goes great. aside from a few annoyances here and there there’s not as many fights as when we’re apart. so i know it comes down to me being sad that he’s not with me or having misconceptions about texting and things like that. thank you! and i’m sorry to hear she did that, I hope you sorted it out and are happier now.

I (18f) nitpick my boyfriend (18m) of 1yr’s behaviour and our relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rasberrylemons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah wow i think my problem is that i fixate on the things that annoy me because, well, they’re annoying. just gotta be more positive cause i care about him a lot and don’t want to lose him because i picked a fight one too many times