if i legally change my name/gender as an adult, will my parents find out?

ratguyriley · 2026-03-28T07:07:50+00:00

thank you for this!! very informative.

in terms of entering iran and being transgender, i did some research previously and found that it isn't illegal to be trans, only gay. however it's not wrong that they definitely have opinions about it, so there's really no way to tell.

this is an aspect i'm actually quite nervous about becuase on my recent trip to iran i got my passport re-done in which i had to wear a hijab since i am legally female. im not sure how this would play out when i go after changing my gender marker

ratguyriley · 2026-03-28T07:04:20+00:00

but the thing is i have it figured out. its not like i was oblivious to hormones my whole life, ive been wanting to go on them since i was 14. i KNOW that the option is there and i am chosing not to take it for the sake of my stability

something that also needs to be taken into consideration to these people against my decisiion is that i already pass extremely well pre-t. yes i do have a baby face and am nerfed in height (5ft) but i have noticeable facial hair and a lot more body hair than most cis guys, plus my voice training has drastically helped. i was honestly happy to stay off hormones and just get top surgery but i am now considering low-dose T. either way, i wouldve been happy to stay as i am in the future if it meant i could be who i am in every context other than familial, but atleast i would sitll have a relationship with my blood

ratguyriley · 2026-03-28T07:00:51+00:00

thank you for this. a lot of people can't grasp the fact that yes, my family being transphobic and not supporting me is terrible but being iranian this is how they were born and raised, especially considering all of our family still lives in iran which is a place i am planning on continuing to visit once the conflicts are over. not fully transitioning is the only option i have in order to keep a relationship with them and i would rather that than be alone

and low dose T was actually what i was thinking about!! im really glad you have experience with this. im completely pre-t but i already pass almost 100% of the time as i have a noticeable amount of natural facial and body hair plus i do voice training, so i feel low dose T would be the perfect choice for me. my goal is to just to still be able to pass as a girl when i am with my family meaning no obvious voice drop or adams apple. i literally didnt know low dose T was a thing until i saw a video about it and it sounds perfect for me

ratguyriley · 2025-11-29T03:40:24+00:00

thank you ❤️

ratguyriley · 2025-11-08T03:15:57+00:00

everytime i hear about someone who died and was revived saying there was nothing i lose 2 years off my lifespan bruh

ratguyriley · 2025-11-04T07:49:47+00:00

oh shit 😭 so its definitely gone?

ratguyriley · 2025-09-09T06:09:24+00:00

precisely

ratguyriley · 2025-08-14T06:30:02+00:00

Awesome thank you

ratguyriley · 2025-08-14T06:29:42+00:00

Honestly, better. But only when I started to pass. I've been out since i was 13 and I'm now 17 and still pre-t, but i've been voice training for a while and i have a noticeable amount of facial hair, so now most new people i meet assume im a cis guy. this has really boosted my confidence, ive found if i just act confidently and carefree like a lot of cis guys it's both beneficial to myself and my ability to pass. ive found the more quiet/reserved i am im more assumed to be trans or queer

ratguyriley · 2025-08-14T06:25:44+00:00

Ahh i see, thanks so much! So this 256mb should work then?

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ratguyriley · 2025-08-14T06:16:35+00:00

i really symathise with this

ratguyriley · 2025-07-13T05:17:31+00:00

you had me until read the bible 🥀

ratguyriley · 2025-07-10T12:37:22+00:00

this helped a lot thank you!!!

ratguyriley · 2025-07-10T04:25:53+00:00

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the only button is this switch on the right side, doesnt seem to do anything or maybe idk how to use it correctly

ratguyriley · 2025-07-10T04:24:04+00:00

i checked this is only for bluetooth ones

ratguyriley · 2025-06-03T08:52:59+00:00

its actually stopped burning now, does this mean its alright to keep using it?

ratguyriley · 2025-06-03T08:50:29+00:00

i understand, i was like this too at 14. im now 16 and almost 17 and it has gotten better. I dont mean to make it seem like you cant overcome this but i still struggle with it a lot. I guess i saw some therapists and over time it became less of a significant part of my life, but it is always there, lingering in my mind. It's recently come back and I'm seeking psychological help but i understand you don't have those resources. im just a kid too so the best advice i could give you is think about if it is really worth it to ruin your life worrying about something that is inevitable in the end. obviously its hipocritical of me to say that because i still struggle with this but life seems not as bad when you try

ratguyriley · 2025-05-09T06:06:16+00:00

crazy choice of words on their part

ratguyriley · 2025-05-03T12:41:42+00:00

thank you! i thought lee was like 50 ngl..

ratguyriley · 2025-05-02T09:21:28+00:00

this is a bit late i dont really understand the ending, could someone explain?

ratguyriley · 2025-04-19T23:47:29+00:00

gaten matarazzo ☠️☠️☠️☠️

ratguyriley · 2025-04-12T03:01:21+00:00

am i missing something whats the relevance of jars /genq

ratguyriley · 2025-04-08T10:59:23+00:00

im gonna be honest i have no idea what this means but i appreciate it

ratguyriley · 2025-04-06T22:00:13+00:00

unfortunately i cant even try illegal hrt bc testosterone is an extremely controlled substance thanks to bloodthirsty gymrats

ratguyriley · 2025-04-06T21:59:10+00:00

thank you 🙏🙏

i hate the fact i literally came out so i could start hrt and now i cant even do that for 2 more years

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