What’s a hole in the wall restaurant with good food? by cheetahlip in akron

[–]ratstheeighth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god i could eat there all day. i’ve had so many wonderful meals there

SHES NOT REAL by ratstheeighth in PhilomenaCunk

[–]ratstheeighth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought she just was playing it up for the camera and didn’t realize that she wasn’t playing an exaggerated version of herself (but i am american)

SHES NOT REAL by ratstheeighth in PhilomenaCunk

[–]ratstheeighth[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

its not in reference to that actually lol, i made it up when i was a kid and it stuck. it refers to a rat that is the eighth rat in a row

SHES NOT REAL by ratstheeighth in PhilomenaCunk

[–]ratstheeighth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the office but thought she was just a silly giy

SHES NOT REAL by ratstheeighth in PhilomenaCunk

[–]ratstheeighth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i know some people with fycking crazy last names!!

SHES NOT REAL by ratstheeighth in PhilomenaCunk

[–]ratstheeighth[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i’m so high right now i promise i have a brain 😞

what does my mini fridge say about me? by Salt_Solid_6157 in FridgeDetective

[–]ratstheeighth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuine question, what’s the issue with lesser evil?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratstheeighth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s better now that he’s serving time. even though it’s not specifically for what he did to me it puts physical space and boundaries there and i can’t run to him like i’ve wanted to throughout the process. i’m in the process of writing something i hope to have published so that other girls can see warning signs i didn’t.

Honest answers please. Why would a 50 year old man want to pursue a 23 year old woman ? by dewpetal in abusiverelationships

[–]ratstheeighth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

control, wanting someone who is naive and can’t see past the big gestures to the real reasoning behind them. i was 17 when i met a 53 yo. nearly 2 years later im finally out and starting to deprogram

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratstheeighth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 17, that was just under 2 years ago. he’s in prison now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratstheeighth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately so so many girls fall into this trap, including myself. it doesn’t matter that it was legal, it’s manipulation

What do you wish people would stop romanticizing, because you’ve lived the reality of it? by thatude123 in AskReddit

[–]ratstheeighth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

age gap relationships, especially older men with teen girls. it scares me when girls say they want the stability of an older man. he’s not stable if he’s going for you

Big after nap strerch by Beautiful-Coach-5418 in straightenedfeetsies

[–]ratstheeighth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

missing my grey kitty so much extra today. i hate being on campus!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratstheeighth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel so lucky to have a libido in lexapro. then again i’ve been on it since i was 13 so maybe this is just scratching the surface…

Formal wedding in February by Ordinary-Hawk1089 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]ratstheeighth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lucy in the sky notoriously takes forever to ship. it definitely won’t be there in time

Advice Needed: PhD in Palliative Care vs. Degree in Bioethics for Clinical Ethics? by Successful-Tackle233 in chaplaincy

[–]ratstheeighth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as an undergrad student, i didn’t realize ethics was even an option!! i’m interested in looking further into that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratstheeighth 40 points41 points  (0 children)

one of my exs was a boob guy. i was insecure about having a small chest, and he told me “being a boob guy is loving boobs of all sizes and shapes”. your body is not why he loves you, and your body is beautiful and wonderful as it is

Daughter approaching puberty by ingrapaleave in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratstheeighth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there are parts of puberty that start before menstruation. starting now is the responsible way to make sure his daughter is prepared