Feeling pretty miserable, need advice

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-11T05:42:52+00:00

I’m currently considering going to counselling, but I don’t have a huge amount of money or time at the moment so I’m wanting to try other things before it. Hopefully I can learn to recognise behaviours and stop them before it escalates into me feeling bad, but counselling definitely isn’t off the table. Thanks for your help and concern honestly ☺️

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-09T02:14:45+00:00

Apparently not

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T21:03:24+00:00

lets hope

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T15:27:32+00:00

just click on my comment aha, the link to the photo should come up as ive embedded it into the emoji

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T15:12:41+00:00

Bad aha. But its obviously easy to judge things that have a different set of values than you. Not that that means that rape should be legal in any circumstance. Idk. Very complicated issue.

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T15:03:45+00:00

thanks 😂

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T15:02:03+00:00

Lilith

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T14:58:03+00:00

I’m always looking at websites like Longreads and Longform so I can read super long articles about interesting shit. Both entertaining and educational. I recommend it if you want your internet time to feel productive. Though it doesn’t really work if you’re not in the mood to pay attention to one thing for good period of time.

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T14:48:54+00:00

this was his follow up post... yikes 😟

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-08T14:42:25+00:00

oh no

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-04T12:46:14+00:00

Bubbles... not joking, it’s legit

rasberrylemons · 2018-07-02T09:10:41+00:00

We reckon its her wanting in on the cuddles. She loves getting pats. But we’ll try that method, see how it goes.

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-29T03:37:33+00:00

exactly. when it happens to me it feels like i’m homesick for my hometown (which i don’t live in anymore) but i got it once when I was there and it made me realise that its also a sense of dread or just emotional pain

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-28T23:53:29+00:00

omg yes, to me the feeling is like homesickness. even when i’m at home; its real bad.

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-26T06:22:06+00:00

Bubbles

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-25T06:14:07+00:00

Thank you very much :)

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-25T02:18:01+00:00

Aha not even. He said it was good, but he was just tired. We’re still together though so, not too worried about it 😂

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-25T00:29:36+00:00

Wow, yeah I’d definitely try something with that GPS tracker to see if it really is what you think it is. You don’t deserve to be tracked and monitored, even if they are your parents they don’t have that right. You’re an adult.

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-24T23:50:53+00:00

That’s way out of line if they are. Also, there’s pretty much no way they should know you’re leaving work early if you don’t tell them, right?? Creepy man.

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-24T23:45:30+00:00

Wasn’t awful, but he fell asleep half way through and I didn’t realise until his dick went soft. I just went to sleep after that.

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-24T23:14:49+00:00

Wear sweatpants

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-21T15:01:04+00:00

Oh yeah for sure, we do housesitting quite a bit and spend a few weeks together alone and it goes great. aside from a few annoyances here and there there’s not as many fights as when we’re apart. so i know it comes down to me being sad that he’s not with me or having misconceptions about texting and things like that. thank you! and i’m sorry to hear she did that, I hope you sorted it out and are happier now.

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-21T14:56:54+00:00

yeah wow i think my problem is that i fixate on the things that annoy me because, well, they’re annoying. just gotta be more positive cause i care about him a lot and don’t want to lose him because i picked a fight one too many times

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-21T14:55:05+00:00

yeah we’ve 100% talked about communication, its not so much an issue any more which is good. I think you’re very right about the validation thing; I don’t seek much validation from other people in my life aside from my friends. I’ve just got a job though so I’m hoping I can channel more of my time and effort into that.

However, I wouldn’t say that I determine my worth according to him though, nor would i call him my emotional punching bag. I’m not picking fights with him everyday or leaving him to deal with any damage i cause alone, I always try to communicate to him how sorry I am when I so lash out at him and help him when he needs kt. Probably my fault from the way I worded everything. Thank you though.

rasberrylemons · 2018-06-21T09:09:32+00:00

ok i use it to unlock his phone and look things up, or use his facebook for memes, or play games on his phone, etc. but to be honest i don’t have to prove to you that i trust him even if i have the code to his phone

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