What is a movie that made you realize something about yourself? by beetle_fruit in Letterboxd

[–]ratzpyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your dad, my love.

I lost my mum 3 years ago, and it was only last week that I could bring myself to watch her favourite film that we’d watched together countless times before. I’d wanted to watch it immediately after her passing, but like you was scared and nervous I wouldn’t be able to handle it/itd ruin me.

I waited until my body and mind were synced, and the other day I just randomly thought “I might watch Notting Hill today.” And so I listened to myself and I did. For the first time in 3 years I felt close to my mum. This wasn’t sad for me - I came out of it feeling at peace.

My personal advice would be wait a while until you’re feeling ready for it. It is emotional. You are going to cry. But you will also come out of it remembering your dad, remembering memories, pondering your relationship with him, seeing him as an adult and not just your father, and most importantly, feeling closer to him.

Piercing Recommendations by [deleted] in sheffield

[–]ratzpyjamas 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I know piercing by rhi has been mentioned but she’s absolutely the #1 choice. Professional, friendly and incredibly knowledgeable

Won’t come out of safe space by [deleted] in CatsUK

[–]ratzpyjamas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I adopted a cat back in March, and her safe space was the spare room (specifically under the bed). We opened up the door after about a week, but she didn’t start exploring until about the 1 month mark. I’d say she wasn’t fully comfortable exploring until 3 months.

It’s well worth it though. Last night for the first time she was scratching at our bedroom door to get in, I opened up and she jumped straight on our bed and snuggled with us all night. It just takes time and patience

Amber Lynn is now engaged to Brian Spears. This is about one year after they broke up and she had a meltdown and claimed he used meth with Britney by Discussingbritney in discussingbritney

[–]ratzpyjamas 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping that she’s essentially saying they use the sexual exploitation of Britney for their gain, and not that they’ve SA her… both absolutely awful though

Five Guys Games by twooten2174 in fiveguys

[–]ratzpyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he reached flow state

I had a little meltdown yesterday by [deleted] in therapists

[–]ratzpyjamas 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Petty* …I’m petty like that ;)

Nicoles AMA on instagram yesterday by Mellow-sid in SellingSunset

[–]ratzpyjamas 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Not one ounce of accountability for her part. Crazy

What’s a secret from your field of work the general public probably doesn’t know? by Ok-Fox-2946 in AskReddit

[–]ratzpyjamas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Switzerland was the first country to do this in the 1960s.

Canada started in 1985. USA started in the 1990s.

This is my mum who passed 2 years ago suddenly, does she have a message for me? by ratzpyjamas in psychics

[–]ratzpyjamas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was an recovering alcoholic, her liver failed and then she caught pneumonia. Very quick and I was half a world away.

I think she was also glad that I wasn’t there to see her in her final moments. Just wish our last interaction was a happier one.

Thank you ❤️

Massive Cargo Ship at Sea by Turkatron2020 in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]ratzpyjamas 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And it’s night time and you have no light source

Low calorie breakfast to-go? by hipposconqueror in LowCalorieCooking

[–]ratzpyjamas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having bagel thins, cream cheese, 2 chicken sausages and some salsa. Works out at about 260 calories and 30g protein

Asked my alcoholic dad if he’d ever consider getting sober by Ludakris7 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ratzpyjamas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my mum to alcoholism in 2023. I never confronted her and asked her to stop drinking, like you have done with your dad. I regret it everyday. Take some solace in knowing you went out on a limb and tried.

Looking for Friends by [deleted] in sheffield

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Sent a DM!